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 Therian
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 Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers.  [Re: oldmyco]
#13527613 - 11/23/10 02:21 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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and think about it from a male point of view. men hardly everrrr just want to be friends with a chick. if your girlfriend is hot, hes not just trying to be a friend. the only time a man wants to just be friends is if the chick is ugly as hell or extremely overweight, and even then there are guys who want to fuck them.
men want to fuck women. there is always a hidden agenda with a woman that isnt theirs.
keep that in mind
No truer words have been spoken. But it seems like this guy is OK with the fact his woman is screwing this other guy as long as he gets his fix. Dude why not just whore her out for your vicodin, its seems like that is what is going on already. Do you think she would blow me for a few aspirin?
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DomNoon
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: gamer4life]
#13527858 - 11/23/10 03:41 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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If she is cheating you can't stop her. What I would do if I were you, after being cheated on by my wife over 3 times now, yes I'm still with her because I love her. This is what you do she hasn't cheated or act like she use to in 6 years now. Be extremly nice, go out of ur way to do things for her, buy her gifts, even if you feel tired always listen and look her in the eye(this makes her feel important)always let her know you love her. But it's up to you to show your love cook her dinner, dance, take her out , don't look at other women, make her feel very special everyday and she will understand what she has and then she will quit flrting. Trust me you have to give them your attention just like child if not she'll find attention else where. Let me know how it goes after a month. If she is cheating forgive her if you care about her. Forgivness and communication is the KEY to any relationship.
lol she cheated on you that many times?
dude, grow a pair
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: oldmyco]
#13528339 - 11/23/10 08:56 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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oldmyco said:
and think about it from a male point of view. men hardly everrrr just want to be friends with a chick. if your girlfriend is hot, hes not just trying to be a friend. the only time a man wants to just be friends is if the chick is ugly as hell or extremely overweight, and even then there are guys who want to fuck them.
men want to fuck women. there is always a hidden agenda with a woman that isnt theirs.
keep that in mind
Yes, my girl is slightly overweight. And this guy is 10 years older than her and married with kids. And they spend no time together outside of work.
And he has a script for vicodin for shoulder surgery. He gets 2 refills a month for $1 each, 8 pills ain't worth much to him.
And vicodin is pussy shit. No ones gonna build a serious addiction to that weak sauce. We do Heroin and oxy occasionally without becoming addicted.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13528633 - 11/23/10 10:43 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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oldmyco said:
and think about it from a male point of view. men hardly everrrr just want to be friends with a chick. if your girlfriend is hot, hes not just trying to be a friend. the only time a man wants to just be friends is if the chick is ugly as hell or extremely overweight, and even then there are guys who want to fuck them.
men want to fuck women. there is always a hidden agenda with a woman that isnt theirs.
keep that in mind
Yes, my girl is slightly overweight. And this guy is 10 years older than her and married with kids. And they spend no time together outside of work.
And he has a script for vicodin for shoulder surgery. He gets 2 refills a month for $1 each, 8 pills ain't worth much to him.
And vicodin is pussy shit. No ones gonna build a serious addiction to that weak sauce. We do Heroin and oxy occasionally without becoming addicted.
Anything else you wanna brag about?
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Its not subjective, it IS erotic activity.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: fee]
#13529151 - 11/23/10 01:04 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Bragging???
I am simply stating facts to support my thoughts that they have not done anything yet.
If this guy was 24 and single I might feel differently about the situation...
But don't get me wrong, I am still keeping a very close eye on things and will continue to do so.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13529708 - 11/23/10 03:10 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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im the guy porking your girlfriend.
i screw her several times a week. it only really takes me about 5 minutes max to get my nutt. i fuck her hard n fast and i always cum inside. sometimes she begs for it in the mouth but i just bust inside knowing it would bother you more if you knew.
ive been trying to get her pregnant so she will leave you allowing her to buy me more meals and stuff. also ive been trading her heroin for sex weekly.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #7]
#13530050 - 11/23/10 04:02 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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gamer4life
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: DomNoon]
#13530662 - 11/23/10 05:53 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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If she is cheating you can't stop her. What I would do if I were you, after being cheated on by my wife over 3 times now, yes I'm still with her because I love her. This is what you do she hasn't cheated or act like she use to in 6 years now. Be extremly nice, go out of ur way to do things for her, buy her gifts, even if you feel tired always listen and look her in the eye(this makes her feel important)always let her know you love her. But it's up to you to show your love cook her dinner, dance, take her out , don't look at other women, make her feel very special everyday and she will understand what she has and then she will quit flrting. Trust me you have to give them your attention just like child if not she'll find attention else where. Let me know how it goes after a month. If she is cheating forgive her if you care about her. Forgivness and communication is the KEY to any relationship.
lol she cheated on you that many times?
dude, grow a pair
I knew I would get laughed at for saying this. But I can say my marriage is like the happiest marriage. I've cheated too. Once you get all that shit out of the way then nothing else is there to hurt you. No one is jealous, we talk, we laugh, we love each other more because of where we have been and where we're at now. Back then I use to say fuck that bitch, I use to be so paranoid that she is fucking every1, but now I'm free and married. I don't have to worry about nothing like that, it's done.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: gamer4life]
#13531814 - 11/23/10 08:59 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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slit her throat
its the only way
hilarious
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it makes the truth easier to handle
shes drunk again and lookin to score.
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sent her mom a picture of her sucking my dick.
Did this really happen? You have some crazy stories. How the girls usually take it by you saying you have stds??
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: dshow]
#13531838 - 11/23/10 09:05 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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sent her mom a picture of her sucking my dick.
Did this really happen? You should do a three way
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dshow
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: dshow]
#13531867 - 11/23/10 09:11 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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OP. Look at it this way. They probably havent done anything yet. But its most likely a flirting type relationship. Now read what Therian posted. If any of that stuff starts happeneing then u need to worry. Besides that drop it but dont drop ur guard. Jealousy destroys relationships. Also dont be a control freak. Thats weak for a guy and shows low self confidence. Your the man OP. Just be the man and continue on with your life.
If you have to be sure. Get his name.. check her phone.. She could always put his name as a different name just incase (cheaters do that). but u can read her texts and prob find out. Girls text like crazy. You will find those texts and know there wrong. If you check her phone several times and its always low in the inbox or no messages at all. Then i can guarantee you she is up to something. NEVER let her know you check her phone. EVER. If she guards her phone and its always with her, something is probably up.
Last thing you really mest up by accusing her. You never accuse unless you have absolute proof. When u accuse and bring up shit like you have it makes their defense go up and they will hide shit better. So dont do that again.
NOTE: Since it turns you on thinking of her being with someone, maybe you should get a somewhat innocent friend who doesnt look or is as good as you and is also not a very close friend and have them fuck. or do a threesome. You might have a good time with that watching her fuck someone else.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: gamer4life]
#13542793 - 11/26/10 05:28 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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gamer4life said:
If she is cheating you can't stop her. What I would do if I were you, after being cheated on by my wife over 3 times now, yes I'm still with her because I love her. This is what you do she hasn't cheated or act like she use to in 6 years now. Be extremly nice, go out of ur way to do things for her, buy her gifts, even if you feel tired always listen and look her in the eye(this makes her feel important)always let her know you love her. But it's up to you to show your love cook her dinner, dance, take her out , don't look at other women, make her feel very special everyday and she will understand what she has and then she will quit flrting. Trust me you have to give them your attention just like child if not she'll find attention else where. Let me know how it goes after a month. If she is cheating forgive her if you care about her. Forgivness and communication is the KEY to any relationship.
dude how could u not have at least cheated back? i know love is a very powerful emotion..but damn if my girl cheated on me even once id feel like i wasnt getting the same love in return, i mean ive never even thought of cheating
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: frylock91]
#13542815 - 11/26/10 05:47 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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He replied later and admitted that he had also cheated on his wife several times.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13542816 - 11/26/10 05:48 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Look for signs that she's drifting away from the "together" aspect of the relationship and more towards being independent, such as: not including you in her life like she used to, refusal to talk about the future and doing more things on her own. She may be excluding you from her life consciously or subconsciously, but there has to be a reason for it.
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Gauge her reaction when you give her compliments or decide not to join her for certain events, like an opera or musical. If she used to smile and pay attention to you when you gave her compliments before, but now suddenly she seems indifferent, then something is clearly wrong. Likewise, something is amiss if she doesn't care when you don't join her for events, or if she quickly finds someone else to go with her; or worse, if she doesn't ask you to come along.
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Study any changes in her appearance. Your girlfriend probably always tried to look her best when you two first began dating, such as carefully applying makeup, always wearing beautiful clothes and working out. The urge to impress one another dies off after you've been together for a few months, so take note if she abruptly changes her style or always tries to appear her best. She may be trying to impress someone, but that someone may not be you.
Number 7
She deflects simple questions
You should be suspicious of your girlfriend when she refuses to answer the simplest and fairest of questions or answers questions only after repeating them back to you, which usually indicates a mind that's searching for a lie. Be wary of times when, rather than reveal that she got home at midnight, she begrudgingly asks, "Why do you want to know what time I left the coffee shop?" If she gets defensive about disclosing information that she used to volunteer without hesitation, she may be hiding something or someone and it's one of the surest sings she's cheating on you.
Number 4
She becomes autonomous
One of the biggest signs she's cheating on you is her breaking away from your little two-person unit to become more autonomous. She has dropped "we" from her vocabulary in favor of "I." Moreover, she does more things on her own and stops consulting you about future plans. In short, she conducts herself in ways that hint that she no longer needs you to hold her hand. Whether she's hoping you'll leave her or she's simply looking for more time to lead her "double life," it's safe to conclude that she wants you out of the picture -- she just can't build up the nerve to leave you.
Number 3
She has no interest in sex with you
When your relationship was new, the two of your were full of passion and open to spontaneous lovemaking. Now it's all a bit iffy, whereby you're rarely hitting the sheets and you're only doing so if and when she feels like it.
On a slightly more ego-bashing note, she may suddenly become bored by your performance and appear to be thinking about someone else when you do make love. Cheating may be wrong, but you can't deny that unlawful sex is usually more exhilarating. So, if you can no longer satisfy her sexually, someone else may be rubbing her the right way.
1) Your Gut Sends You Signals
Does your gut tell you something's wrong?
The very first indicator is your intuition or your instinct. You know when you get that gut feeling that something just isn't right?
Trust it!
8) Things Just Don’t Add Up
Did you find out later she lied about something?
Finally, things just don't make sense or add up when thinking back.
Perhaps your girlfriend said she was going somewhere, but later you find out she wasn't even there. Or much later, she mentions she was somewhere she 'shouldn't' have been without her thinking about what she's saying.
And it just doesn't click probably.
This is another of the signs of a cheating girlfriend.
Again, trust your gut. And though we're taught not trust these unseen 'powers', your intuition is probably the most reliable thing you can use.
Trust it!
Cheating spouse attends new functions outside of work or not wants to go alone
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gamer4life
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: frylock91]
#13557426 - 11/29/10 03:46 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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gamer4life said:
If she is cheating you can't stop her. What I would do if I were you, after being cheated on by my wife over 3 times now, yes I'm still with her because I love her. This is what you do she hasn't cheated or act like she use to in 6 years now. Be extremly nice, go out of ur way to do things for her, buy her gifts, even if you feel tired always listen and look her in the eye(this makes her feel important)always let her know you love her. But it's up to you to show your love cook her dinner, dance, take her out , don't look at other women, make her feel very special everyday and she will understand what she has and then she will quit flrting. Trust me you have to give them your attention just like child if not she'll find attention else where. Let me know how it goes after a month. If she is cheating forgive her if you care about her. Forgivness and communication is the KEY to any relationship.
dude how could u not have at least cheated back? i know love is a very powerful emotion..but damn if my girl cheated on me even once id feel like i wasnt getting the same love in return, i mean ive never even thought of cheating
I have 2 post here, you must of missed when I said I use to cheat on her too.
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dshow
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: gamer4life]
#13568441 - 12/01/10 04:39 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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WHAT HAPPENED?????????????
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JacquesCousteau
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: dshow]
#13568680 - 12/01/10 05:21 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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dshow said:
WHAT HAPPENED?????????????
Ahah... yes, we are concerned! 
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#13568693 - 12/01/10 05:23 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #5]
#13583114 - 12/04/10 09:36 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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I wouldn't be with someone that wasn't interested in a sincerely monogamous relationship. If I'm not doing it for you, let me know and we can split. I am competently say that if a sexy naked woman jumped in my lap yet I'd obliged myself to be in a relationship, a monogamous one, with someone else, I'd have no problems letting the opportunity pass by.
All of this extra shit is extra. I couldn't be with someone that I had to worry about in regards to trust about what they're doing and shit. That same person that I sleep next to every night? They could take a life insurance policy out on me without my knowledge and murder me in my sleep. Unlikely? HIGHLY. Probable? not at all. Still, the point is you should never put yourself in a position where you have people around you that you don't trust.
What's the point? Why not just go jump into the lion exhibit at the zoo? People are far more dangerous than any other animal.
If you start off with this, it makes the entire situation so much more enjoyable and smooth IMO. All that cognitive dissonance, my god it's heartbreaking and mind-rending.
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