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 Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell.  [Re: Hanky]
#11136512 - 09/27/09 12:24 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Both people have to compromise in a relationship,
Bullshit, if you have to start modifying your behavior it's doomed to fail.
Good point if were talking about behavior.
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Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: Platinum]
#11136516 - 09/27/09 12:25 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ur better off bro
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Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: Platinum]
#11136520 - 09/27/09 12:25 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Describe some other changes? It's all about behavior. 
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Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: Hendostan]
#11136544 - 09/27/09 12:33 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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but now I'm realizing I'm not the one with the problems, while this whole time she's got me changing myself, when it's really her who needs to change. I'm pretty pissed off.
these should be the only thoughts going through your head
she sounds like an unbelievably selfish and irrational/delusional girl. it's a fucking wedding, she didn't even have enough respect for your brother's WEDDING to behave like a respectful adult.
tell her these things word for word, then leave and don't look back. hopefully she will apologize for acting like a child, but don't let that suck you back in. you know it needs to end. urge her to get help, for her kids' sake.
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Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: Hanky]
#11136549 - 09/27/09 12:35 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Describe some other changes? It's all about behavior.
I was thinking more along the lines of "i want this" "well i want this" but yeah. This situation is more behavioral.
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Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: Platinum]
#11136620 - 09/27/09 12:53 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Everything we do is behavioral, that's why I used the term.
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Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: Hanky]
#11136643 - 09/27/09 12:57 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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in 3 years from now, you will have a wicked gf, and this crazy will be just a memory!
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 Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: Platinum]
#11136759 - 09/27/09 01:23 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Both people have to compromise in a relationship,
Bullshit, if you have to start modifying your behavior it's doomed to fail.
Good point if were talking about behavior.
Describe some other changes? It's all about behavior.
Compromise (which may also be referred to as sacrifice) isn't always about innate behavior and it does become necessary in any equal-partner (i.e. non-dominatrix) relationship to varying degree. It can be as simple as deciding to order delivery or take out when one person wants to go out to eat and one doesn't; or figuring out which movie to watch together when one person wants action/adventure and one wants a romantic comedy. Circumstantial preferences do not always equate to consistent behavioral characteristics, for even though each individual has general preferences and behaviors, these things are dynamic and always changing over time for all of the involved parties.
To expect that a free relationship spanning a significant chunk of time could exist without some degree of concession between partners is ignorant of the fact that two people will always exhibit some differences in their momentary feelings and motivations. In other words, while some behavioral patterns can be fairly consistent, many are volatile and can change over varying lengths of time. In recognizing a change in your partner's behavioral pattern, you may end up modifying some of your own as well. There is nothing wrong with change, so long as such change is as a result of your willing choice.
And for the original poster DRTMaverick:
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Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: Maverick]
#11136841 - 09/27/09 01:42 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Right now I just want my Futon and my stuff for mushrooms back. And my hemp necklace.
So... Crazy drunk ex-gf knows about/has your cultivation equipment. If you pick it up, I'd drop it off straight at the dump. That's a REALLY sketchy situation.
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Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: Hanky]
#11136875 - 09/27/09 01:51 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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the bitch nearly ruined your brothers wedding, how fucking immature. I say you donkey punch the bitch during some good anal and hit the high road
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Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: skateordont]
#11136884 - 09/27/09 01:52 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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She and I were cultivating edibles, she doesn't know much about my other things. I'm hoping I'll be safe in that aspect. We were trying to find something fun for the kids to do too and making oysters grow was supposed to be it.
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Re: Terrible Night... GF freaked out at my Bro's wedding, all went to hell. [Re: Maverick]
#11137064 - 09/27/09 02:29 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sorry about the whole sitch, my brother.
How long have you two been together?
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