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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: Hologram]
#12845348 - 07/03/10 05:48 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Alot of people use facebook to advertise their ego, in my opinion. So I just deleted mine.
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: Prisoner#1]
#12845356 - 07/03/10 05:51 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said: you're asking for advice based on what you've presented, we've given said advice based on the the information we have, it's not our fault that you're unable to look objectively at your life or to accept the sort of beneficial criticism we've given... you asked us to judge you
Exactly. 
If you don't want to be judged, then don't put yourself out there.
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: Tetriana]
#12845359 - 07/03/10 05:52 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Tetriana said:
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Prisoner#1 said: you're asking for advice based on what you've presented, we've given said advice based on the the information we have, it's not our fault that you're unable to look objectively at your life or to accept the sort of beneficial criticism we've given... you asked us to judge you
Exactly. 
If you don't want to be judged, then don't put yourself out there.
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: Hologram]
#12845392 - 07/03/10 06:09 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Hologram said: Im not an egomaniac just because i belive that atrracting women is a proven science.
You are an ego maniac, not only because of your attitude towards women but because of your whole arrogant attitude from the start.....
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No offense people with no lives, your input isnt really needed here
For those of you with lives. You know lots of friends, things to do etc...
....and it just gets worse and worse the farther into that drivel one reads
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: x Ju x]
#12845394 - 07/03/10 06:09 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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x Ju x said:
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Hologram said:
I aprreciate your honesty, both of you. You know little about my life or the way that i conduct myself. Despite the both of you coming off as very judgmental i in some way can understand why
to say i pick up skanks is also very judemental. words like skank slut whore mean nothing to me. They were made by insecure ex boyfriends and jeolus girls....there is nothing wrong with liking sex, even lots of it. It is natural. Society has attached stigmas that you, chubba, apparently believe in as well
and thats okay, we are all human We can both be right. Im not what u think i am, i am highly respectful and openminded
Choosing not to associate with people does not mean i am judging them, it only means that i belive id be better off finding like minded individuals. That is my right. Im not an egomaniac just because i belive that atrracting women is a proven science. It says nothing about theire character but merely shows how they, like myself, all respond to the same social techniques.
Thank you for your honesty and judgements. I accept that thats how u feel and there is nothing wrong with that. Im sure if we met in real life we'd have a grand time.
I have nothing against any of you. I stand firmly in my beliefs, yet also acknowledge that it is a human thing for us to constantly change them
God bless you all
Well if your game is solid...that whole post could be complete bullshit because your used to saying stuff like that.
I started to learn game a few years ago but stopped because I realized the only people it worked on were mostly superficial 's Although I understand how it can be fun. I mean, who doesn't like sex?
If your looking for love though, man, stop using game. Love isn't a game. 

Well put. The reason I was initially so attracted to my fiance was because he didn't try to "spit game" at me. I could tell by his body language and facial expression that he was into me, but he talked to me like a normal human being, which showed that he had respect for me. That is what floored me about him. I mean, sure, I was attracted to him physically before we started talking, but it was his overall respectfulness and lack of bullslhit that sealed the deal.

On the other hand, Hologram seems pretty content taking pussy wherever he can get it (which, he'd like us to believe, is everywhere). So it may be an internal conflict, or his original post may just be a not-so-sneaky way to brag about how much he gets laid. Hard to tell. But I hope he takes your advice.
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Edited by sun_spots (07/03/10 06:15 PM)
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: sun_spots]
#12845407 - 07/03/10 06:14 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Honesty and being yourself is the way to go.
Game only works on girls, not women.
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: x Ju x]
#12845420 - 07/03/10 06:17 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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x Ju x said: Game only works on girls, not women.
I'd like to quote that to people, if you don't mind.
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: BlindSophist]
#12845437 - 07/03/10 06:21 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Tchan909 said:
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x Ju x said: Game only works on girls, not women.
I'd like to quote that to people, if you don't mind.
go right ahead.
It's not mine, it's the truth
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: x Ju x]
#12845471 - 07/03/10 06:30 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Your addiction to not socializing isn't the computer's fault. You can have an electronic social circle that co-exists peacefully with your real life too.
If deleting yourself from Facebook and getting rid of your cellphone helps to get you unglued from sitting in your room and not socializing then that's a thumbs up for you. However I can still get outside and look at FB and live a normal life. :3
It's all moderation, you have to not get stuck on something and motivate yourself to get out and do stuff.
Also, women are women, I don't see how it involves your electronic social life. Unless you're cybering instead of seeing each other.
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: Tetriana]
#12845792 - 07/03/10 08:15 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Tetriana said:
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Prisoner#1 said: you're asking for advice based on what you've presented, we've given said advice based on the the information we have, it's not our fault that you're unable to look objectively at your life or to accept the sort of beneficial criticism we've given... you asked us to judge you
Exactly. 
If you don't want to be judged, then don't put yourself out there.
dont mind being judged
dont mind putting myself out there
was just pointing out that despite accusations of me showing character flaws they let theirs show as well
which is okay, we are all human
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: x Ju x]
#12845795 - 07/03/10 08:17 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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x Ju x said: Honesty and being yourself is the way to go.
Game only works on girls, not women.
this isnt true in the least bit
im sorry its just not
Game is just my word for techniques for social interactions
Works just as well on older women...i wont arue over this its been proven. Ive witnessed it and done it myself
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: x Ju x]
#12845823 - 07/03/10 08:25 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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niteowl said:
Well if your game is solid...that whole post could be complete bullshit because your used to saying stuff like that.
I started to learn game a few years ago but stopped because I realized the only people it worked on were mostly superficial 's Although I understand how it can be fun. I mean, who doesn't like sex?
If your looking for love though, man, stop using game. Love isn't a game. 
Love isnt a game, i agree
But game can be used to find it because all game is is a refined way of social interaction and there is nothing wrong with that
Ive had some great long lasting relatioships result from my gamin
But if you feel so strongly that it cant fing love thats cool, i respectfully disagree

also in response to your last post, i agree that i poend my OP the wrong way
It was extremely rude and judgemental and i apologize, however i do feel that those with little experience with social interaction would have little to ad besides snickering remarks 
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: sun_spots]
#12845883 - 07/03/10 08:41 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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sun_spots said:
. I could tell by his body language and facial expression that he was into me, but he talked to me like a normal human being, which showed that he had respect for me..
This is all an aspect of game
I dont "spit game" i dont use one liners and act like an ass to win women over
Game to me is just refined social dynamics. Its knowing what triggers you(and other girls/womens) emotional circutry and putting that knowledge to work
Why do you think ugly dudes are often found with very attractive partners
Because women are atrracted to men with high social status and an ability to communicate well in groups make them laugh keep them entertained, not be intimidated by them or their hot friends and be an over all Alpha male. Which can be done without lacking respect.
Men on the other hand are initially attracted to women based on a nice hip to waist ratio a pretty face and decent sized breasts. We cant help it, women with these characteristics are better to ensure our genes passing one. Becasue those characteristics show that they could safely bear a child(child bearing hips) and feed them (breasts). (the screening for personality traits usually only comes when we are looking for Girlfriend like qualities).
and women are biologically designed to look for Men that are confident and succesful because that means they'll be able to protect them and their offspring and put up with the bullshit of other men and women who may threaten the stabilty of the family
Its all just social dynamics aka GAME
and knowingly or not it is used in all relationships including yours. Those that use it without knowing are known as naturals and those that learn are usually people with low self esteem, or people with bad social skills that eventually become naturals.
Even naturals, howver, can grealty benefit from sharpening their pick up skills. As i did. My succes rate more than doubled. DO i still get turned down? YES but not nearly as often.
And i should add that i am many many months away from having masterd social dynamics. But even as a relative noob in this amazing field i can say that my entire life has greatly changed for the better. Its not only about chicks, everything from job interviews to pursuing your dreams in one way or another is greatly impacted by working on social dynamics(game)

Edited by Hologram (07/03/10 08:46 PM)
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Electronic Social Circle [Re: Hologram]
#12845938 - 07/03/10 08:56 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Hologram said:
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x Ju x said: Honesty and being yourself is the way to go.
Game only works on girls, not women.
this isnt true in the least bit
im sorry its just not
Game is just my word for techniques for social interactions
Works just as well on older women...i wont arue over this its been proven. Ive witnessed it and done it myself
I didn't mean women as older, I meant it as more mature.
In my experience, the girls that are worth keeping my time don't give a shit about the things that using techniques do for your image.
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deXtrous
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Social Circle [Re: x Ju x]
#12846356 - 07/03/10 11:26 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Hologram the title says Cutting yourself off from the electronic world, yet inside you just go on to bitch about your little girl issues.
Thread = disappoint.
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Social Circle [Re: deXtrous]
#12848203 - 07/04/10 05:55 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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deXtrous said: Hologram the title says Cutting yourself off from the electronic world, yet inside you just go on to bitch about your little girl issues.
Thread = disappoint.
true that
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Social Circle [Re: Hologram] 1
#12848522 - 07/04/10 07:31 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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i'm unclear of how pointing out your arrogance reveals my own shortcomings, but if that helps you avoid taking any sort of personal inventory then cool beans.
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Social Circle [Re: millzy] 1
#12848739 - 07/04/10 08:35 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm confused... you want to gain more valuable people in your life, real true friends, right?
So your solution to this is to only fuck bar whores and girls that will give it up to your sad excuse you call 'game'?
We still haven't heard anything about your game except that 'its all about social cues'... so is every other fucking conversation you have in life
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Re: Cutting yourself off from Your Social Circle [Re: Ontheisland]
#12848841 - 07/04/10 09:01 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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lol
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