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 I'm a virgin and my dick is microscopic!   3
#14321229 - 04/20/11 03:52 AM (2 years, 30 days ago) |
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I'm 18 (boy) and I've been struggling with loneliness and losing my virginity for years now!  I used to be chronically depressed due to my loneliness (even suicidal) but I'm not so depressed over it anymore. But still, I can't believe that this still hasn't happened! Ive never even kissed a girl! (well I did when I was very young but that doesn't count. I mean since puberty...)
I used to be extremely fat and I thought that's why I couldn't get any, so I lost weight and still I get none, so then I thought it was just my demeanor so I made an effort to change that and still nothing, I thought it was my hair (which used to be really long) so I cut it, etc, etc. I thought that college would be different than high school, more opportunities, etc. What more (bar hiring a prostitute) can I do? Surely there's someone out there for me?! And am I alone or are there others out there?
Edited by Anonymous (04/21/11 02:23 AM)
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 TheDukeofLizards
you should take larger doses
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 owls
just let go!
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i'm 23 and a virgin somehow, so don't feel bad. for me it has to do with fear of intimacy and an inability to love myself for who i am i've discovered.. moreso the fear of intimacy thing. deep seeded issues stemming from childhood. i've had more than my fair share of chances to get laid, it has just never felt right to me..
it's all gravy though, i'm working on it. maybe you have some type of similar issue? hard to say. dig deeper. it sounds like you could possibly benefit from learning to just be yourself and love yourself for who you are, not trying to change yourself to what you think people will love you for
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its all good man, dont sweat it... life changes fast and things end up happening one way or the other. life waves up and down man. and when you can, use those downs to make your up feel even more 'ohhh so sweet my friend'. trust me in life... youll do fine... things change
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skiddy
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Forget about the sex and act like a rockstar!
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STR80180
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 Re: I'm a virgin! [Re: skiddy] 1
#14321297 - 04/20/11 04:17 AM (2 years, 30 days ago) |
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skiddy said:
Forget about the sex and act like a rockstar!
Yeah, ask yourself what would Frank Sinatra do?
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lifeinallday
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Re: I'm a virgin! [Re: owls]
#14321300 - 04/20/11 04:19 AM (2 years, 30 days ago) |
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owls said:
for me it has to do with fear of intimacy and an inability to love myself for who i am i've discovered.. moreso the fear of intimacy thing. deep seeded issues stemming from childhood.
that makes sense 
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shroomedalice
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frank sinatra ????
is this the shroomery or what hehe
try frank zappa ;P
I lost mine at 13 to an 18 year old.
kind of confused me to be honest but hey you get what you get.
better to just think about your future study hard get a good
job and make money.
I know its not all about money but a lot of women love the cash.
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Psychoslut
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Are you hanging out with girls at all man? You do know you have to talk to them first before they will fuck you, it sucks but its in the rule book, i checked.
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[quote]KristiMidocean said:
Good now thats clear.WHO FUCKING CARES. If I am fat u all keep pointing it out like its suppose to be a secret.LIke u really have nothing better to do then make fat jokes. If o know its like I do I know yall can come up with NEW AND BETTER SHIT . This shit is old and boring . I left in the first place cause this shit got boring not because of the fat jokes . Fat jokes dont bother me but seriously its old[/quote]
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Anonymous #2
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Yo, man.
I was a virgin till I was 20 (21 now).
I had never kissed a girl or done anything with a girl until I got my first girlfriend.
All I did was be myself. She came to me and since then, I've had sex WAY TOO MUCH lol.
Find some common places of interest, or social settings.
School and work are great places (I met my gf at work)
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Anonymous said:
I'm a virgin!
CUT IT OUT
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potgrrl
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Anonymous said:
I'm 18 (boy) and I've been struggling with loneliness and losing my virginity for years now! I used to be chronically depressed due to my loneliness (even suicidal) but I'm not so depressed over it anymore. But still, I can't believe that this still hasn't happened! Ive never even kissed a girl! (well I did when I was very young but that doesn't count. I mean since puberty...)
I used to be extremely fat and I thought that's why I couldn't get any, so I lost weight and still I get none, so then I thought it was just my demeanor so I made an effort to change that and still nothing, I thought it was my hair (which used to be really long) so I cut it, etc, etc. I thought that college would be different than high school, more opportunities, etc. What more (bar hiring a prostitute) can I do? Surely there's someone out there for me?! And am I alone or are there others out there?
Girls can feel this stuff ooze off of you, and the only ones who don't turn tail and run from it are ones who are looking to use and abuse you.
Work out, eat right, and take care of yourself.
Figure out what your life passions are and work towards them. What's your gift to the world?
Hang with male friends and embrace your healthy masculinity.
Create an awesome life with a solid plan for the future, and you'll find a LOT of women will want to join in.
(Note: they'll hang around you but probably not be direct about the fact that they'd like to be invited to be more than just buddies with you - ask for dates from the girls who show positive interest in the fact that you take care of yourself or have good male friends you hold in high regard, or who get a twinkle in their eye when they listen to you talk about your life passions outside of the realm of women - those are ones who will cheer you on, instead of trying to control you into the corner)
Love yourself first, then others will be convinced you're a lovable person, too. If you show others you don't love yourself, why should they be bothered to love you? Out of sympathy?
Yech.
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Edited by potgrrl (04/20/11 10:23 AM)
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Psychoslut said:
Are you hanging out with girls at all man? You do know you have to talk to them first before they will fuck you, it sucks but its in the rule book, i checked.
Ah, but there are times when mere eye contact conveys mutual interest, even with a complete stranger. A man learning how to hold intense but not "stalkerish" eye contact with a woman can get a lot of information without ever uttering a word.
Not to say he won't have to still talk to her to close the deal, but a lot can be said without any word at all 
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skiddy said:
Forget about the sex and act like a rockstar!
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potgrrl said:
Work out, eat right, and take care of yourself.
Figure out what your life passions are and work towards them.
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#14322009 - 04/20/11 10:56 AM (2 years, 30 days ago) |
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potgrrl said:
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Psychoslut said:
Are you hanging out with girls at all man? You do know you have to talk to them first before they will fuck you, it sucks but its in the rule book, i checked.
Ah, but there are times when mere eye contact conveys mutual interest, even with a complete stranger. A man learning how to hold intense but not "stalkerish" eye contact with a woman can get a lot of information without ever uttering a word.
Not to say he won't have to still talk to her to close the deal, but a lot can be said without any word at all
Yeah, we kick ass. All we have to do to get you to fuck us is look you in the eye.
Girls, nope hours and hours in the bathroom, mall, tanning bed, dieting etc.
it must suck trying to get laid being a girl.
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[quote]KristiMidocean said:
Good now thats clear.WHO FUCKING CARES. If I am fat u all keep pointing it out like its suppose to be a secret.LIke u really have nothing better to do then make fat jokes. If o know its like I do I know yall can come up with NEW AND BETTER SHIT . This shit is old and boring . I left in the first place cause this shit got boring not because of the fat jokes . Fat jokes dont bother me but seriously its old[/quote]
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potgrrl
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Psychoslut said:
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potgrrl said:
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Psychoslut said:
Are you hanging out with girls at all man? You do know you have to talk to them first before they will fuck you, it sucks but its in the rule book, i checked.
Ah, but there are times when mere eye contact conveys mutual interest, even with a complete stranger. A man learning how to hold intense but not "stalkerish" eye contact with a woman can get a lot of information without ever uttering a word.
Not to say he won't have to still talk to her to close the deal, but a lot can be said without any word at all
Yeah, we kick ass. All we have to do to get you to fuck us is look you in the eye.
Girls, nope hours and hours in the bathroom, mall, tanning bed, dieting etc.
it must suck trying to get laid being a girl.
Bathroom? Mall? Tanning bed? Heck, all I had to do was SWEAT and I had a line up of guys all googly eyed on me. (martial arts chick)
But yes, orbiting guys (the "friends" who want sex but won't get it) tend to get mad when we choose to sleep with someone else other than them. That's the most difficult part about getting laid that I've found there is.
Edited by potgrrl (04/20/11 11:05 AM)
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Re: I'm a virgin! [Re: potgrrl]
#14322050 - 04/20/11 11:09 AM (2 years, 30 days ago) |
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Ok what, Im having a hard time following what you said.
Did you say the hardest thing about a girl trying to get laid is having to reject all the guys friends?
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[quote]KristiMidocean said:
Good now thats clear.WHO FUCKING CARES. If I am fat u all keep pointing it out like its suppose to be a secret.LIke u really have nothing better to do then make fat jokes. If o know its like I do I know yall can come up with NEW AND BETTER SHIT . This shit is old and boring . I left in the first place cause this shit got boring not because of the fat jokes . Fat jokes dont bother me but seriously its old[/quote]
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Anonymous #4
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Re: I'm a virgin! [Re: potgrrl]
#14322063 - 04/20/11 11:14 AM (2 years, 30 days ago) |
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Im 18 and still got my V card, I have had several opprotunities throughout the years but never went for it. Its not all that hard, just be confident in your own skin and talk to girls more.
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Tri High
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Anonymous #4 said:
I'm a virgin!
CUT IT OUT
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claraclairvoyant
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Psychoslut said:
Ok what, Im having a hard time following what you said.
Did you say the hardest thing about a girl trying to get laid is having to reject all the guys friends?
i'm pretty sure she's saying not all girls have to put on a mask of makeup, go tanning, buy stupid expensive clothes at the mall, etc to get laid.
i kind of get the feeling you were joking with that comment, psychoslut. cause..it was stupid. only girls that want to fuck douchebag types are going to put that much effort into their appearance.
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