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 HighFivePsh
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 Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? 
#14052274 - 03/02/11 02:06 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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My sex luck is not the greatest. I'm a university student and have had a number of fine young ladies over to stay the night with me (I'm rather choosey with my women), but various situations have prevented me from actually losing my virginity. I'm getting great cunnilingus and fingering experience, but it seems that the girls I bring home frequently pull out the "I'm not a slut" card or are reluctant to return the favor beyond (painfully) grappling with my dick in some weak attempt to
I do not (and will not) pressure girls into sleeping with me. Having sex just isn't a huge priority in my life right now, and I feel that when it happens, it will happen. But the fact that these ladies are unwilling to do me a solid after I've eaten out their pussies? Really now.
So my question to the sexually experienced males here is this: once in bed, do you think the chances of you actually having sex are higher if you try to tease the girl (i.e. her vagina)? Or do you try and make her orgasm first by fingering/eating her out in hopes of exciting her into sex?
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 atayia
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: HighFivePsh]
#14052582 - 03/02/11 03:52 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I don't really have any advice here other than maybe on repeat trips they'd be more willing to put out?
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: atayia]
#14053055 - 03/02/11 08:59 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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just keep at it. you're putting too much thought into it
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: meams]
#14053333 - 03/02/11 10:48 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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drug them >:D muahah,
no lol but i think u just gota go after some diffrenct chicks, why dont you go after a slut? or why dont you try to get in a relationship with one of these girls that comes over, then they dont have to be slutty,,
then dumb there ass >:D
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: harrisonbrtn]
#14054464 - 03/02/11 02:52 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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get them drunker and/or threaten them
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: andrewss]
#14054530 - 03/02/11 03:09 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Tease them a bit, they should want to fuck if they're horny enough I'd think. Why don't you just whip it out and ram it in once they're wet? Don't ask just do... if they pull away (dick tease) kick her out of your bed
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If a girl is in your bed, making out with you, you can sleep with her. You just need to know what to do.
It's like fishing you reel in until the fish fights, then to prevent the line from breaking you give slack and resume reeling later.
Be physical, to the point of (slight) tension, then back off. She'll associate that with the loss of stimulation and every time you can go further before backing off (this will also turn her on extremely if you're doing it right). Eventually, you'll be insider her. (I wouldn't give her an orgasm but you can get her close)
I haven't given oral since highschool, I'd much rather get laid... so I skip that step but chicks do like it.
You can also be met with LMR (last minute resistance) when she'll say something like "this is crazy, I hardly know you" or whatever. Don't ignore this. You should reply with something acknowledging her concerns with agreement ie "I know, this is crazy, we just met, it feels so 'right'" and continue. If you ignore this and don't express that this isn't "normal" she'll either assume your a whore or using her.
Don't sleep with a virgin unless your looking for love.
There are countless books on this.
G'luck
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: thenpc]
#14054750 - 03/02/11 03:47 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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My only advise is, don't cum inside. Sure, feels great.... REALLY REALLY great. Like.... almost nothing better.... As long as she is fine that is.... But I just got a girl pregnant cause she was so damn fine I didn't wanna pull out or wear a concom.
Please, learn from my dumbassed fucking ignorant selfish pleasure induced mistake. Please.
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eating out random chicks 
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: Deekay]
#14054783 - 03/02/11 03:53 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Deekay said:
eating out random chicks
Yup, you gonna get that mouf herp. Or throat gonnoreah. MMM MM. And you didn't even get no pussy.
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: Toe_Jam]
#14055741 - 03/02/11 06:55 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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sometimes you have to kind of pressure them. thats what they want. they don't want to feel like sluts, but they want sex. so you kind of use your dick to think about how to navigate the situation and you sort of pressure them. don't force them though. there is a difference between 'hehe no stop' and 'stop motherfucker or i'll scream', you know? so you go into it with the understanding that you're getting pussy no matter what and that is the mindset you operate from. then the whole pressuring thing won't seem awkward or uncomfortable. just act like a man dude.
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: dummy]
#14060596 - 03/03/11 04:51 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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as a woman, if I'm in a guy's bed making out and all that goodness...I'm down to have sex. ESPECIALLY if he has given me face, that's just a bonus. however, I usually don't initiate it bc like you, sex isn't such a big priority right now. I agree with others before....don't ask or talk about it because contrived sex is just awkward and it kills the mood, confirm that "this is crazy, we did just meet, it's amazing how attracted we are to each other" haha I've used these lines too.  but you don't seem like an asshole so you will be sincere in saying this. start a relationship, they are great and sex can be endless and adventurous.
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: sotallytober]
#14061405 - 03/03/11 07:00 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I don't fuck guys I fool around with outside of relationships. Who says I have to get you off? I don't care about the guy anymore than he would care about me.
In my eyes, only someone I care about enough to commit to is worthy of having sex with me.
Its all about boosting egos, but I don't follow that game. Once I am satisfied I leave.
Edited by TTT (03/03/11 07:01 PM)
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: TTT]
#14063346 - 03/03/11 11:57 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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TTT said:
I don't fuck guys I fool around with outside of relationships. Who says I have to get you off? I don't care about the guy anymore than he would care about me.
In my eyes, only someone I care about enough to commit to is worthy of having sex with me.
Its all about boosting egos, but I don't follow that game. Once I am satisfied I leave.
You sound like a lot of fun... 
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: thenpc]
#14063686 - 03/04/11 12:54 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I haven't given oral since highschool, I'd much rather get laid...
How sad.
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: HighFivePsh]
#14064311 - 03/04/11 03:21 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Dont ask her just tell her how its gonna be.
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HighFivePsh
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: thenpc]
#14064418 - 03/04/11 04:00 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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thenpc said:
You should reply with something acknowledging her concerns with agreement ie "I know, this is crazy, we just met, it feels so 'right'" and continue. If you ignore this and don't express that this isn't "normal" she'll either assume your a whore or using her.
In retrospect, this situation has occurred multiple times. It definitely makes sense now. I find it ironic that my indifferent and gentle attitude is confused with promiscuity, when in reality I'm a virgin. 
I guess I'll try being more insistent next time. Thanks for the replies.
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: HighFivePsh]
#14065322 - 03/04/11 11:25 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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i don't understand. what do you mean your indifferent and gentle attitude is being confused with promiscuity? imo it's more likely being confused with homosexuality.
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: dummy]
#14070683 - 03/05/11 02:20 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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i don't understand. what do you mean your indifferent and gentle attitude is being confused with promiscuity? imo it's more likely being confused with homosexuality.
el oh el....good possibility
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Re: Setting up for Sex: Ladies First? [Re: TTT]
#14070809 - 03/05/11 02:51 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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TTT said:
I don't fuck guys I fool around with outside of relationships. Who says I have to get you off? I don't care about the guy anymore than he would care about me.
In my eyes, only someone I care about enough to commit to is worthy of having sex with me.
Its all about boosting egos, but I don't follow that game. Once I am satisfied I leave.
What a terrible way to live. Even if its just a benefriend relationship, or a one night stand, you should repay the favors that are given to you.
Also, it sounds pretty selfish if the guy just licks your twat and you say "ope, don't wanna have sex with you cause we're not dating, later"
Well, not selfish, maybe just a dumb slut instead. I'm sorry that you never learned to care about your sexual partner's feelings enough to get them off after they repay the favor. You're a selfish bitch. Surely you're smart enough to not listen to me though since I'm a random person over the internet.
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