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Anonymous #1
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 Friends ex girlfriends 
#14141998 - 03/18/11 09:57 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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How do you feel about them?
So I bumped into my friends ex out earlier. I think we danced for a minute and then when I was sitting down she was mad trying to hold my hand and shit and trying to get me to dance. My other friend was looking on wondering what I was doing so I didn't really reciprocate in the hand holding/affection too much. It took a lot of restraint not to do anything here as you can imagine as she's smoking hot also.
Later on back at the friends house(guy with the ex) she turns up for a booty call off him. Lol.
We both acted as if nothing happened when we saw each other.
I would ask if it was okay by him but he's probably the one person I wouldn't ask,I don't think take to kindly to the suggestion.
I gave up some booty over this,leaving her go back to him at the end of the night when she was horny.
She tried it on with me one night too before they were together but I wasn't feeling her at the time...
What should I do?
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 mexicanjewlucas
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STAL?
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If best friends weren't allowed to hit on each other's exes....
...I wouldn't have existed.
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I would never hook up with any of my close friend's ex's. It's caused hardhsips in the past so it's not something I would want to do again. But it's really up to you and her
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tymoteusz3
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Quote:
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I would never hook up with any of my close friend's ex's. It's caused hardhsips in the past so it's not something I would want to do again. But it's really up to you and her
When I was younger I would have done this in a second.
Now it would really depend - is there a real deep connection you can actually see going somewhere? Or just to fuck.
Then you have to think if its worth it to wreck your relationship with your friend (most likely will ruin it).
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there is no harm in asking
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koraks
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Re: Friends ex girlfriends [Re: tymoteusz3]
#14142076 - 03/18/11 10:23 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Srsly though, when I was in this situation one time, I went ahead. So when my friend found out, he said 'I should smack you in the face for this, you know'. And I said 'yeah, I know'. So we went ahead and had a couple of beers.
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Re: Friends ex girlfriends [Re: koraks]
#14142205 - 03/18/11 11:07 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Mmm,I'd love it.
He found her kissing a girl when they were going out also Hopefully I find her out again some night soon
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Jeffreylabowski
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Yeah i "try" not to do the ex g/f thing. Obviously theres a reason why my friend isn't with the girl. Plus, sloppy seconds is for losers(altho it happens to the best of us)! My friend is actually dating my ex now and everytime i see him i ask him if her pussy still tastes like my dick? I want nothing to do w/ her but get a kick out of busting his balls about it. Cheers!
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mexicanjewlucas
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i want to vote but don't know what the last one means STAL? i have no idea.
back in the day, late 90's early 2000's everyone i know was swapping girl friends, it was like that in the elite perth rave scene because there was such a small group of us. i think me and my best mate have shared about 4 girls friends, who knows how many partners we have shared, last count we settled on 8.
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I grew up in a pretty small town, where the chances are your girlfriend had dated one of your friends already. One of mine had previously dated my best friend for a couple years I think. It was never an issue. Still, I would ask his opinion, but not necessarily permission. Chicks ain't property.
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Re: Friends ex girlfriends [Re: Grok]
#14146334 - 03/19/11 01:20 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I would never hook up with one of my ex's friends if I was still having relations of any kind with him. Now that its about 6 years since we broke up and I am in casual contact with a few of his old friends, but not his bff's, I would probably hook up with the one guy but this is --6 years-- since we last dated or slept together and we haven't even hung out since then, just talked on facebook and shit.
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Re: Friends ex girlfriends [Re: atayia] 1
#14146692 - 03/19/11 03:00 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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i have no respect for vultures. plenty of other women out there that haven't dated my friends.
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Re: Friends ex girlfriends [Re: millzy]
#14150846 - 03/19/11 11:30 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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i have no respect for vultures. plenty of other women out there that haven't dated my friends.
Seriously.
My friend dating my ex nearly killed me. I don't blame them as my decisions were my own.
I chose to take an extra semester (summer school) because i was a semester behind and so i could be with this chick. The only friend i had down there all lived with the kid she started seeing. I winded up being alone every night knowing my ex was fucking my friend. I just did a shit ton of ketamine and oxycontin because i was bored and all alone. I couldnt even see my friends because she didnt want me to make it awkward. I probably couldnt have seen them if she was there with him, definitely not sober.
You need to choose one or the other. Your friend or his ex. When a girl becomes your ex you generally don't want her in your life (for atleast awhile and sometimes forever). If your friend starts dating her you'll probably stop seeing that friend so he doesnt have to see his ex.
It feels like a stab in the back even when your friend doesn't want it to be. If you really want to do it ask him first. My friend never asked me he assumed it was ok and thats why we don't really chill anymore. If he asked me atleast he thought about me for a second, instead he just went for it.
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lay some pipe.
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I_was_the_walrus
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I wouldnt. This is coming from a guy that has had a serious girlfriend/relationship. I suppose I could understand wanting to if youve never felt the pain. Theres plenty of girls out there. You want the one thats slutting herself out to her ex's friends? Not only is that dirty pool on her part, but fucked up on yours. Bro-code. Youre supposed to be on his team. If you respect him at all youll stay away. Even if he says he doesnt mind, its up to you to be the bigger man and let it go. I know roadkill looks good when youre starving, but youve got a fishing pole. Youre just too lazy to use it.
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Bros before hoes.
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Re: Friends ex girlfriends [Re: JonnyS]
#14156089 - 03/20/11 10:50 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT 'STAL' MEANS SO I CAN VOTE!!!!
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supernovasky
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I have a very good friend who moved away 2 months ago, and his "ex" (weird situation for them) still was really into him at the time. However, the ex and I met, and we kicked things off pretty great... we're 2 months into our relationship now, and I've already called him and had a few long convos with him about it. He says he thinks I'm perfect for her and I got his full blessing... so we're still great friends, and I'm in love with a great girl 
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Anonymous #3
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I think this is working because he moved away. If they still had to see one another it would probably suck.
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Weltall
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well if its his ex then free game!!!! dry smash her shit box?!?!?!?!?
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Re: Friends ex girlfriends [Re: Weltall]
#14182316 - 03/25/11 03:59 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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