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 Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks...  [Re: xyz789]
#10674241 - 07/14/09 11:40 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Its the same age my wife was when she cheated.
Did you really think EITHER of you could be faithful FOREVER at what, 18?
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: filthee]
#10674245 - 07/14/09 11:42 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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filthee said:
point taken bout your friends man,youre lucky there
if she's calling another guy sexy maybe you should start looking at yourself
loin viens are key man
i dont know what to tell you man,its really upto whether you can forgive her and trust her again
the consensus here is to dump her but its easy for people to say,not easy to do.
what are loin veins?
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: novum]
#10674247 - 07/14/09 11:42 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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novumorganum said:
well, she the progression of those entries seem to indicate someone wishing they had sown their wild oats, ie, regretting missing out on dating b/c they are in a relationship. the problem is not you; its her idea of her life.
this backs up one of my earlier posts in this thread
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: filthee]
#10674250 - 07/14/09 11:43 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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filthee said:
the consensus here is to dump her but its easy for people to say,not easy to do.
I doubt many even understand what a serious relationship is like, much less a marriage.
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xyz789
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I doubt you do either considering your willingness to pass your girlfriend around like a joint
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: xyz789]
#10674259 - 07/14/09 11:46 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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dr_gonz said:
How old are you, and your woman?
We are both young 20s.
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no i've never been married, but have been in a 5 year and 6 year relationship, living with the one girl for six years...
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Captain Caveman
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what are the ages involved here?
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: supernovasky]
#10674265 - 07/14/09 11:48 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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supernovasky said:
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dr_gonz said:
How old are you, and your woman?
We are both young 20s.
RUN. FOR. YOUR. LIFE.
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: xyz789]
#10674269 - 07/14/09 11:50 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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when you work your abs to death you start getting these strange veins running from your lower gut down to your groin region like a blowjob roadmap to your cock 
they love em
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: filthee]
#10674272 - 07/14/09 11:50 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have those. I thought that's what you meant, however, I wasn't sure if you meant cock veins
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: xyz789]
#10674279 - 07/14/09 11:53 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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dr_gonz said:
I doubt you do either considering your willingness to pass your girlfriend around like a joint
You asked if I would.
I answered. What I WOULD do, and what I DO do,lol, are 2 totally different things. I have a different mentality towards love/lust than the common.
In my ideal relationship, one could pursue any sexual fantasy without consequences, with their partner. Loving and owning one are 2 different things, and we are not built for monogamy.
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: xyz789]
#10674284 - 07/14/09 11:54 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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dr_gonz said:
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supernovasky said:
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dr_gonz said:
How old are you, and your woman?
We are both young 20s.
RUN. FOR. YOUR. LIFE.
lol.
It was actually working very well for a while. Hell, we were seen as a model couple by our families, I thought we were doing pretty well. We had fights and stuff, but I didn't ever think it was something we weren't getting over.
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All I can say is, people grow up.
You didnt even give yourselves a chance to mature.
What do you expect?
I know this, because I had to work these things out too.
If you had to read her fantasies and thoughts, theres your problem.
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: xyz789]
#10674291 - 07/14/09 11:56 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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i have both cock and loin
ive been working my transverse abs and its touching an old back injury
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supernovasky
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Captain Caveman said:
All I can say is, people grow up.
You didnt even give yourselves a chance to mature.
What do you expect?
I know this, because I had to work these things out too.
If you had to read her fantasies and thoughts, theres your problem.
If it was just fantasies and thoughts, I 'd be more than understanding.
This was actions though, premeditated. I actually got the idea to look there after seeing a photo of hers in the trashbin, which is somewhat strange. She forgot to empty it out. It wasn't TOO risque, but I actually had an inkling at that moment that something was being hidden from me. I kind of just sensed it.
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: supernovasky]
#10674309 - 07/14/09 12:01 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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"It started with her exploring some of her bisexual tendencies, writing about how hot this woman was..."
Have you 2 talked about this before?
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Captain Caveman said:
"It started with her exploring some of her bisexual tendencies, writing about how hot this woman was..."
Have you 2 talked about this before?
Yeah, a little. I wasn't angry after reading it, but I was a little disturbed at how intensely she described her fantasies. Fantasies are fantasies though, I never cared. I knew she was Bi going into the relationship.
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: supernovasky]
#10674320 - 07/14/09 12:04 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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supernovasky said:
Fantasies are fantasies though, I never cared.
Precisely.
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Re: Cheating and Infidelity sucks... [Re: xyz789]
#10674332 - 07/14/09 12:08 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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you seemed like a good guy, it sucks to hear your wife said all that.
but man, one thing you have to realize is that we are all people, you can tell yourself "I wont cheat, this time" but everyone has moments of weakness.EVERYONE is willing to cheat...
you just have to remember that it happens to everyone
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