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 Re: Does Everyone Cheat?  [Re: uber_aj]
#14317378 - 04/19/11 03:15 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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I strongly disagree. It's not that hard to say "no, I won't fuck you cause I already have a girlfriend". It's not like you have to have incredible willpower. Maybe you just can't resist the pussy?
How often do you actually have to say that? I bet if it was as many times as the average girl has to down the advances of guys trolling for ass, you might slip now and then.
Let's say your g/f hasn't put out in a while, maybe she's gained a little weight, or started an addiction you don't like, or maybe you've just been arguing a lot lately. You've been fairly horny, and then you meet a girl who dresses in that perfect way, looks slightly better than your current g/f, perhaps she's a little more intelligent, you find out through innocent conversation that she shares all the same interests as you. Then lets say she knows exactly how to turn you on and makes a move...
I don't believe you'd shut her down. I'm not calling you a liar, I just don't believe that some sense of morality would stop you if the conditions were right. 
I'd get her number, break up with my gf who never put out and was getting fat, then bone her guilt-free 
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: Salomon]
#14317387 - 04/19/11 03:17 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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monogamy is quite the custom for an animal of a social nature, which herds not all men.
One of the cooler things I've read today.
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It could always be the reverse of that, they could have fast food at home and a thick juicy steak right in front of them...
Anyway, I'm not arguing that everybody cheats all the time. I'm arguing that there are certain factors and conditions that, if manifested, would prompt virtually everybody to cheat. Some people never have to face that moment, especially men who are often expected to make the first move. It's easy to imagine turning down some mediocre looking drunk girl at a party, who you'd suspect is a slut and might have an STD. It's easy to turn down someone who is aesthetically inferior to your current mate. That's not always the case though.
Not every person who cheats started in middle school and has a long history of cheating. I'd bet most of the cheaters who aren't serial cheaters never imagined that they would cheat, and would probably say something similar to what every non-cheater in this thread has stated.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: numonkei]
#14317416 - 04/19/11 03:20 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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numonkei said:
Does Everyone Cheat?
I've been with my woman for 9 years and I've never cheated on her, so to answer your question simply, NO!
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: uber_aj]
#14317450 - 04/19/11 03:27 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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I never cheated.
When I get this temptation to cheat, its because there is a deeper problem to resolve
Since I have a hard time getting emotionally involved, odds are i'm simply going to end it. After that, i'm free to do anything.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: uber_aj]
#14317548 - 04/19/11 03:46 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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uber_aj said:
I'd bet most of the cheaters who aren't serial cheaters never imagined that they would cheat, and would probably say something similar to what every non-cheater in this thread has stated.
And I bet most fat people never imagined they'd get fat, but the high-calorie food was too tempting and exercise felt too burdensome.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: numonkei]
#14317640 - 04/19/11 04:03 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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People who cheat are nothing but hypocrites.
You can choose either being in a long term relationship if it suits you, and if you are not happy with that for any reason end it.
You can alternatively choose too just fool around and have no type of comprise with someone.
It's easy.
Doing both is just wanting the second but not having the balls to risk ending up old and alone when no one else wants you, which is basically being a coward, worthless piece of shit.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: pouihi]
#14317711 - 04/19/11 04:15 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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I've been cheated on before..it sucks.
I've never cheated on anybody, and I've had 2 chances to do so.
I have, however, had sex with girls who I known had boyfriends, but I didnt know the boyfriend...whatever you want to call that. I would never do that to one of my friends, though.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: pouihi]
#14317878 - 04/19/11 04:42 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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pouihi said:
People who cheat are nothing but hypocrites.
You can choose either being in a long term relationship if it suits you, and if you are not happy with that for any reason end it.
You can alternatively choose too just fool around and have no type of comprise with someone.
It's easy.
Doing both is just wanting the second but not having the balls to risk ending up old and alone when no one else wants you, which is basically being a coward, worthless piece of shit.
 What's it like in black and white world? Is a kiss cheating, btw? We've never actually defined this wildly subjective word...
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: uber_aj]
#14317918 - 04/19/11 04:50 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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black and white world? man if you're not certain you want to be with someone don't be a selfish prick and simply don't be with them, as easy as that.
twelve year olds usually settle for kissing, I don't know any grown person who cheated/cheats and doesn't go beyond kisses.
ANyway if that's what satisfies you and you want to go kissing people around you don't need to have someone being lied to, again, it's selfish.
If you have gray areas regarding what a relationship is then don't get into one, save the other same time.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: LZip]
#14317919 - 04/19/11 04:50 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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LZip said:
I've been cheated on before..it sucks.
I've never cheated on anybody, and I've had 2 chances to do so.
I have, however, had sex with girls who I known had boyfriends, but I didnt know the boyfriend...whatever you want to call that. I would never do that to one of my friends, though.
that brings up a whole new question.
Is it ok to fuck someone who you know is in a relationship?
personally I wouldn't care if I didn't know her boyfriend, but I wouldn't get emotionally close to her because she is obviously a cheating whore and would end up cheating on me.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: numonkei]
#14317947 - 04/19/11 04:57 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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No, not everybody cheats. Of course, in certain circles and subcultures its more prevalent than others.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: numonkei]
#14317989 - 04/19/11 05:04 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Considering a lot of peoples integrity and morals are fucked beyond comprehension. yes a lot of women and men cheat.
ive known all my good friends to do it. me personally, i have had the chance while being in love and a serious relationship and it was a turn off and i decided not to.
the chick i was cheating with was almost as sexy as my girl too.
a lot of people are just seriously fucked in the head these days and they lie, cheat, are cut throat, and generally do not care about anyone besides their selves and family.
Of course its always been that way but its just accepted more to do so now, truly its a sign of the times.
either you can conform and live like this and at the same time lie your ass off about it, or you can not.
i can assure, sadly, the only one whos gonna really care is you in the end.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: pouihi]
#14317992 - 04/19/11 05:05 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm just saying, if you're with somebody and the magic has worn off, and you meet someone new who you really click with, I don't see any problem with letting the night run it's course (whether it's kissing or a lay) and breaking up with the other person the next day.
I don't believe that you or anybody else in this thread dumps their sig. others at the first sign of questioning their own desire to be in the relationship either, that's silly.
And you don't know any people who kiss but don't fuck on the first night? That's for twelve year olds? Fuck, I wish more women thought like you.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: numonkei]
#14318022 - 04/19/11 05:10 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm 26, have been in 5 serious relationships and have never once cheated. Never will either. I would never want to hurt the person I'm with and I'd expect them to treat me the same way.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: Gumby]
#14318140 - 04/19/11 05:33 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm 20. I have only been on one serious long term relationship (which was allot different than short term for sure!), I have never cheated. I'm just happy that theres any one that would care about me the way they have.
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I'm 20, and I have never cheated on anyone. Though I haven't been in too many serious relationships.
I've actually turned down girls because they have boyfriends who I'm friends with.
I won't fuck someone's girlfriend, whether I like them or not.
I've also turned down girls just because I wasn't digging their personality.
Seems like most guys will fuck almost anything half decent looking that comes their way.
I definitely feel like an exception.
That's not to say I wouldn't fuck a really hot girl who was really annoying. I've done that before, but it's all situational. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood to have sex.
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never cheated myself, I cant say the temptation wasnt frequently present but I never acted on it
yeah, same for me.
however, i have been cheated on by most of my significant others.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: numonkei]
#14318250 - 04/19/11 05:56 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm 25 too and I've never cheated or been cheated on (as far as I know). I had a dream that I cheated on my current girlfriend (the love of my life who I plan on marrying when its financially feasible for us) and i felt indescribably horrible about it afterward. even when i woke up i still felt bad, it was weird. i didn't even tell her about the dream because it'd probably scare the hell out of her and i don't want to inspire suspicion in her and have to deal with that.
I'll never cheat and i agree with the guy who said he'd break up with his girlfriend first if he really wanted to hook up with someone else. Also it seems in many cases that "once a cheater, always a cheater". I'm sure there are plenty of one time cheaters, but in more cases it seems to be a personality trait. some people are prone to addiction or alcoholism, others are habitual cheaters. I'm sure i would hate myself forever if i cheated even once, but i wouldn't ever take that first step and risk falling into a life of cheating on girlfriends.
If you really want to have sex with multiple partners then don't get into a committed relationship. and if you find the one you want to commit to and be exclusive with, think real hard before you commit to them and realize it means you'll have to turn down temptations that are bound to come up from time to time.
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Re: Does Everyone Cheat? [Re: uber_aj]
#14318282 - 04/19/11 06:04 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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uber_aj said:
I'm just saying, if you're with somebody and the magic has worn off, and you meet someone new who you really click with, I don't see any problem with letting the night run it's course (whether it's kissing or a lay) and breaking up with the other person the next day.
I don't believe that you or anybody else in this thread dumps their sig. others at the first sign of questioning their own desire to be in the relationship either, that's silly.
And you don't know any people who kiss but don't fuck on the first night? That's for twelve year olds? Fuck, I wish more women thought like you.
alright I can sorta agree with this, as long as you don't cheat & hide it and continue the relationship as if nothing ever happened.
I think that we've all been at that point in a relationship where you can tell that it's not going to progress any further and you want to leave them...but might not have the heart to do it? Idk, I can see where ur comin from aj and I think that it'd be fine to cheat as long as you broke up with the person immediately afterwards.
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