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Anonymous #16
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #15]
#12727306 - 06/11/10 06:44 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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I wouldn't contact them, but i certainly don't think its crazy for you to want to. I can see myself feeling the same way if i were in your situation. But in the end, really, just don't do it. No need to drag up all that shit for them, it will just be a huge stressful them for them I think. Good luck with this.
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Anonymous #17
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12727651 - 06/11/10 07:37 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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What #16 said.
You've got a good heart for wanting to do this. I'd want to do the same. But unless it's him apologizing to them (which wouldn't do any good anyway) can cause more harm than good.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #16]
#12727675 - 06/11/10 07:43 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Its not like its out of the blue. Theyve recently been on tv...court dates for repeals and all that. The way I see it is how many random people contact them with condolences? Why cant I? Because Im related? Thats bs...
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Anonymous #17
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12727874 - 06/11/10 08:29 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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snip
Edited by Anonymous (06/11/10 08:30 PM)
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Anonymous #18
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12730098 - 06/12/10 07:14 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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I don't know about you but I think it will look more like you stalking them and I'm sure they'll feel the same way. They'll have a restraining order put on your ass and you'll probably be investigated given the circumstances. You'll look like quite the fool even if your intentions were legit.
I'd distant myself from that shit as far as possible.
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Anonymous #19
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12730137 - 06/12/10 07:40 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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I wouldn't do it 20 years they've probably moved on. I wouldnt want to drag all that up again for them. I'd say the reason you feel compelled to contact them is more because you feel bad about what he did, unless you told him to do it that's not your baggage. If you need to talk to someone about what happened talk to your uncle.
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Anonymous #15
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #19]
#12730375 - 06/12/10 10:06 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Oh for fuck sake, he's your uncle. it wans't your dad or your brother so you have no actual direct link.
I still maintain you're an evil wanker who just want to get his kicks out of seeing their faces when he talks to them so he can get in on his uncles little fuck peoples lives up for shits and giggles trip.
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Anonymous #20
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #15]
#12731129 - 06/12/10 02:12 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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u mad?
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Anonymous #21
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #1]
#12740400 - 06/14/10 09:42 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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OP post up some links or something to the incident.
Copy and paste a news report and edit out the names if you want. I'm always interested reading about stuff like this.
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Anonymous #22
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #5]
#12740411 - 06/14/10 09:45 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #5 said: "Dear victims, hey guys sorry my uncle shot your parents. Dont go all bruce wayne on me LOL!
love OP."
HAHAHAHA I just laughed so hard
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Anonymous #9
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #22]
#12757364 - 06/17/10 11:46 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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u know what dude, I changed my mind. Maybe u should do it.
When someone kills ur parents like that, thats not something u forget about over time. Im sure they still think about it everyday. I lost a loved one in a far less tragic situation, and i know i think about it everyday. i can only imagine how they feel.
That and i think theyre mature enough to realize that ur uncle killed their parents, not u. They not gonna think hurting u or even getting a restraining order on u will do any good.
And especially if theyve been in the media about it and stuff lately. I HIGHLY doubt that u would be digging anything up. Its not something they forgot about.
If anything, I would say it would show them that u actually care about what happened to them, and what ur uncle did.
But then again, i wouldnt even know what to say to them. Like how are you doing? I realize my uncle murdered ur parents, but I highly disagree with what he did and even though theres nothing i can do to help, I am here to show my concern.
who knows, maybe they would appreciate that. But u certainly wouldnt be digging up anything they forgot about...
Like OH SHIT THATS RIGHT, SOMEONE DIDDD KILL MY PARENTS! AND UR HIS NEPHEW?! RAARRRRRR.
^ not gonna happen
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Anonymous #15
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Re: I feel compelled to contact survivors of my uncles killing spree [Re: Anonymous #9]
#12757542 - 06/17/10 12:37 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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well it may just happen....my reaction if I were in this situation would be to fuck the OP up with a lumphammer.
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