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Anonymous #1
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 My girlfriend uses other guys for money 
#12848039 - 07/04/10 05:02 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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So my girlfriend uses guys for money in online games. She's an asian gamer chick, is pretty hot, and has a job so it seems like the most perfect girl ever, she can be a huge bitch though. Anyway she flirts with random guys online and gets them to spend loads of money on her and buy her all the in game shit she wants, exactly what I don't know because I don't play the games with her but in game pets, monthly subs, and all of that I guess. Comes out to like $50-$100/month per guy.
Her newest "online boyfriend" turned out to be a paraplegic guy... so I start questioning morals in general. Normally I could care less about what she does with these guys online cuz it's strictly online and I don't feel threaten by them in anyway, even if she did end up going to live with one of them it's not a big deal, I'm not that attached. This one seems a little too far though, I need a second opinion.
On one hand the dude is getting interaction with a female and she is obviously making him somewhat happy since he dumps his government check into her. Is their little fantasy life going to far? Is she taking advantage of him or protecting him from real world hurt which can be much more painful? Should I say anything and try to stop it or just let her keep using him?
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Anonymous #2
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 Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #1]  1
#12848049 - 07/04/10 05:04 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Taking advantage would be the word here.
Not right in any way.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #2] 1
#12848110 - 07/04/10 05:23 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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My sister does shit like that. She never plans on meeting them either, and when they send her money for the plane ticket for her to "go there" she never goes. 
She spends it all on poker money and drugs, shes actually really good at poker. Oh yeah, one guy also used to pay her phone bill which was $70 a month, he paid it for like 7 months 
I say if the person is stupid enough to send a random chick via internet money, then they deserve to lose that money. 
lol @ internet girlfriends.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#12848121 - 07/04/10 05:29 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Damn. IMO this is wrong on many levels. First off, it isn't really a very respectful thing to do to you, even though you don't seem to be bothered by it (although you do have problems with the morality of it all which i commend). I think the worst thing about it is that eventually this guy is going to find out he is being played. How is he going to feel then? Seems to me like he has enough problems already without adding potential heartbreak. It may be making his day a little brighter right now, but how long can it continue before he starts getting really attached and starts seeking something more meaningful (trust me, he will) out of something he's been investing time, money, and cognitive/emotional energy into? If it was just ingame/imaginary/internet money or whatever it wouldn't be so bad, but this guys sounds like he is on a fixed income and this may be taking away from his own personal needs and security. And seriously, wtf? It's kinda selfish of her to do all this just to play a fucking online game. Not to mention that I bet she's going to get irritated with you (to say the least) if you try and intervene. I see other potential problems as well, but I don't know all specifics and I could be way off base so Ill leave it at that. Anyways, that just my two cents worth... Im with you on this though, its not right from any perspective.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #4] 2
#12848141 - 07/04/10 05:35 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Ask yourself this:
Would you ever send a random girl you DON'T know and NEVER met money?
If you answer yes, I feel sorry for you, and you should lose your money.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#12848711 - 07/04/10 08:26 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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She's fucking someone else, bro
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Anonymous #6
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #5]
#12848728 - 07/04/10 08:31 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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yep, fucking a paraplegic. for sure.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #6]
#12850425 - 07/05/10 05:28 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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whatever....as long as its strictly online and shes not sending nude photos i honestly wouldnt really give a fuck, as long as im not paying for some virtual B.S.
speaking of paraplegics.... 
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Anonymous #8
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#12850548 - 07/05/10 07:01 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Post deleted by AnonymousReason for deletion: /
Edited by Anonymous (07/05/10 07:04 AM)
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Anonymous #9
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #8]
#12851053 - 07/05/10 11:45 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #8 said:
Your girlfriend sounds like a narcissistic, selfish, manipulative shithead. Whether or not this is moral (it isn't) it's a sure-fire sign that this relationship probably won't end well for you either. I can't respect anyone that mooches from other people and asks them to pay for their shit, especially if the people they're asking are naive strangers who are in awe of this UNIQUE, TOTALLY HOT VAGINA WIELDING GAMER. HELLO I HAVE A VAGINA I AM A CUTE AZN GAMER CHICK I WILL FLIRT WITH YOU IF YOU BUY ME STUFF BECAUSE I AM TOO MUCH OF A SELF-ENTITLED SELF-IMPORTANT PIECE OF SHIT TO BUY MY OWN THINGS!
This, my friend, is a symptom of a very bad personality. These parasitic individuals are selfish and will seek to serve their own means at the expense (and indifference to the feelings) of others.
That being said, the people are idiots for falling for it, but I bet she's pulling the wool over your eyes too.
PROCEED AT YOUR OWN PERIL.
I agree. Doing this is really low. I'd drop her like a hot potato.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#12851507 - 07/05/10 01:37 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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#3 hit the nail on the head. If someone is dumb enough to send someone else money, they deserve to lose it.
In reality though, it's only $50-100/month. Not like it's seriously damaging to anyone.
I think this behavior speaks more about your gf, then the men she is extorting money from though.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #10]
#12851778 - 07/05/10 02:56 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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First, I didn't read all the post - just the first two or three, but as i can see there is a few things in general that I wish to say.
I think that the girl's that do this stuff, they hurt themselves - or to quote Opera - "if you marry a man for money - you are wort all the money in the world", which means - no money will be enough for that kind of marriage.
The same here. What the girls do is that they spoil themselves t something that's easy to do.
But instead of fill herself with pride for a good work, she got herself full of greed with what she can earn from that/these guys.
She more should learn that it's not good for her self to do that - then probably it is time to put in some moral into it.
I could say so much more about this subject, but i think i have point out the direction of my view of it.
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Anonymous #12
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #5]
#12851786 - 07/05/10 02:58 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #5 said:
She's fucking someone else, bro
For money.
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Anonymous #13
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #10]
#12851794 - 07/05/10 03:01 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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OP whats her address so I can send her an envelope full of dog shit.
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Anonymous #14
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #10]
#12852362 - 07/05/10 05:37 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #10 said:
#3 hit the nail on the head. If someone is dumb enough to send someone else money, they deserve to lose it.
In reality though, it's only $50-100/month. Not like it's seriously damaging to anyone.
I think this behavior speaks more about your gf, then the men she is extorting money from though.
I agree. Morality aside she is a leech and will suck you dry with no remorse.
And not in a good way.
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Anonymous #12
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #13]
#12852860 - 07/05/10 07:47 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #13 said:
OP whats her address so I can send her an envelope full of dog shit DSHSB?
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Anonymous #15
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #12]
#12853407 - 07/05/10 09:54 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Now the real question is how much money are YOU spending on her.
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Anonymous #16
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12854166 - 07/06/10 12:27 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Me and the other guys were paying her for some web cam time not treating her for flirting with us.
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Anonymous #17
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12854184 - 07/06/10 12:31 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Your girlfriend has no morals and takes advantage of guys. Clearly she has no sense of goodness or compassion for other beings. SHE IS A USER. What the fuck do you think she is hanging around you for? Forget trying to take a stand for paraplegic dude, take a stand for yourself bro and get a woman with a sense of human dignity and a moral compass.
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Anonymous #13
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12854336 - 07/06/10 01:02 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
Her newest "online boyfriend" turned out to be a paraplegic guy...
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I bet OP is the paraplegic guy and he is just looking for advice on if he's getting taken advantage of
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Anonymous #18
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12854518 - 07/06/10 01:46 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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what a cunt
ps she's fucking someone else bro
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Anonymous #1
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #15]
#12854655 - 07/06/10 02:30 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #15 said:
Now the real question is how much money are YOU spending on her.
hardly anything, which is a pretty sweet deal. for her bday i got her a $20 gift and a nice card, hardly ever take her out. she bitches about it at times but i just ignore her. i actually treat her kinda bad which i feel bad for at times, but i'm not that attached to her. if she left me tomorrow i wouldn't lose any sleep
it's almsot like shes looking for things from other guys that i don't give her like money things. i'm not that romantic either so i won't be surprised if and when she gets swept off her feet by another guy and leaves. i do fuck the shit out of her though and it's great so at least we have that.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12854670 - 07/06/10 02:35 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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the whole relationship reminds me of all the nice guy finishes last threads we get in here. i don't take her out, i ignore and mock her, i treat her like a 2nd rate human at times. i imply that she's stupid ect. and i don't think i could get rid of her if i tired. then there's these dudes being super sweet to her and buying her all kinds of shit, giving her postive attention and being nice and she tells me what losers they are and prolly would never date one of them.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12854974 - 07/06/10 04:43 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous #19
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #8]
#12856019 - 07/06/10 01:29 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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She's funding her habits
She's not using u afaik
It'd be a diff story if she was flirting irl
Edited by Anonymous (07/06/10 01:29 PM)
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Anonymous #20
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Re: My girlfriend uses other guys for money [Re: Anonymous #19]
#12856038 - 07/06/10 01:33 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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I do that shit too lol but my bf would benefit from it. I get tipped in pot or pot treats every day and my bf gets most all of it as I dont smoke that much. I get a $100 tip at work, im most likely buying my bf dinner that night.
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