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Anonymous #23
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #9]
#10512932 - 06/15/09 09:40 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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agreed. she is manipulating you. shes making you scared and guilty about wanting to leave. its up to you whether you two are good for each other. Based on m history of bad relationships I don't think this one will have a happy ending. id say dump hear and change your number/email, but I know you won't do that. good luck
DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!
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Anonymous #24
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10513038 - 06/15/09 09:55 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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This must have been said numerous times by now but:
1. Pics or it didn't happen 2. Her father abused her 3. DSHSB
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Anonymous #25
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #24]
#10513130 - 06/15/09 10:08 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I think most the ppl posting the bullshit need to shut up. Yall forget that she is still a person and underneath the crazy sex there in a person with strong emotional ties. I think #20 said it best. If yall both love each other i see no reason why you 2 cant come to some agreement on your relationship.
i still think she had either a lack of father figure or she was abused, and the male wasexploting her sexuality making it the only relationship she had with a male when she was younger.
Edited by Anonymous (06/15/09 10:10 PM)
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Anonymous #26
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10513149 - 06/15/09 10:12 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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OP: your post made me hard.
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Anonymous #16
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #9]
#10513411 - 06/15/09 10:51 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #9 said:
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Anonymous #16 said:
Hah, just proves the theory that in a submissive/dominant relationship it is often the submissive who is actually in control.
Now THAT is the most incisive thing I have read on this entire forum EVER. Who are you so I can give you 5 shrooms?
I can't tell if your being sarcastic either.
Either way, its not my idea. It's thrown around a lot. But the basic idea is that most submissives usually push their doms farther than their willing to go, subverting the submissive/dominant role. The "punish me" stance is really a controlling one, a passive aggressive way of saying "do what I say"
It goes something like this Dom: I'm going to spank you Sub: Ok. MMmm nice do it harder. Dom: Well, sure! Sub: HARDER. Dom: ok Sub: Tie me up and choke me. Dom: Why not? Sub: Punch me across the face: Dom: ummmm, well ok. Sub: Cut me. Beat me. Rape me. Leave me bleeding in an alley: Dom: Now hold on here... Sub: DO IT!
Of course that's just one way it can go. There are definitely doms out there who will want to go farther than submissives, and try and be more controlling. I don't have a lot of experience with and sort of extreme S&M, but considering the fact that there are way more women who are paid to be dominatrices than there are women who are paid to be submissives, I'd imagine that being a submissive, quite often, is a passive method of being in control of the one who is dominating you.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #25]
#10513631 - 06/15/09 11:25 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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sure she's a person with feelings, but they're all fucked up and crazy and her stating that #1 is her whole world and life already is just another sign. she'll center her fucking life around him, but can't be content with someone who actually shows that he cares, because she won't be able to understand it. how was her upbringing, specifically with her parents, no joking here, because I'm guessing she was ignored or in some way marginalized by her parents? Or were they just awful to each other? If not that, who in her early years (that's including teenage years) was awful to her, because normal folk don't want to be told to walk around outside with fuckin baby batter in their hair. that's just gross mang. gross.
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Anonymous #19
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #6]
#10513642 - 06/15/09 11:27 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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you never know. Maybe shes thinking the same thing about you. Trying to figure out where you balk at her request.
But then again, I'd say, you got a nice girl.
Remember, Whore in the bed and angel at the breakfast table. or
the other way around depending on preference.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #21]
#10514017 - 06/16/09 12:26 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #21 said: I would convince her to let me shit in her mouth and then right after just abrublty dump her
That's pretty much the only thing she won't do. Thank god.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #23]
#10514029 - 06/16/09 12:28 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #23 said: agreed. she is manipulating you. shes making you scared and guilty about wanting to leave. its up to you whether you two are good for each other. Based on m history of bad relationships I don't think this one will have a happy ending. id say dump hear and change your number/email, but I know you won't do that. good luck
DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!
We were never going out. When I say we had a monogamous relationship, I mean she wasn't fucking other guys, because I told her not to. If I told her she could, then I'm sure she would have.
I'm definitely not going to get her pregnant.
And I did "dump" her.
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Anonymous #25
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10514032 - 06/16/09 12:29 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
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Anonymous #21 said: I would convince her to let me shit in her mouth and then right after just abrublty dump her
That's pretty much the only thing she won't do. Thank god.
i couldnt do that to a girl if she wanted me too. thats just fucked up.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #16]
#10514039 - 06/16/09 12:30 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #16 said:
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Anonymous #9 said:
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Anonymous #16 said:
Hah, just proves the theory that in a submissive/dominant relationship it is often the submissive who is actually in control.
Now THAT is the most incisive thing I have read on this entire forum EVER. Who are you so I can give you 5 shrooms?
I can't tell if your being sarcastic either.
Either way, its not my idea. It's thrown around a lot. But the basic idea is that most submissives usually push their doms farther than their willing to go, subverting the submissive/dominant role. The "punish me" stance is really a controlling one, a passive aggressive way of saying "do what I say"
It goes something like this Dom: I'm going to spank you Sub: Ok. MMmm nice do it harder. Dom: Well, sure! Sub: HARDER. Dom: ok Sub: Tie me up and choke me. Dom: Why not? Sub: Punch me across the face: Dom: ummmm, well ok. Sub: Cut me. Beat me. Rape me. Leave me bleeding in an alley: Dom: Now hold on here... Sub: DO IT!
Of course that's just one way it can go. There are definitely doms out there who will want to go farther than submissives, and try and be more controlling. I don't have a lot of experience with and sort of extreme S&M, but considering the fact that there are way more women who are paid to be dominatrices than there are women who are paid to be submissives, I'd imagine that being a submissive, quite often, is a passive method of being in control of the one who is dominating you.
You make a good point. Perhaps she does have some control over what I do, but not enough whereby I won't end our relationship.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #25]
#10514050 - 06/16/09 12:31 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #25 said: I think most the ppl posting the bullshit need to shut up. Yall forget that she is still a person and underneath the crazy sex there in a person with strong emotional ties. I think #20 said it best. If yall both love each other i see no reason why you 2 cant come to some agreement on your relationship.
i still think she had either a lack of father figure or she was abused, and the male wasexploting her sexuality making it the only relationship she had with a male when she was younger.
I definitely do not love her, but I do care about her on some level, whatever level that may be.
And #20 did have good advice, thanks for taking the time to type that out.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #24]
#10514060 - 06/16/09 12:32 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #24 said: This must have been said numerous times by now but:
1. Pics or it didn't happen 2. Her father abused her 3. DSHSB
1. No. 2. I don't think so, but she is very emotionally unstable. 3. Done.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #25]
#10514069 - 06/16/09 12:33 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Thanks for all the replies. I wound up telling her I wanted out of the relationship (I posted this earlier).
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Anonymous #23
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10518229 - 06/16/09 06:34 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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i think you handled the sitiuation well. just know by doing so you are saving yourself years of misery, girls like that can fuck up your life big time especially if they know you care about them sincerly. I wish you luck, move on and forget about her. sounds like your young, there are plenty of stable women in this world who are smart, caring, and faithful, just keep your eyes open.
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Anonymous #24
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#10518333 - 06/16/09 06:55 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
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Anonymous #24 said: This must have been said numerous times by now but:
1. Pics or it didn't happen
1. No.
Why not?
If she enjoys being used and humiliated, what better way than to spread photographic evidence of it online?
She'd probably thank you for it.
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Anonymous #27
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #11]
#10526099 - 06/17/09 09:40 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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...Therapy? No way... That's just a waste of an amazing mind if it would work. Live with this and be happy, respect her for what she is and be in awe of her ways. Worship it, never hurt her mentally... And if you can't handle that, I gladly would. You should be ashamed of doubting her.
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Anonymous #25
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #27]
#10526122 - 06/17/09 09:44 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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why cause he dont want to hurt her? your retarded
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Anonymous #28
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #11]
#10528428 - 06/18/09 05:00 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I would start treating her nice and shit like she doesnt like and have her introduced to a man who is into sex slaves. Then when she cheats on you, you drive away into the sunset.
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Anonymous #29
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Re: I can't keep up with this girl. [Re: Anonymous #11]
#10528470 - 06/18/09 05:20 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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RUN
JUST FUCKING RUN MAN, DON'T LOOK BACK JUST FUCKING RUN FOR YOUR GODDAMNED LIFE RUN
JUST FUCKING RUN MAN, DON'T LOOK BACK JUST FUCKING RUN FOR YOUR GODDAMNED LIFE RUN
JUST FUCKING RUN MAN, DON'T LOOK BACK JUST FUCKING RUN FOR YOUR GODDAMNED LIFE RUN
JUST FUCKING RUN MAN, DON'T LOOK BACK JUST FUCKING RUN FOR YOUR GODDAMNED LIFE RUN
JUST FUCKING RUN MAN, DON'T LOOK BACK JUST FUCKING RUN FOR YOUR GODDAMNED LIFE RUN
JUST FUCKING RUN MAN, DON'T LOOK BACK JUST FUCKING RUN FOR YOUR GODDAMNED LIFE RUN
JUST FUCKING RUN MAN, DON'T LOOK BACK JUST FUCKING RUN FOR YOUR GODDAMNED LIFE RUN
JUST FUCKING RUN MAN, DON'T LOOK BACK JUST FUCKING RUN FOR YOUR GODDAMNED LIFE RUN
JUST FUCKING RUN MAN, DON'T LOOK BACK JUST FUCKING RUN FOR YOUR GODDAMNED LIFE RUN
JUST FUCKING RUN MAN, DON'T LOOK BACK JUST FUCKING RUN FOR YOUR GODDAMNED LIFE
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