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Kegels! Do them!
#13052580 - 08/14/10 11:03 PM (2 years, 9 months ago) |
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If you don't, you better get started RIGHT NOW. Trust me... you'll thank me later. Both girls and guys can benefit from kegels... girls can become much tigher for the males, and us guys can last infinitely more longer with a very strong PC muscle.
I use to be a 5-10 minute max man along with a very weak ejaculation, but then after I cum itt would take forever to cum, however, my problem was that after I cum, I lose all stimulation to even continue, any horny feelings I had completely vanish until ~10 minutes later... of course, I would force myself to eat out my girl/etc until I felt like going at it again
So after years of frustration (ages 15-17), I started looking into "how to last longer".. I started reading that mantra sex they use to control their orgasms and even achieved them without cumming, and this led me to reading about kegels, after reading quite a bit about it, I figured what the hell, why not, I got nothing to lose and its easy enough to do anywhere.
First few weeks... I noticed I can squeeze my PC longer and harder, but no real noticeable difference besides a bit firmer erection
After the first few months, I noticed I could squeeze (and hold) my PC for MUCH MUCH longer, my erection was much, much harder, I could last about 20-25 minutes of straight fucking as hard as I could
A year later, I pretty much could cum whenever I wanted to do, I still couldn't achieve multiple orgasms or stop myself from cumming completely but I could avoid it for a long period of time (40-60 mins) (Trying to fight that spazz of cum is incredibly difficult...if you've done kegels and tried to stop yourself and failed you know EXACTLY what I'm talking about). When you cum your PC muscles twitch like crazy.
This is now 4 years later at 21, I don't even have to hold my PC during sex anymore, I can last so long without even trying, I literally HAVE to relax myself just so I can cum, I save my PC squeeze for the last half hour of my sex, and I can easily stop myself from cumming completely not even a drip, I can achieve "multiple orgasms" as they say... I don't lose my horny feelings, I don't cum until I'm absolutely finished. I have extremely strong orgasms compared to my younger years, and my ejaculation is very strong.
This is not a brag post at all, which is namely why I posted anonymously.
This is for your benefit. You don't have to believe me at all.
BTW, I held my PC extremely tight the whole time I wrote this post, thats how easy it is to train it. I know each one of you posters have plenty of time to do this while you post.
Good luck, and happy trails.
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Anonymous #2
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Feel free to tell us how to do it, not just that we should. :P
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lovecheese
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Anonymous said: Feel free to tell us how to do it, not just that we should. :P
Squeeze the muscles you use to stop pissing
-------------------- I love you!
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Anonymous #3
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Thanks for the encouragement.
I've read about Kegels and I've tried them, but not routinely.
I have been having a problem with premature ejaculation with my current girlfriend, and it's ruining our sex life.
I don't even want to have sex because it just ends up being unsatisfying for both of us.
I need to remember to do these Kegels routinely. How often did you first start doing them?
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: Thanks for the encouragement.
I've read about Kegels and I've tried them, but not routinely.
I have been having a problem with premature ejaculation with my current girlfriend, and it's ruining our sex life.
I don't even want to have sex because it just ends up being unsatisfying for both of us.
I need to remember to do these Kegels routinely. How often did you first start doing them?
I do them once a day while I masturbate or if I'm having sex I will do them then.. thats it, or if I think about doing it I'll do them just for the hell of it. Its so easy you can do them anywhere and no one will even know it.
It won't seem like much at first, trust me I know... but over time you will see a dramatic improvement, you need to keep a routine down, daily is best if you want to see good results! If you always do them while you masturbate, you can't forget.
Easy way to find the PC is just try and stop yourself from pissing... thats the muscle, once you find it though don't keep stopping your piss because its bad for your bladder..
To exercise it just squeeze it for as long as and as hard as you can... relax, and repeat. Remember.. its a muscle, which means you CAN over do it so don't do it too much
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous said: Thanks for the encouragement.
I've read about Kegels and I've tried them, but not routinely.
I have been having a problem with premature ejaculation with my current girlfriend, and it's ruining our sex life.
I don't even want to have sex because it just ends up being unsatisfying for both of us.
I need to remember to do these Kegels routinely. How often did you first start doing them?
get better at foreplay. see what gets her off. sex isn't just all about the genitals... that is unless you suck at sex.
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Anonymous #3
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She doesn't like me going down on her though. 
I've always been able to please my past girlfriends.. this girl is different though.
She has body issues and is insecure about letting go, unless we're really high on coke, drunk or both.
It sucks because I never used to have a problem cumming too early with any of my past girlfriends either.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said:
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Anonymous said: Thanks for the encouragement.
I've read about Kegels and I've tried them, but not routinely.
I have been having a problem with premature ejaculation with my current girlfriend, and it's ruining our sex life.
I don't even want to have sex because it just ends up being unsatisfying for both of us.
I need to remember to do these Kegels routinely. How often did you first start doing them?
get better at foreplay. see what gets her off. sex isn't just all about the genitals... that is unless you suck at sex.
Foreplay won't save him from premature ejaculation, but kegels will, undoubtedly.
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Anonymous #4
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im sure they will but it won't matter if he cums too fast if he can get her off another way. btw the term premature ejaculation is bs.
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Anonymous #5
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Anonymous said:
She has body issues and is insecure about letting go
This is probably your fault.
I made an extremely insecure woman let me fuck her on her period during heavy flow and eat her out after a day of work in the hot sun when she smelled.
Do you know how?
I constantly told her how beautiful she was and how much she turned me on.
You have to demand going down on her dude, tell her how sexy she is and that you LOVE her pussy and want to eat it more than ANYTHING.
You have to make her believe you except her completely and are turned on by every part of her.
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Anonymous #2
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That's one elusive muscle. :P
I tried to stop when I took a piss, and yeah, it just stopped, couldn't feel which muscle actually did it. Tried several times to no avail. Is there any other way of locating it? Short of sticking a finger up my ass, I mean. Is it the same muscle that flexes the lower part of your penis?
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Anonymous #4
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it's the only muscle that flexes any part of your penis.
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Anonymous #2
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Well that's strange, could've swore there were at least two that did that. I regularly flex that muscle already, have been for years, so I guess I just have to figure out how to put it to good use..
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Base Icks



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I do mine while I'm pissing. I try to piss as fast/hard as I can, then stop as fast as I can. helps me hold my piss for longer too. Has helped with a bigger harder one too
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Re: Kegels! Do them! [Re: Base Icks]
#13080586 - 08/20/10 11:05 PM (2 years, 9 months ago) |
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Base Icks said: I do mine while I'm pissing. I try to piss as fast/hard as I can, then stop as fast as I can. helps me hold my piss for longer too. Has helped with a bigger harder one too 
Don't do that, seriously. You're going to damage it like that. Do it when you are masturbating or while you are laying down or something but you are going to hurt it if you keep stopping your pissing over and over
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Base Icks



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Re: Kegels! Do them! [Re: feifen]
#13081768 - 08/21/10 07:49 AM (2 years, 9 months ago) |
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I dont constantly do it. I just do it at my leisure.
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Re: Kegels! Do them! [Re: Base Icks]
#13092748 - 08/23/10 10:45 PM (2 years, 9 months ago) |
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I always forget to do these.. But from past experience itt does help
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Re: Kegels! Do them! [Re: gimiemush]
#13096684 - 08/24/10 07:26 PM (2 years, 9 months ago) |
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i always forget too.
we should make a pact to bump this thread once a day so we all remember!
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Base Icks



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Re: Kegels! Do them! [Re: yogabunny]
#13096699 - 08/24/10 07:30 PM (2 years, 9 months ago) |
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yogabunny
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Re: Kegels! Do them! [Re: Base Icks]
#13096703 - 08/24/10 07:31 PM (2 years, 9 months ago) |
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just did mine.
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