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Anonymous #1
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 Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. 
#13595782 - 12/07/10 02:59 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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She's going to a dubstep party. I'm too busy with school and stuff to attend, so she's going without me.
She'll be taking MDMA crystals. Should I forbid her?
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 Toltecatl
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #1]  1
#13595793 - 12/07/10 03:01 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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If you "forbid" her it shows weakness and insecurity. If you don't trust her, whay are you with her?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Toltecatl]
#13595825 - 12/07/10 03:10 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Toltecatl said:
If you "forbid" her it shows weakness and insecurity. If you don't trust her, whay are you with her?
for the sex. 
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JacquesCousteau
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13595829 - 12/07/10 03:12 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Haha at least you are honest.
Talk to her about your insecurities?
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 Doc_T
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#13595833 - 12/07/10 03:13 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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She's fucking someone else bro.
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You make it all possible. Doesn't it feel good?
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Anonymous #1
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Quote:
JacquesCousteau said:
Haha at least you are honest.
Talk to her about your insecurities?
That will cause her to be no longer attracted to me. As you know, most girls are attracted to confident assholes. She's no exception.
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tymoteusz3
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#13595835 - 12/07/10 03:13 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Haha dude why the hell would you forbid her?
First: Its not like the drugs make you into some crazy sex addict who has to cheat.
Second: If you don't trust her then seriously cut it loose its just going to cause more pain later. Cause you obviously care about her. If it was just for the sex you would not care about her cheating on you (besides STDs and shit and then its easy come easy go just find another girl).
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tymoteusz3
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: tymoteusz3]
#13595839 - 12/07/10 03:14 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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That will cause her to be no longer attracted to me. As you know, most girls are attracted to confident assholes. She's no exception.
Exactly.
Jealousy is the ruin of a lot of good relationships
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13595842 - 12/07/10 03:15 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Tell her she allowed to do what she wants just like you are. Would you take mdma at a dubstep party without her? If not then let her know you would only take it with her and that you consider it a bonding experience between lovers.
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JacquesCousteau
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13595844 - 12/07/10 03:15 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Quote:
JacquesCousteau said:
Haha at least you are honest.
Talk to her about your insecurities?
That will cause her to be no longer attracted to me. As you know, most girls are attracted to confident assholes. She's no exception.
Hahahahahahahahaha. You're a funny guy. You have a valid point, BUT... a real woman knows that real confidence is in self-honesty and accepting who you are.
Why don't you just go with her? LoL.
Or suck it up and deal and see what happens?
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JacquesCousteau
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: tymoteusz3]
#13595857 - 12/07/10 03:18 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
tymoteusz3 said:
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That will cause her to be no longer attracted to me. As you know, most girls are attracted to confident assholes. She's no exception.
Exactly.
Jealousy is the ruin of a lot of good relationships
Jealousy is about 1000x more destructive when it is left under cover and not brought out into the light where it can be acknowledged and dealt with by both parties as the fallacious insecurity that it is.
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Anonymous #1
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Quote:
JacquesCousteau said:
Quote:
Anonymous said:
Quote:
JacquesCousteau said:
Haha at least you are honest.
Talk to her about your insecurities?
That will cause her to be no longer attracted to me. As you know, most girls are attracted to confident assholes. She's no exception.
Hahahahahahahahaha. You're a funny guy. You have a valid point, BUT... a real woman knows that real confidence is in self-honesty and accepting who you are.
Why don't you just go with her? LoL.
Or suck it up and deal and see what happens?
Cause all of her friends are going, and they're fucking assholes. I don't want to have to chill with a bunch of lame assholes all night.
And yes I do care about her, which is kind of fucked up, because I often get the impression she doesn't give a shit about me.
EXAMPLE: just a few seconds ago she said the following
Well you can come but I'm just going to chill with my friends, not with you.
I hope she's only saying this because she doesn't want me to take M and fuck up my upcoming test week, but even then she's playing games with me and should fuck off and die.
Anyone, I'm proceeding to tell her I should have left her on several occasions before, and that most of the time she's just being a little bitch, and I have had it. Awaiting response.
Edited by Anonymous (12/07/10 03:28 PM)
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JacquesCousteau
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13595908 - 12/07/10 03:28 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sounds like a shitty deal. If I were you I'd cut the tie and find someone more my style.
I should also add that if she is the mind-game type, it would give you the upper hand if you just told her to hit the fucking road. She's either going to bail or concede defeat.
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feifen
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I wouldn't put up with shit like that. If you go with her she won't even chill with you?
Damn. Sounds like a real keeper.
Dump the bitch man, there are way better people out there.
Life is too short for bullshit...
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tymoteusz3
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Or:
Actively start looking for someone new, get more friends, etc, and just cut her out of her life. Then break up with her. That way you will never be hurting lol.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: tymoteusz3]
#13595931 - 12/07/10 03:32 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
tymoteusz3 said:
Or:
Actively start looking for someone new, get more friends, etc, and just cut her out of her life. Then break up with her. That way you will never be hurting lol.
Yeah, my plan exactly. My plan is to have sex with her, and after I come inside her tell her it's over. The ultimate revenge.
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feifen
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13595939 - 12/07/10 03:33 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13595947 - 12/07/10 03:34 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Im now telling her how at a recent party she was being a bitch, and afterwards my friends came up to me and asked me what the fuck was wrong with her, why was she being such a bitch.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13595954 - 12/07/10 03:35 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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OP #1 is about to be single.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Girlfriend taking MDMA without me. [Re: Anonymous #2]
#13595977 - 12/07/10 03:38 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
OP #1 is about to be single.
she's starting to show regret. the friends argument presented her with an external source to verify my claims.
I feel like a douchebag for not leaving her though...
you think she'll lose respect for me for not leaving her? 
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