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 Zombie Stench
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 Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please.  [Re: Kid_Orgo]
#14010007 - 02/22/11 11:05 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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you're thinking too much into it
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 Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: link1490]
#14010012 - 02/22/11 11:07 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dude don't come on here and say "Oh, god these drugs are changing out relationship! What can i do to change her mind about how great these drugs are!?!?!?"
Dude, educate yourself on the drugs she is taking. They appeal to her for a reason, right? Why else would she be going down the path she is? You need to at least educate yourself on the drugs... and IMO take the drugs at least one time to figure out for yourself from experience (experience is the greatest teacher) what these drugs have to offer for your girl friend.
I can assure you that trying MDMA or Shrooms ONE TIME WILL NOT cause any harm.
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i'm 24
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Quote:
Zombie Stench said:
it's link's gf... i just want to say that 99% of what you guys have said to him is shit that has come straight from my mouth everytime this subject comes up. the e 3 days in a row thing WAS dumb.. and im not even planning on doing e anywhere near as often as i was. i feel like "link", like someone else said, doesnt have any REAL experience with these things, and therefore is just brainwashed by what hes been told his whole life "drugs are bad". i feel like he over worries about this, gets too dramatic over it, and makes it a way bigger deal than it needs to be. Im not planning on doing meth or coke or anything crazy.. i'm the first to feel guilty when im being an irresponsible douche bag. i could see if i was getting wrecked and waking up in my own piss and vomit everyday.. but FUCK! i just get bombed on weekends with my friends in a SAFE place with SAFE people.. having fun. i love "link", i really do. but i obviously get annoyed and frustrated by his looking down on me because of what i'm doing when he has no real experience or place to say it. i'm not going to be controlled by anyone. i'm not. it is what it is. stop acting like im sticking needles in my arm lol you know? i feel if he tried something he'd see its not as big of a deal as hes making it out to be in his mind. idk.
At first I was all like 
..but then I was all like 
..and then I was all grabbing for the 
...but then I decided I should be like 
So, you guys should probably take this conversation off the internet and keep it between the two of you. Sounds to me like you have a lot of shit to work out.
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: Cynosure]
#14010033 - 02/22/11 11:10 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Get off the internet and eat some crystal ecstacy.
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link1490
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wow she actually found it. lol. no, it's not a troll. I talked to her earlier and though I was going to show her, but I guess she got a little ambitious about it.
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: link1490]
#14010053 - 02/22/11 11:13 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Oh yeah and link. It seems like you have some controlling behavior, like you want your girl friend to behave like you want her... let her live her own life and quit being so dramatic. I would understand if she was getting into drugs which are addicting and destroy lives... but dude come on it's MDMA and shrooms stop being such a drama queen.
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thank you to the people who actually gave me information as I asked, I'm done with this now.
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: Kid_Orgo]
#14010092 - 02/22/11 11:21 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Kid_Orgo said:
There is no way this is not a troll thread.
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: Cynosure]
#14010121 - 02/22/11 11:26 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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I believe the relationship is over now. See what drugs can do to people.
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: DoDahDay]
#14010200 - 02/22/11 11:37 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Probably a troll thread.
But just in case, check out Mouse Party
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: link1490] 3
#14010206 - 02/22/11 11:38 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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To current members, and any one else.... This is not a troll thread, anyone ranting in this manner further, will get hit through the BOM...
Anyways...
To link and to Zombie : welcome to the shroomery. I am glad you both found an opportunity and forum to speak with each other on this topic. sometimes it is far easier to type your concerns for someone, than it is to speak them face to face...
Being in a relationship where one person uses drugs recreationally (or borderline abusively and recklessly) is a tough situation. Its something I am very very familiar with in my own life, and something that I struggle with as well.
In my personal experience, a group of people that often take drugs together responsibly and recreationally is a very nice thing to have. Its a group of friends that share the same interests and values....
But the situation gets very very cloudy and muddled when people of that group of friends start doing drugs irresponsibly, such as eating ecstasy several days in a row. This is a tough situation because, clearly we all know it is a bad thing to do to ones body and mind. Its actually dangerous to do, and in the past has lead to mental issues, depression, and even suicides.
When this sort of irresponsible drug use happens in a group of friends, its very troublesome because either A) every one is doing it together and the members of this group are actually re-enforcing each others bad and dangerous habits. and or B, the members of the group clearly know that a single member, or multiple members of their group are engaging in these bad and dangerous habits, and are not actively encouraging the people doing them, to stop and make better choices.
Often times the sad fact of the matter is that people with addiction problems like to be surrounded by others with addiction problems to feel that what they are doing is the Norm. The sadder fact of the matter is that these situations, friendships and groups not only last as long the drugs, but as long as the people using them stay alive, and out of jail... Ultimately this really doesn't last more than a year or 2 in most situations involving or evolving to 'heavy' use.
That being the case, I can see how Link is worried about Zombie here. Often times it is easy to see what we perceive as the errors of the ones we love. And given what I know about negatively reinforcing behaviors among groups of people that use together, I can see his concern. Whoever zombie was hanging out with during her 3 day binge, clearly did not have her best interests in mind. Nor did Zombie have the courage, and or strength, and or judgment to make the right choice. And odds are, this sort of thing will happen again.
And like I said above, I have dealt with a LOT of this in my own life, and have seen it happen in the lives of countless friends, acquaintances, and relatives, and I will leave you both with this.
You cant make someone, or help someone change. Change is something that starts from within and is born of ones one desire for a better life or situation. Love each other for who you are, if you can. Not for who he or she promises to be, or who he or she has the potential to be. If you cant, perhaps it is time for you both to part paths.
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: ZippoZ]
#14010483 - 02/23/11 12:24 AM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Zippoz sounds sure this is real, I have my doubts.
If it is real, I've said my peace and I'll pray for the both of you.
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: Kid_Orgo]
#14010612 - 02/23/11 12:43 AM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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link1490
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: andrewss]
#14010795 - 02/23/11 01:13 AM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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believe me, I have no reason to troll or whatever. I came here for advice, and advice I got. thank you (:
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: link1490]
#14011950 - 02/23/11 06:24 AM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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So what's the verdict, my friend?
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: psychedelico]
#14012045 - 02/23/11 07:41 AM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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So what's the verdict, my friend?
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: Cynosure]
#14013446 - 02/23/11 03:06 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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idk. it's a lot to think about. I'll just have to talk to her about for a while. i know I should be less "dramatic" about it, so I'll bear with it. itll take time.
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: link1490]
#14015952 - 02/23/11 09:43 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ok first: I got epic lulz from this thread.
Second: bro, mate, friend, link, come on man. Your gunna drive this girl away. I know you dont want that. Just to level with you Im going to tell you that before I smoked pot(I was 17) I felt similar to you about the subject. Once I tried it I realized how blown out of proportion peoples negative opinions about it where. I can absolutely promise you that if you do not accept her choices she will leave you.
Try it. I can also promise you that if you were to get high with her your relationship would grow. You never have to do it again. Just try it once to humor her. Nothing bad will happen.
Also if you are dead set about not smoking then make some brownies. If you want we could post a some great cannabis recipes.
Just try to look at it with an open mind and think about it. This plant had been used for thousands of years.
Much love link and good vibes 
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Re: girlfriend/drugs advice please. [Re: link1490]
#14017979 - 02/24/11 04:12 AM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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link1490 said:
pot or any of that other shit.
Are you making a reference here?
Implying that pot is also shit?  
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