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 LZip
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 Re: Starting to like this chick...  [Re: TTT]
#14325439 - 04/21/11 12:41 AM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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ahhh shit..she just told me she likes me. Sorry for keeping on bumping this lol, but i'm just so damn excited. I havent felt anything for another girl in 10 months, then all of the sudden BAM it comes right out of nowhere haha.
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 potgrrl
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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: LZip]
#14326328 - 04/21/11 06:28 AM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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LZip said:
ahhh shit..she just told me she likes me. Sorry for keeping on bumping this lol, but i'm just so damn excited. I havent felt anything for another girl in 10 months, then all of the sudden BAM it comes right out of nowhere haha.
Girls are mysterious creatures and our affections aren't always clear! Glad to hear she's just as excited about spending time with you!
Go work out a lot, it's great for stamina, nevermind temporary distraction and draining of nervous energy 
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LZip
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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: potgrrl]
#14343564 - 04/24/11 03:46 PM (2 years, 29 days ago) |
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Went down to OSU last night. Just me and her hung out. We went out to dinner, rented a few movies and came back to her place. I feel it went good. We carried conversation fine and were pretty all over each other all night. Did not have sex, though..I didn't really want to, just show im not all about sex I guess, but my hormones got the better of me and I tried. She basically said no, and I just said its fine. I think she wanted to show me she isn't a girl that puts out when she isnt dating someone all the time?..
But anyways she is coming up this whole weekend, Im thinking of making the move and seeing if she is into getting in any kind of relationship. Good or bad idea?
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potgrrl
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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: LZip]
#14394659 - 05/03/11 04:14 PM (2 years, 20 days ago) |
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My 'net access is slim these days, sorry for the delayed response!
Have you heard of the saying: "Guys are the gas, girls are the brake"?
Trying for sex isn't necessarily bad, in fact we girls kind of expect it or we might feel rejected, even if we plan to say "no". (always wear a rubber, btw, even if she's "on the pill")
The bad thing about getting sexually involved early is that sex is a fast-track to "intimacy" but it's also a false brand of intimacy in certain ways. Sure, it's intimate, but a lot of healthy intimacy has to do with getting to know each other's character as human beings before locking oneself in physically.
How does she treat others? How does she treat herself? How does she treat you? How does she view the world? What does she value, and do those base values clash with your values or harmonize with them?
If you're just having a "fun" relationship that is mutually agreed upon to be a short term fling thing, that's one thing, and you don't have to ask those questions to yourself quite as much. But if you are thinking about something more long term and serious, give it time to grow and develop.
You might want to pick up a book like "How to get a date worth keeping" by Dr. Cloud and check out the chapters on how to judge someone's character. There are other non-christian books on the same topic, they'll give you some things to think about while you enjoy the high times of new relationship energy
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LZip
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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: potgrrl]
#14395706 - 05/03/11 08:06 PM (2 years, 20 days ago) |
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potgrrl said:
My 'net access is slim these days, sorry for the delayed response!
Have you heard of the saying: "Guys are the gas, girls are the brake"?
Trying for sex isn't necessarily bad, in fact we girls kind of expect it or we might feel rejected, even if we plan to say "no". (always wear a rubber, btw, even if she's "on the pill")
The bad thing about getting sexually involved early is that sex is a fast-track to "intimacy" but it's also a false brand of intimacy in certain ways. Sure, it's intimate, but a lot of healthy intimacy has to do with getting to know each other's character as human beings before locking oneself in physically.
How does she treat others? How does she treat herself? How does she treat you? How does she view the world? What does she value, and do those base values clash with your values or harmonize with them?
If you're just having a "fun" relationship that is mutually agreed upon to be a short term fling thing, that's one thing, and you don't have to ask those questions to yourself quite as much. But if you are thinking about something more long term and serious, give it time to grow and develop.
You might want to pick up a book like "How to get a date worth keeping" by Dr. Cloud and check out the chapters on how to judge someone's character. There are other non-christian books on the same topic, they'll give you some things to think about while you enjoy the high times of new relationship energy
haha, i appreciate the response. she came up this weekend, we both had a great time, and are dating now
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