|
Anonymous #10
|
 Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again  [Re: pachoo]
#15238530 - 10/17/11 03:28 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
|
|
I was really close friends with one of my brother's close friends, she started hanging out and getting close with my house mate and she started coming over to party every weekend with us. Meanwhile her boyfriend would always come onto me whenever we were out, he would lean in and whisper to me that he wanted to fuck me. It started getting me thinking about bad things. I tried to keep it out of my mind but I would always wonder about what it would be like. But I have so much love for his girlfriend, she's one of those people everyone absolutely loves, gets everyone in the room laughing. Anyway she came over to party with the girls one weekend and she's a hairdresser, and I needed a haircut bad, so she happily cut it. We headed out to the club and I was so wasted I lost the girls pretty much straight away. I didn't really mind as I was so drunk I was going to head home soon anyway. As I was leaving the club her boyfriend came up to me and started hitting on me once more, I was so wasted that I agreed to go home with him. We got back to his place and one thing led to another pretty quickly, I was so scared that she would just walk through his front door looking for him that I asked if we could move to the bedroom, he didn't seem to be worried at all but happily obliged. We moved a chest of drawers against his door and I pretty much passed out after that, I can't remember much, if anything but I woke up with my underwear all twisted up and confused. I left first thing in the morning and came home feeling like absolute shit, it didn't even matter if we did or didn't, I think we most likely would have, but the fact was I was in bed with her boyfriend and it killed me to think I had done such a thing. I talked to my housemate who had become close with her and she agreed with my decision to tell her, I had a feeling that she would have told her even if I didn't considering how close they had gotten. So I told her the truth about what had happened. She instantly hated me and I don't blame her.
I waited a long time before I even tried to talk to her, I'm from a small town so everyone found out and I just hung my head in shame. When it had calmed down a bit I saw her in the club and started talking to her, I ended up in tears telling her how sorry I was and told her that if one thing good had come out of the situation was that her cheating boyfriend was now out of the picture and that she deserved much better. She turned to me and said, well I'm actually still with him, and she turned and walked off.
I was gob smacked, forgive him and not me, what's the difference? Obviously she had only heard his side of the story, but seriously she must have been blind.
Anyway that was about 4 years ago now, water is under the bridge and she can say a word or two to me now. I'm sure she doesn't think the most of me but she can tolerate me, probably because she knows how much i regret it and she's so close to my brother to not see me around often.
But here's a twist, I had a heap of old video footage I was going through before leaving to go travelling a few months ago, it was from one of our house parties that the girl and her boyfriend were at, as well as my boyfriend at the time, i was going around recording people and came to him to interview him, he asked me to take the camera away (and i hadn't even watched this footage since i took it those many years ago), i kept the camera on record but held it to the ground and you can hear him whispering in my ear how badly he wanted to fuck me.
Hmmmm I wish I could only have shown her when it happened, might have changed her mind about him sooner.. thankfully they're not still together!!
|
 CounterCulturest
-Positive Mental Attitude-
Registered: 01/18/10
Posts: 3,078
Loc: At yo door Nigga
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #10]
#15239194 - 10/17/11 05:59 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
|
|
I, "anon number 9" got a warning for flaming. Which I still disagree with, but I replied to the mod and he explained it and I see where he is coming from. Although I had good intentions, my words were harsh and I guess the mod just doesn't really like my attitude. Which is fine. He was cool and I understand why he gave me a warning. He sorta made me realize that the Sex forums should maybe be treated a bit differently than other forums since sex and relationship could be more likely a sensitive subject for people than acid and ecstasy is. If ya know what I mean.
I prolly won't be postin around heya no mo and if I do, I'm going to watch my words VERY closely.
|
automan
blasted chipmunk
Registered: 09/18/03
Posts: 6,718
|
|
Quote:
CounterCulturest said:
I, "anon number 9" got a warning for flaming. Which I still disagree with, but I replied to the mod and he explained it and I see where he is coming from. Although I had good intentions, my words were harsh and I guess the mod just doesn't really like my attitude. Which is fine. He was cool and I understand why he gave me a warning. He sorta made me realize that the Sex forums should maybe be treated a bit differently than other forums since sex and relationship could be more likely a sensitive subject for people than acid and ecstasy is. If ya know what I mean.
I prolly won't be postin around heya no mo and if I do, I'm going to watch my words VERY closely.
It wasnt me that warned you, but I wouldve done the same. It wasnt really what you said as much as using the anon function to say it. If you're going to give borderline trolling/harsh advice, own up to it with your screen name. Don't hide behind anon to say it. If you'd like to discuss it further, feel free to pm me, but let's stop hijacking this thread.
--------------------
No, no, you're not thinking, you're just being logical. ~ Niels Bohr
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: pachoo]
#15240534 - 10/17/11 10:57 PM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
it's super tricky... she is still friends with her ex/bf/whatever and he is still insistent on trying to get a relationship back with her.. she said going away is going to be really good because she can get away from it, and it gives us an oppurtunity to hang out which is what we've been wanting to do for ages without having to sneak around
its pretty fucked really, and it's a horrible thing but i dunno i always have much more fun hanging out with her than i do anyone else, there's this other huge project going on in my life right now which should take all my time and energy but i can't sleep at night and i can't focus because all i can think of is hanging out with her so idk what else to do but just follow what my heart is telling me and just be with her
blech
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #10]
#15240548 - 10/17/11 11:00 PM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
anon10 i have heard that story happen a few times before its pretty fucked and i find in a lot of cases girls are tended to forgiv e their boyfriends over friends im sure i could try and pull apart the psychology of it but in both instances ive heard of it happening the friend aways gets exiled and the couple remain on better ground
|
 remember_me
Registered: 09/18/11
Posts: 209
Loc: Florida
Last seen: 5 months, 8 days
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15241438 - 10/18/11 02:25 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Anonymous said:
anon10 i have heard that story happen a few times before its pretty fucked and i find in a lot of cases girls are tended to forgiv e their boyfriends over friends im sure i could try and pull apart the psychology of it but in both instances ive heard of it happening the friend aways gets exiled and the couple remain on better ground
Which really makes no sense right, if my girlfriend i plan on being with for a long long time(forever probably  ) cheated on me i dont think theres any way i would stay with her, it would be her trying to make up for it forever and it wouldnt be the same. Why pursue the relationship like that
--------------------
 From my backyard photocred my GF
|
remember_me
Registered: 09/18/11
Posts: 209
Loc: Florida
Last seen: 5 months, 8 days
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: remember_me]
#15241444 - 10/18/11 02:26 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
When are you going on that road trip that sounds like its gunna be a good experience.
--------------------
From my backyard photocred my GF
|
moonrockmushy
certifiedpoopface
Registered: 07/01/05
Posts: 5,521
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: remember_me]
#15242807 - 10/18/11 02:54 PM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
its pretty fucked really, and it's a horrible thing but i dunno i always have much more fun hanging out with her than i do anyone else, there's this other huge project going on in my life right now which should take all my time and energy but i can't sleep at night and i can't focus because all i can think of is hanging out with her so idk what else to do but just follow what my heart is telling me and just be with her
Dude, I hate to say it, but this just sounds like you are infatuated with the girl and I think there are some other wierd psychological things going on as far as you lacking confidence, integrity, and respect for so-called friends.
I would say the best thing to do is back off from the situation and gauge her reaction, see if you see things differently after a while. Use your project as an excuse to distance yourself from her, then see what has changed.
Doing things on your own is a confidence builder anyway and will give you the skills you need to meet other cool girls.
|
remember_me
Registered: 09/18/11
Posts: 209
Loc: Florida
Last seen: 5 months, 8 days
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: moonrockmushy]
#15243906 - 10/18/11 07:26 PM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
moonrockmushy said:
Quote:
its pretty fucked really, and it's a horrible thing but i dunno i always have much more fun hanging out with her than i do anyone else, there's this other huge project going on in my life right now which should take all my time and energy but i can't sleep at night and i can't focus because all i can think of is hanging out with her so idk what else to do but just follow what my heart is telling me and just be with her
Dude, I hate to say it, but this just sounds like you are infatuated with the girl and I think there are some other wierd psychological things going on as far as you lacking confidence, integrity, and respect for so-called friends.
I would say the best thing to do is back off from the situation and gauge her reaction, see if you see things differently after a while. Use your project as an excuse to distance yourself from her, then see what has changed.
Doing things on your own is a confidence builder anyway and will give you the skills you need to meet other cool girls.
This. But are you willing to try it cause it sounds like a good idea but i doubt you will try it.
--------------------
From my backyard photocred my GF
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: remember_me]
#15245081 - 10/19/11 12:12 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
Probably too far deep in now... beyond the point of no return..?
|
remember_me
Registered: 09/18/11
Posts: 209
Loc: Florida
Last seen: 5 months, 8 days
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15245866 - 10/19/11 03:44 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
Ya it was just a suggestion, if you continue what your doing i think this is gunna work out. If it doesnt it probably wasnt gunna anyways and if it does its clearly been meant to be for some time now. And youll be thinking why didnt i do this sooner lol.
Actually either way sooner would be better.
--------------------
From my backyard photocred my GF
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: remember_me]
#15274490 - 10/25/11 03:07 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
well I just got back home from our road trip away. it was... really fucking good. we had a great time. i got to catch up with some friends as well, but we went to a heap of stuff, the ballet, a world-renowned vineyard/art gallery, a heap of restaraunts, ate, drank and had a blast.
it was kind of fucked though, every night we'd go out and have dinner and a few wines and get home and ravage each other (no sex) and then the next day wake up and she'd be getting hardcore messages and phonecalls from her ex... she's told him she wants space and whatnot... idk... only last night did we actually start having sex and then i just kind of freaked out and had to stop because i couldn't go on with the shit rattling in my head.. she asked whyy i stopped and i just said i couldn't do it with the guilt, we fell asleep and woke up and she said sorry for trying but i said sorry for stopping,... like we wake up the next day and (she told me as well) we want nothing more than to like grab each other, hold hands, kiss or w/e but feel this odd giult or something holding back like "should i/shouldnt i" or something
things are kind of weird, we had so much fun together and i fucking loved hanging out with her and spending time together but then she'd get like a email or phonecall and like a heacvy weight of 'wtf are we doing" would come ovver us, then we'd sort of keep on and start having fun again. i am falling the fuck in love with this girl and it's getting worse... i tried to tell her i was falling in love with her but didnt think she'd need the drama of having to deal with that too, i dont know what to do from here.. i didnt think w'd have so much fun together but it was awesome... we laughed and carried on and had a blast. its just fucked the situation, i can't even look at her now without kind of melting.. she is getting more and more beautiful every time i look at her. she had a really heavy phoncall from her ex and kind of went all quiet for half a day and went out by herself for a waalk, then came back and we went to dinner, i feel like i need to give her space or something and i cant really act as counsel or anything because i have conflifct of interest... i almost want to grab her and just run away with her or somethingm it feels like we were meant to be together or something but like it just cant happen which is so fucking frustrating because i want nothing more than her
|
Anonymous #6
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15274630 - 10/25/11 04:21 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
I think your space idea sounds pretty good, but i dont think you need to feel that guilty about having sex its almost the same as what your doing now. You guys are going to enjoy it i dont think you should leave her hanging on the sex it probably made her feel really bad. Like she messed up
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #6]
#15274672 - 10/25/11 04:47 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
problem is that I don't really want to give her space, miss her already. she mentioned today that she wished we didn't stop last night (was still horny etc) I don't want to give her space I want to be with her which is pretty fucked. dunno how i'll sleep tonight..
|
Anonymous #6
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15274717 - 10/25/11 05:34 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
So dont give her space and go all the way next time. I dont think theres much difference between what your doing now and sex anyways. Have sex and then sleep well in each others arms
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #6]
#15274837 - 10/25/11 07:27 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
i guess the punishment here is just dealing with the guilt during
|
Anonymous #6
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15274883 - 10/25/11 08:01 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
I dont think you should feel guilty during the sex tho, just enjoy it
|
Anonymous #6
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #6]
#15274889 - 10/25/11 08:03 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
Enjoy it for the same reason you enjoy hanging out, you guys are so close it can be amazing
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #6]
#15279412 - 10/26/11 02:58 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
you talk like you know me :P
|
Anonymous #6
|
Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15279537 - 10/26/11 03:57 AM (1 year, 6 months ago) |
|
|
Lol your right i sound creepy, You just have the most interesting story ive read on here. Ill leave you alone go have fun lol 
|
|
Images only 
Threaded
Previous
Index
Next
Edit 
Reply 
Anonymous
