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 Changstaz92
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 How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? 
#13509508 - 11/19/10 03:44 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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So yeah in my college, there is this really pretty girl and I just don't know how to get her attention. I can't just walk up to her and say "Hi I'm Andrew", like that will just either make me look like some kind of freak or weirdo. I did that one time when I was so desperate and it ended up becoming so awkward because at the end, she had nothing to say to me lol xD
Anyways, I am counting on you experts to show me the way on getting girls you never talked to in your life to becoming their greatest best friends in the world!  Thank you guys for reading this and much appreciated for the replies
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Changstaz92]
#13509619 - 11/19/10 04:03 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Actually saying hi my name is____ is the normal thing to say...you just better have something to say afterwards. Make small talk and end the conversation and walk off. Next time you see her and times after that get deeper in conversation then when you think she knows you well enough ask her to go out some where, bars or lunch? Unless shes been eye balling you cuz she thinks you're hot, then you can try and be smooth...
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: thissongis]
#13509673 - 11/19/10 04:09 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Is she in your class? Ask questions about the class, like "what do you think of this professor" or something like that. Once you break the ice it should be easy. Then try to transition to other topics based off where the conversation goes. You're in college, you can use the basics, "what's your major" "How many classes" "Do you work and where".
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Changstaz92] 4
#13509692 - 11/19/10 04:11 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Changstaz92 said:
How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in?
You don't. You club her on the head and drag her off caveman style.
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Changstaz92
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: luvdemshrooms]
#13509737 - 11/19/10 04:16 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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LOL okay first, yes i guess thats the best approach there is to it, but at the same time, it feels kinda awkward 
and no she is not in any of my classes, or else i woulda thought of something slick like that in the first place lol no offense 
last but not least, LOL hahaha the last post was mad funny xD
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Changstaz92]
#13509945 - 11/19/10 04:55 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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It was awkward the last time because you were desperate, not because you said hi.
Serious question: when you try something once and fail, do you give up and never try again?
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: FollowTheMusic]
#13509979 - 11/19/10 05:02 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Try and be smooth
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Errolscool]
#13509991 - 11/19/10 05:04 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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All this advice (^^^) isn't going to work if he isn't self confident. He will than most likely blurt this stuff out in a weird way, and end up looking like a weird-o.
Just walk up to her and be chill.
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#13510228 - 11/19/10 05:47 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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lol okey dokey thanks guys for the advice. ill def try to do everything i can to just pull it off
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Changstaz92]
#13510688 - 11/19/10 07:25 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Roll up a joint and pop a few skittles (or a half dose of ecstasy).
After you're feeling confident, just go talk to her. Ask her if she wants to smoke the joint with you.
Seems like the perfect icebreaker.
If someone came up to me in the same way, I'd probably plant my seed in them on the spot.
(In case you were looking for serious advice: make some observations and see if you can find anything you might have in common. Once you've found something and can think of enough ways to keep the conversation from dying, go in for the kill. Take deep breaths and relax; don't let the anxiety change your personality. )
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Cynosure]
#13511929 - 11/20/10 12:03 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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If it gets awkward, say you have to go. Just go up with CONFIDENCE and say "hey, how's it going? My name is ____. What do you think of the class?". Talk basics for a minute or two, once it starts getting strained, then say you have to go.
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Shroomerited]
#13512639 - 11/20/10 02:47 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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You just talk to them? 
Girls just want to be treated like there normal people, theres already enough weirdo, obsessive guys who can barely hold a conversation, and have nothing of value to offer them.
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Enjoywho] 2
#13520265 - 11/21/10 06:03 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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weirdo obsessive girls who can barely hold a conversation and have nothing of value to offer get laid every day...why is it so different for guys?
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#13520339 - 11/21/10 06:19 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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This is what you need to do
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Actually saying hi my name is____ is the normal thing to say...you just better have something to say afterwards. Make small talk and end the conversation and walk off. Next time you see her and times after that get deeper in conversation then when you think she knows you well enough ask her to go out some where, bars or lunch? Unless shes been eye balling you cuz she thinks you're hot, then you can try and be smooth...
This would be pretty cool to do with some jail time attached though.
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You don't. You club her on the head and drag her off caveman style.
This is probably what will actually happen since your asking on a forum.
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All this advice (^^^) isn't going to work if he isn't self confident. He will than most likely blurt this stuff out in a weird way, and end up looking like a weird-o.
Girls can sense confidence, its like an animal instinct. Just be the man. Shoulders back, head high. smooth, calm. make small chat. dont be fast about it. smile, look into her eyes, but dont over stare her. Leave her on a good note of happiness or a laugh. If shes hot crack a couple funny but nice jokes on her. funny-cocky, nice-jerk. Thats what you need to be.
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Changstaz92]
#13520393 - 11/21/10 06:34 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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say "hey, you're a ____ major right?" or something like that as an ice breaker. if you have any of the same teachers, ask about an assignment or test in the class. if you don't have any of the same teachers or curriculum, just say "oh, i thought i remembered seeing you in one of my classes..." and then maybe ask her how she likes her curriculum or something...
play off of whatever she gives you to work with.
act non-chalente, confident, and smile.
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: dshow]
#13521275 - 11/21/10 09:40 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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dshow said:
Girls can sense confidence, its like an animal instinct. Just be the man. Shoulders back, head high. smooth, calm. make small chat. dont be fast about it. smile, look into her eyes, but dont over stare her. Leave her on a good note of happiness or a laugh. If shes hot crack a couple funny but nice jokes on her. funny-cocky, nice-jerk. Thats what you need to be.
The trick is to genuinely not care. Not in an asshole way, but in a way that screams, "i'm a normal person and not a stalker." 
People can sense when you care too much and most will almost always be perceived it as weakness.
Everything you do has to be genuine. If you don't want to look like a loser, then simply don't think about appearing as a loser.
You have to be the shit without being shitty about it.
If you can flip one of her pigtails or play with her hair/touch her in some way, girls love that.
Of course, don't do this within the first five minutes or anything, unless the vibes are seriously smooth.
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#13521322 - 11/21/10 09:47 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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MisterMuscaria said:
weirdo obsessive girls who can barely hold a conversation and have nothing of value to offer get laid every day...why is it so different for guys?
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Passengerr]
#13521373 - 11/21/10 09:57 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Passenger, your sig is about the funniest thing i've ever seen.
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: jenns_hot]
#13521413 - 11/21/10 10:06 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks! I LMAO at my sig almost daily. Glad my days are not the only ones being brightened.
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Re: How do you just TALK to a random girl who you're interested in? [Re: Passengerr]
#13538592 - 11/25/10 05:32 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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You don't. You club her on the head and drag her off caveman style.
SwhatIdo. 
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