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Anonymous #1
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 try to salvage this girl or no? 
#10829789 - 08/09/09 10:23 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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I know this is another one of this lame girl advice threads again, so if you don't want to read it then whatever. I'm just really not sure how to handle this situation.
I've been dating this girl for the past couple of months. We entered into the relationship agreeing to be "friends with benefits" but I don't think either of us really knew what the fuck we were talking about. I hadn't been in any long term sexual relationship before...just one night stands and shit, and she hadn't had sex for over a year. But I thought it would be a good idea to try something different. Turns out we both started developing feelings for each other.....her much more so than me. I really honestly care for this girl...I wouldn't say that I love her, but I care enough to stay with her.
Well the other night we went camping and got wasted as hell. When the two of us went back to the tent i must have fucked up and said something stupid...I don't honestly remember what it was, but it was probably something like "I'm not sure if our relationship is going anywhere" or some bs like that. Anyway she flipped out and said she was really falling for me and how could I lead her on so much...blah blah....While we were drunk she said "I don't want this to be the end of us." But she also said she should just move back to chicago and forget about me.
I haven't talked with her for a few days since then. I'm really not sure what to say when I talk to her again. Like I said I like her enough to stay with her for now...but to be honest I don't think I'll fall in love with her. So would it be a better idea to just call the whole thing off...or try to salvage the relationship somewhat? My friends don't really like her and think I can do way better than her...I dunno. I'd like to still be friends with her...we bought some tickets to see some shows together this month, so I'm not sure what to do about this.....
Any advice?
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Anonymous #2
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10829919 - 08/09/09 10:48 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Pics are needed.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10829928 - 08/09/09 10:50 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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You want different things out the relationship. Probably better to end it.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#10829938 - 08/09/09 10:51 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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And show us pics.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10830060 - 08/09/09 11:05 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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list the pros and cons for us.
we dont know anything about her.
if were going to give you some bad advice at least give us something to work with here.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#10830115 - 08/09/09 11:12 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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And pics
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Anonymous #4
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#10830144 - 08/09/09 11:16 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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yes the pics would be helpful too.
we cant tell you to dump her unless we know shes a hottie, and then get to listen to you whine with remorse when you realize your fuckup.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#10830165 - 08/09/09 11:19 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Actually i couldn't wait...i just decided to stay with her. Even though i'm not in love with her this girl is really cool and we have a lot in common. And we are both equally horny and the sex has been really fuckin good. I just want us to get our feelings w/ each other straight.
Pros:
Don't loose a friend
Get to continue having very frequent sex
Our relationship could get better after this
Cons:
Relationship could be awkward/not as good
Can't date any new girls (unless we decided on open relationship...which is a possibility)
This could happen all over again
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Anonymous #1
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#10830176 - 08/09/09 11:20 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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And dude i'm not posting pics this isn't a fuckin peep show. Shes cute but not hot. She's got a swimmer/gymnasts body tho so she's still very fuckable.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10830196 - 08/09/09 11:24 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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those are pretty short lists
do you have things in common?
is it just sex or ill freak nah nah sex?
is she clingy?
can you hold an actual conversation with her?
in public are you a couple...or just two ppl that hang out?
srsly. you paint a shitty picture.
which reminds me.....the pics. we wants em. neow!
this is a peep show damnit.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10830206 - 08/09/09 11:26 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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at the very least i recomend to keep fucking her and go from there
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Anonymous #2
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10830247 - 08/09/09 11:36 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
And dude i'm not posting pics this isn't a fuckin peep show. Shes cute but not hot. She's got a swimmer/gymnasts body tho so she's still very fuckable.
It should be!!!
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Anonymous #1
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#10830259 - 08/09/09 11:37 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah we have things in common
We went to Rothbury together...she was in my van for a 20 hour road trip. We like very similar music. We went to a bassnectar show last week and rolled our balls off and had some bomb sex afterwords. Shes pretty smart too, a little bit shy. I can definitely have conversations with her, shes not slutty or sororityish in anyway. She's kind of dark actually...she likes murder stories and vampires and shit.
In public we act kinda like a couple...holding hands and shit. Although i don't really know if we should do that anymore that might just be awkward. Or not..fuck i dunno. We considered ourselves bf/gf.
And fine heres your fuckin peep:
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Anonymous #4
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10830270 - 08/09/09 11:40 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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i would hit it thrice...
keep her i say,
talk to her about what you said and explain what you meant.
or just lie so you can keep taggin it.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10830330 - 08/09/09 11:49 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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is she in to anal?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#10830372 - 08/09/09 11:57 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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No she had bad experiences with someone giving her anal when they tried to do doggie and she wasn't down for it. Like she freaked out about it and shit. Took me forever to convince her to do doggie because of it.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10830377 - 08/09/09 11:58 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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ditch her
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Anonymous #1
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#10830391 - 08/09/09 11:59 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'm not really into anal either.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10830398 - 08/10/09 12:00 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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why are u askin us if u should stay with a girl?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: try to salvage this girl or no? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#10830407 - 08/10/09 12:01 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Cause i wasn't sure wtf to do and i needed to sort out my thoughts somewhere/somehow.
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