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 Being an attractive woman 
#13529838 - 11/23/10 03:30 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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I used to be pretty ugly and overweight, guys didn't give me a second glance.
Fast forward a few years and I worked my ass off to turn into a hottie. Now it's like I'm getting checked out by guys all the time. Many guys seem interested in me, even though they don't know me, they seem into me.
I am having difficulty with this new life of being attractive. Sounds silly but it's true...all the attention by men sometimes makes me feel very uncomfortable but I don't really know why. Maybe I'm just not used to it?
Will it get better? I love my new body but it's hard always feeling like men are coming after me when they didn't give me the time of day a few years ago.
Can anyone relate? I am trying to accept my new attractive self but it requires a mental shift not just a physical one.
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You must succumb to man's innate drive to fuck. It is our bodily chemicals that send us raging over your newly sculpted body. So, no, don't feel bad. Get used to it.
But, do not over indulge in it. Guys like that are superficial up until they get intimate. That is an unwavering fact.
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 Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: yogabunny]
#13530477 - 11/23/10 05:19 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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I feel your pain, except.... I'm a guy.
During high school, I was average-looking. Nothing special.
Several years after leaving high school and finally getting a job (never really left the house before!), I suddenly realise those few years changed me. Jaw-droppingly good-looking. Both girls AND guys giving me glances and stares every where I go. Girls getting nervous around me. Guys trying to treat me badly.
Four years later, I'm still getting use to it. My socialising is improving tenfold and I can finally approach any girl I want, knowing she wants to fuck me the second she sets eyes on me.
Good luck OP! It really does take some time getting use too! Your one half will tell you're not good-looking and the other half will. You'll have conflicted thoughts. Just repeat the facts to yourself.... people can't keep their eyes off you and anything else that may happen that will reinforce the truth.  Just don't turn into some arrogant bitch and stay level.
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I understand where you're coming from. I don't consider myself "sexy" on a normal day so I don't necessarily expect much attention from men but it seems like I can't even walk downtown for lunch without getting hollered at. I really don't like it. Last time it happened I yelled back "SHUT UP". I don't like feeling self concious if I go out wearing a pair of shorts on the shorter side, but all it does it attract unwanted attention
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Well if you are bothered that much, then dress badly, Don't wear make up/put ugly make up on, wear un-attractive clothes...
You can't complain if this body is what you wanted...
Just because you only want certain guys to look at you, doesn't mean that all guys won't want to look...
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: meams]
#13531881 - 11/23/10 09:15 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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The hotter you are the more guys are going to eye fuck you. Dress down, look bad if you care that much. Otherwise, dont complain about it. and love it now cuz 20 years later you aint gonna have it.
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claraclairvoyant
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Quote:
Distorted Vision said:
Well if you are bothered that much, then dress badly, Don't wear make up/put ugly make up on, wear un-attractive clothes...
You can't complain if this body is what you wanted...
Just because you only want certain guys to look at you, doesn't mean that all guys won't want to look...
My point is that I shouldn't have to "ugly" myself to divert un wanted attention.
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Distorted Vision
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claraclairvoyant said:
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Distorted Vision said:
Well if you are bothered that much, then dress badly, Don't wear make up/put ugly make up on, wear un-attractive clothes...
You can't complain if this body is what you wanted...
Just because you only want certain guys to look at you, doesn't mean that all guys won't want to look...
My point is that I shouldn't have to "ugly" myself to divert un wanted attention.
Well then don't go out in public?
Or just stop complaining.
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If I see a hot girl, I HAVE to look
In my mind, its a disservice not to look.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: LicHmicrO]
#13532642 - 11/23/10 11:40 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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LicHmicrO said:
If I see a hot girl, I HAVE to look
In my mind, its a disservice not to look.
So having dudes stare at me like they want to fuck me all the time is a testament to how hot I am? I will have to get used to it. It just bugs me how obvious guys are about it...it makes me uncomfortable when most guys I meet act like that. I'm not used to being seen as a piece of meat, instead of valued for my mind/spirit.
I'm happy that men see me as a desirable mate. It's just strange to get used to is all.
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well the female courting industry is pretty cutthroat.. if we were all passive we'd probably all be single virgins
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meams
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
I'm not used to being seen as a piece of meat, instead of valued for my mind/spirit.
This is going to sound really harsh: but when you weren't super-hot, guys valued you for your mind/spirit because that was the most desirable aspect about you in their eyes.
Now your body is, and their focus has shifted accordingly.
Dress ugly and use big words and maybe you'll attract the right vibes? 
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LicHmicrO
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meams said:
Dress ugly and use big words and maybe you'll attract the right vibes?
She certainly would attract more than me staring at her ass, I might actually have a conversation with her.
I like hot girls, I LOVE hot girls with a head on their shoulders.
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Anonymous said:
So having dudes stare at me like they want to fuck me all the time is a testament to how hot I am? I will have to get used to it. It just bugs me how obvious guys are about it...it makes me uncomfortable when most guys I meet act like that. I'm not used to being seen as a piece of meat, instead of valued for my mind/spirit.
I'm happy that men see me as a desirable mate. It's just strange to get used to is all.
understandable, and in my experience, men have no choice to be cutthroat when it comes to women, because if a woman is hot AND single, she wont be single for long at all.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: LicHmicrO]
#13533611 - 11/24/10 03:43 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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and if they're the least bit passive, they'll get out-alpha'd by some dousche.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: meams]
#13533778 - 11/24/10 05:33 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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What a strange world in which we live,
But if theres a fat-ass walkin' by I have to look.
MMMMMMM
Back up that ass too fat!
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Enjoywho]
#13534320 - 11/24/10 11:15 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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"dress ugly"
what stupid advice.
BE YOURSELF.
dress however makes you feel good. be your beautiful self. shrug the unwanted attention off, and keep your eyes peeled for worthy prospects 
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Enjoywho] 1
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Enjoywho said:
Back up that ass too fat!
best quote in the entire sexuality and relationships forum
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: tito123] 1
#13534905 - 11/24/10 01:31 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Stop complaining. At least you're hot (supposedly).
Enjoy the attention, you're not going to get it forever.
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Distorted Vision
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: alexithymia]
#13535542 - 11/24/10 03:49 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah, fat asses get my attention more than anything.
Nothing better than a juicy round ass =D
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We need old and new pics to compare.
I don't believe op in the slightest unless I see it for myself.
I bet she is just average.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: fee]
#13536104 - 11/24/10 05:51 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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fee said:
We need old and new pics to compare.
I don't believe op in the slightest unless I see it for myself.
I bet she is just average.
my thoughts exactly, and an ass shot, to determine wether indeed that ass is, "too fat"
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Enjoywho]
#13536291 - 11/24/10 06:29 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said:
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fee said:
We need old and new pics to compare.
I don't believe op in the slightest unless I see it for myself.
I bet she is just average.
my thoughts exactly, and an ass shot, to determine wether indeed that ass is, "too fat"
hahaha I love your add Enjoywho, but I do agree would love to see ass pics 
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I am having difficulty with this new life of being attractive. Sounds silly but it's true...all the attention by men sometimes makes me feel very uncomfortable but I don't really know why. Maybe I'm just not used to it?
All men are dogs when it comes to things like that. I know. I'm a guy.
Just be happy that you were able to change and get over it already. There are many less fortunate people out there who'd love to take your place.
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nice1
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Men don't go for fatties cuz its socially unacceptable. Their friends will dis them.
Back in the day when it was cool to have a fat wife everyone was lusting after the fatties.
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nice1
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Anonymous said:
instead of valued for my mind/spirit.
So you see an attractive man and think dam hes got a sexy mind and soul? Or you only become attracted after long conversation with man and realise he has a good mind? I'm not sure how a soul could valued sexually at all
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LicHmicrO
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: nice1]
#13540411 - 11/25/10 05:31 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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nice1 said:
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Anonymous said:
instead of valued for my mind/spirit.
So you see an attractive man and think dam hes got a sexy mind and soul? Or you only become attracted after long conversation with man and realise he has a good mind? I'm not sure how a soul could valued sexually at all
Exactly
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I am having difficulty with this new life of being attractive. Sounds silly but it's true...all the attention by men sometimes makes me feel very uncomfortable but I don't really know why. Maybe I'm just not used to it?
All men are dogs when it comes to things like that. I know. I'm a guy.
No. All men are men. We're fucking humans- Homo sapien. A type of animal. We have a propensity towards reproduction and we generally cannot help how our brain and body chemistry responds to another sexually attractive human.
OP, you are not going to be able to change the way people act. You should accept them for being human and learn to live with the selfish nature of our species.
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igwna
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is this thread fo serious?
i want to be an attractive woman now.
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It is pure instinct. Men (straight ones) react to female breeder-bodies with the same automatic attention as a woman seeing a baby. Just keep that in mind and it's more understandable.
It's not personal. It's the species trying to reproduce. Your body probably will be used for reproduction of the species. And so it goes.
They are right about it won't last. As women slide toward the end of their breeding life men don't respond anymore. Most women are over and done by the time they are 37.
Remember this - Before 35 you have the body god gave you. After 40, you will have the body you earned. (And the mind.)
Choose your men well. Lots of them are worthless jerks. And you are programmed to like the unpleasant ones. It's no fun with them. Believe me.
Do whatever you have to do.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Ellen]
#13546278 - 11/27/10 01:44 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thank you  Spot on. Exactly.
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All men have those thoughts- it's how we are wired. We're not all dogs though, and by that, I mean some can control it .
You should just try to enjoy it!
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
I used to be pretty ugly and overweight, guys didn't give me a second glance.
Fast forward a few years and I worked my ass off to turn into a hottie. Now it's like I'm getting checked out by guys all the time. Many guys seem interested in me, even though they don't know me, they seem into me.
I am having difficulty with this new life of being attractive. Sounds silly but it's true...all the attention by men sometimes makes me feel very uncomfortable but I don't really know why. Maybe I'm just not used to it?
Will it get better? I love my new body but it's hard always feeling like men are coming after me when they didn't give me the time of day a few years ago.
Can anyone relate? I am trying to accept my new attractive self but it requires a mental shift not just a physical one.
PICS OR GTFO.
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Quote:
claraclairvoyant said:
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Distorted Vision said:
Well if you are bothered that much, then dress badly, Don't wear make up/put ugly make up on, wear un-attractive clothes...
You can't complain if this body is what you wanted...
Just because you only want certain guys to look at you, doesn't mean that all guys won't want to look...
My point is that I shouldn't have to "ugly" myself to divert un wanted attention.
i do it. i dress like a hobo so guys dont come around sayin all they want is to talk but we all know what they want
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: shroomnymph] 3
#13588611 - 12/06/10 03:22 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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All men are dogs, who are attracted to physically ATTRACTIVE females. Hence the wordage.
Women however, are actually attracted to assholes, which in my opinion, is even worse. Cause instead of just disregarding personality, they actually LIKE a crappy one.
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Haha,
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 Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: igwna]
#13588933 - 12/06/10 07:12 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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theMERRYiguana said:
is this thread fo serious?
i want to be an attractive woman now.
me too! me too!
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Women however, are actually attracted to assholes
This is only true of the crappy ones.
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Quote:
VisionaryFlicker said:
All men are dogs, who are attracted to physically ATTRACTIVE females. Hence the wordage.
I have never met a man that was also a dog.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Society]
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Society said:
Quote:
VisionaryFlicker said:
All men are dogs, who are attracted to physically ATTRACTIVE females. Hence the wordage.
I have never met a man that was also a dog.
But have you ever met a dog that was also a man?
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Edited by VisionaryFlicker (12/06/10 01:01 PM)
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Society
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No.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Society]
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No.
well then I guess all you met wuz bitchez.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Society]
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if a girl wasnt fussing over how much attention she was getting
shed be fussing over how much attention she wasnt getting..
grass is always greener huh ladies...
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Society
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VisionaryFlicker said:
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Society said:
No.
well then I guess all you met wuz bitchez.
Or I realized that human beings are creatures with their own sexuality and labeling them as dogs is a stale and ignorant anthropocentric statement.
Men are men- not dogs. They have the sexuality of a human male. This is normal.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Society]
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Society said:
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VisionaryFlicker said:
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Society said:
No.
well then I guess all you met wuz bitchez.
Or I realized that human beings are creatures with their own sexuality and labeling them as dogs is a stale and ignorant anthropocentric statement.
Men are men- not dogs. They have the sexuality of a human male. This is normal.
I know, you seem to have missed my point.
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frylock91
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get used to it, at least they're not giving you attention for being fat and ugly
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owls
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: frylock91]
#13596755 - 12/07/10 06:05 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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lol
+1
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Women however, are actually attracted to assholes, which in my opinion, is even worse. Cause instead of just disregarding personality, they actually LIKE a crappy one.
This is true of some women, but as a generalization it's completely wrong.
My best relationships were with women who appreciated me for my sensitive and easygoing personality.
I also had the best sex of my life with these women.
Guess what happened when I started acting like an asshole.
If this is how you think about relationships you will end up only with women who like assholes, because you are being one.
This will seemingly confirm your assumption that all women are into assholes, which will cause you to act more like an asshole in hopes of getting more women.
Unfortunately the whole time you will be missing out on all the best women, because they don't want to have anything to do with a guy who acts like an asshole.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Heffy]
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Yeah, I can definitely relate.
I was a bit of an ugly/fat duckling myself.
A bit old, but the result of my transformation:
You'll learn how to cope with the unwanted attention graciously in time.
I don't find it unwanted really.. who doesn't like being reminded that they are attractive? Give them a smile and you would probably make their day.
I would just never find myself dating someone who can't be a bit discreet with their ogling/admiring as it can be quite creepy sometimes. I wonder what it would be like to be in a relationship with that kind of testosterone driven guy.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: shroomnymph]
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shroomnymph said:
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Well if you are bothered that much, then dress badly, Don't wear make up/put ugly make up on, wear un-attractive clothes...
You can't complain if this body is what you wanted...
Just because you only want certain guys to look at you, doesn't mean that all guys won't want to look...
My point is that I shouldn't have to "ugly" myself to divert un wanted attention.
i do it. i dress like a hobo so guys dont come around sayin all they want is to talk but we all know what they want
It's funny, I actually go for the girls who dress like hobos.
Say if I walk into a room and there are two girls, equally attractive and one has on a mini dress, high heels, styled hair and makeup and the other is wearing a baggy sweatshirt, no make-up and jeans I typically hit on the one in the baggy sweatshirt, no make up and jeans. I typically avoid the dolled up "it" girls who already get too much attention and like to pay attention to the ones who get a little less.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Tetriana]
#13602687 - 12/08/10 06:52 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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i'm still wanting to be an attractive woman.
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BadAssPterodactyl
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It bothers me a little that people are more liable to dismiss me when I'm overweight vs. when I'm thinner. I'm 5'9'' and I've always been around 200 lbs., except for when my mom put me on diet pills when I was a senior in high school. I got to about 150, and I noticed that people were more interested in what I was saying, and laughed at more of my jokes, and it pissed me off that my weight was the thing that changed that. I just found out (after 27 goddamn years) that I have hypothyroidism, which is the cause of my weight problem.
Anyway, after my couple years of being thin I've come to realize that it's not natural for me to be that way. I almost don't want to be too attractive again, because it would piss me off to be treated differently. Anyone who can't tell that I'm awesome now isn't worth my time.
The only "before" pic I have on my compy shows a bit too much boobage, but here's a little perspective of what I looked like then vs. now
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> It bothers me a little that people are more liable to dismiss me when I'm overweight vs. when I'm thinner.
Something to think about...
It may not be your body that people are attracted to when you are thinner. Instead, it might by your self esteem, your confidence, and you being out and around more people.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Seuss] 1
#13603202 - 12/08/10 08:40 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Seuss said:
Something to think about...
It may not be your body that people are attracted to when you are thinner. Instead, it might by your self esteem, your confidence, and you being out and around more people.
Hmm... That can be true for back before I lost the weight. I wasn't overly insecure, but I was a teenager. It's no longer the case, in fact I'm probably overconfident now. It's kind of cliche, but since I started doing E, I've become really secure with myself, and at times a bit of an egomaniac I know I'm awesome, and I entertain the hell out of myself daily.
...but I still know that I would be treated differently if I was thinner. Definitely be gawked at more anyway, which is something I dunno if I want
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Think of all the joy and happiness you are spreading when you go walking around. I wish there were more beautiful women to look at around here.
Don't you want to make men happy? You will start to enjoy it when you see the happiness it brings to others.
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: demon66]
#13745655 - 01/07/11 03:32 AM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hahaha what kind of bullshit is this anyway. Oooh noes I'm attractive and all guys are into me I really don't like this someone please help me!!!! Why the fuck did you lose weight in the first place if you don't like it? This is just retarded.
So you lose weight for the sake of being attractive to men, and then you complain men are being attracted to you. What.. the.. fuck..
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Diaboleros]
#13747880 - 01/07/11 04:09 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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So you lose weight for the sake of being attractive to men, and then you complain men are being attracted to you. What.. the.. fuck..
i don't think that was her motive. was it? there are several reasons to want to lose weight
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I can't believe I just read this whole thread and the only thing I feel compelled to say about it is that I can't believe I just read this whole thread. 
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thenaturalselector
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i can totally relate. seeing as it's been over a year since your original post, have you gotten used to it yet? have you changed your appearance? i look at it positively. they can look all they want, they'll never know your true inner beauty if you don't want them to. smile a coy smile and let them know they'll never be able to have you the way they want to.
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demon66
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Just cuz I want to bone you doesn't mean I don't value ur inner beauty.
Now let me bone you : )
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: demon66]
#14500757 - 05/23/11 09:13 PM (2 years, 5 hours ago) |
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as long as we can "talk" after wards.... and by talk i mean me asking you what you want on your sandwich. 
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Re: Being an attractive woman [Re: Seuss]
#14501372 - 05/23/11 11:12 PM (2 years, 3 hours ago) |
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Seuss said:
> It bothers me a little that people are more liable to dismiss me when I'm overweight vs. when I'm thinner.
Something to think about...
It may not be your body that people are attracted to when you are thinner. Instead, it might by your self esteem, your confidence, and you being out and around more people.
I'm definitely attracted to girls with good bodies but its also the fact that they are putting in a lot of effort to be that way, which shows me she has confidence and drive which is a good indicator of other things in life. I guess that I feel I put in work to look good so I deserve a girl that does that as well. I've got nothing against overweight people but I'm simply not attracted to them.
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