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 Re: Do girls ever make the first move?  [Re: Grok]
#14280962 - 04/13/11 12:16 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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the only times girls have made moves on me is when they get a little alcohol in them... otherwise it's usually me making the first move.
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: TTT]
#14282500 - 04/13/11 09:05 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've only had a girl initiate sex once. Every other time i'm always making the first move.
This is kind of nerve wracking for a guy. Shy girls rarely show signs of interest and never make the first move.
(girls) Do you typically like it when the guy makes the first move? Have you ever been in really awkward situations where you wish he didn't make the move?
Also how many guys have met girls who do make the first move? Do you do it on the first date or wait a little?
When it comes to girls, we DO make first moves, but they're way more subtle than the moves we expect to have made ON us.
Our first move looks more like "making ourselves available". We hang around near you, smile at you, laugh at your jokes, talk indirectly about things we'd love to see and do in our lives, and from there, it's up to you guys to pick up on it and take the lead if you like us too. We will rarely ask directly.
We also treat you badly to see if you'll let us do it - and we lose respect and sexual attraction if you let us get away with it. Look up the concept of a "shit test" for more of what I mean.
PS: If you don't have the balls to risk rejection, you'll get "chosen" by a woman who senses your weakness and will take advantage of you for it. And don't think I mean sexually, either. Sure, you'll get that initially to hook you in, but once that happens (and guys who don't get it often get hooked easily) she'll cut out the sex, drain you emotionally, financially, and probably then cheat on you in the end. Find your balls, man.
Spot on.
well that sounds about spot on, but next time don't make a post about someone having balls and then post anonymously 
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: imachavel]
#14283191 - 04/13/11 12:51 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've only had a girl initiate sex once. Every other time i'm always making the first move.
This is kind of nerve wracking for a guy. Shy girls rarely show signs of interest and never make the first move.
(girls) Do you typically like it when the guy makes the first move? Have you ever been in really awkward situations where you wish he didn't make the move?
Also how many guys have met girls who do make the first move? Do you do it on the first date or wait a little?
When it comes to girls, we DO make first moves, but they're way more subtle than the moves we expect to have made ON us.
Our first move looks more like "making ourselves available". We hang around near you, smile at you, laugh at your jokes, talk indirectly about things we'd love to see and do in our lives, and from there, it's up to you guys to pick up on it and take the lead if you like us too. We will rarely ask directly.
We also treat you badly to see if you'll let us do it - and we lose respect and sexual attraction if you let us get away with it. Look up the concept of a "shit test" for more of what I mean.
PS: If you don't have the balls to risk rejection, you'll get "chosen" by a woman who senses your weakness and will take advantage of you for it. And don't think I mean sexually, either. Sure, you'll get that initially to hook you in, but once that happens (and guys who don't get it often get hooked easily) she'll cut out the sex, drain you emotionally, financially, and probably then cheat on you in the end. Find your balls, man.
Spot on.
well that sounds about spot on, but next time don't make a post about someone having balls and then post anonymously
Perhaps it's because I don't want the little boys 'round here PMing me for relationship advice? 
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Grok] 1
#14283241 - 04/13/11 01:00 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've had a heap of girls make moves on me. I might be an outlier though. I do not mind it in the slightest, although sometimes it does surprise me. A couple weeks ago I met this girl while we were studying with a mutual friend. She was smokin too. She left after a couple hours there, and texted the mutual friend asking what I thought of her. I said she was cute and he said yeah well you got a green light. "Just like that?!" It was actually kind of a letdown because I enjoy a little suspense and tension though.
Bottom line it happens. For me it happens enough that I have only once needed to really pursue a girl to make shit happen. I ain't trying to brag either, honestly I'm a bit oblivious to what the draw is but fuck it I hope it lasts.
Careful man, it's a trap.
It's all fun and games when it's dating, but as soon as the marriage and baby carriage comes into the picture and you're obligated financially and legally, if you let your woman lead the pace/direction of your relationship you'll end up one of those 40 year olds with 2 kids, lots of debt, no sex, and a wife who either nags a lot or is emotionally disconnected at best, or having an affair with someone who relieves her of the responsibility of leading at worst.
It doesn't always happen of course, but visit some marriage forums and use their experiences to learn from without it having to be first hand...
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14283523 - 04/13/11 02:00 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I had a girl make the first move once
I was 16 and she was with my best friend, I met up with them and then she slipped her phone number in my back pocket.. called her up the next day, went for a walk and by the end of the day I asked her out (stuttered asking her out, I got really embarassed - was kinda shy lol), we went out for 4 months and then she moved 3 states away which kinda ruined everything
Wouldn't of done it though unless she had done that
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Uzziel]
#14283609 - 04/13/11 02:19 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Moronicus]
#14285522 - 04/13/11 08:06 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Also, if you're going to be fighting for a girl, I find that to be quite childish, cause it ends up in a fist fight or the girl choosing sides. Call me a virgin if you want, but I've had my share of sex doing this, I've almost never failed, because the girls aren't used to a guy who is so open and honest.
This is a good point as well. In EVERY case where a woman was to be faught for, she ended up lying and cheating to the person who 'won'. As soon as it comes down to a fight, It's always been in my best interest, (whether I've done it or not), to cede and back the fuck off.
It can hurt their feelings...but fuck it. They were NEVER ultimately worth it.
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: numonkei]
#14286830 - 04/13/11 11:30 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Fighting for a chick isn't worth it. When you fight for her she knows she owns you.
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: TrustYourSelf]
#14288754 - 04/14/11 09:50 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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My g/f and I hardly ever have sex anymore...been together about 6 years and yeah, I have to initiate everything....I wish once, she would just throw me down and let me have it, but alas, no dice...
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14288841 - 04/14/11 10:27 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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My g/f and I hardly ever have sex anymore...been together about 6 years and yeah, I have to initiate everything....I wish once, she would just throw me down and let me have it, but alas, no dice...
That blows. Sex isn't as fun when she doesn't want it. It was the hottest when my ex would just hop on me.
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: TrustYourSelf]
#14288895 - 04/14/11 10:46 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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My g/f and I hardly ever have sex anymore...been together about 6 years and yeah, I have to initiate everything....I wish once, she would just throw me down and let me have it, but alas, no dice...
That blows. Sex isn't as fun when she doesn't want it. It was the hottest when my ex would just hop on me.
She's a good girl, just isn't very 'sexual'...I still love her to death though :-)
Problem is, since we dont do it very often, when we do, im like a loaded gun with a hair trigger, so the problem just compounds from there...vicious cycle, but againm I love her to death
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14288898 - 04/14/11 10:47 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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She's a good girl, just isn't very 'sexual'...I still lover her to death though :-)
Problem is, since we dont do it very often, when we do, im like a loaded gun with a hair trigger, so the problem just compounds from there...vicious cycle, but againm I love her to death
Jerk off in the off-season. Make sure you go down on her. If you can eat a girl out she'll beg for it :P
Does she usually orgasm when you fuck?
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: TrustYourSelf]
#14288920 - 04/14/11 10:54 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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She gives me head sometimes in the off season, lol...Man, she probably only gets off like once a month 
She just dont "need" sex that much 
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14288924 - 04/14/11 10:57 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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She told me from the beginning, she doesn't like to be gone down on...I still do on rare occasions, but ya....
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14288987 - 04/14/11 11:18 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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She gives me head sometimes in the off season, lol...Man, she probably only gets off like once a month
She just dont "need" sex that much
Maybe you could find something that gets her off easier. Does she ever ride you? My ex would always have a huge orgasm while riding me.
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She told me from the beginning, she doesn't like to be gone down on...I still do on rare occasions, but ya....
Maybe she had a few bad experiences? I had an ex like that. Once you really know what they like they tend to love it.
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: TrustYourSelf]
#14288997 - 04/14/11 11:20 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Thats how she gets off the best, is either riding me or when I pick her up and do her in the air....Just never get around to doing anything...Its a work in progress though, more sex = more orgasms = more happiness = less sexual anxiety 
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14289030 - 04/14/11 11:31 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Thats how she gets off the best, is either riding me or when I pick her up and do her in the air....Just never get around to doing anything...Its a work in progress though, more sex = more orgasms = more happiness = less sexual anxiety
That sucks 
Next time you fuck her make sure she gets to ride her man. And grab her hips if you don't already. Chicks love that shit.
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: TrustYourSelf]
#14289034 - 04/14/11 11:32 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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IM ON IT!
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14289661 - 04/14/11 01:53 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Holy fuck. I hate this thread.
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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14290937 - 04/14/11 05:55 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Generally, I think the guy should make the first move physically. It shouldn't be all that hard to gauge whether a girl at least wants to kiss you. And then you just go from there..
Edited by alexithymia (04/14/11 05:55 PM)
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