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 I think I got my girlfriend pregnant 
#10163871 - 04/14/09 02:40 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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I wanna start off by saying I'm not upset about it. I'm not bugging out freaking. I'm not all "OMG NO NO NO MY LIFE OMG NO I CAN'T HAVE A BABY RIGHT NOW!"
I'm financially stable, I know being a father is something I've always wanted to aspire to doing, but I never thought it'd be this early.
I'm only 21. So is she.
I never thought it would be this early.
Now, of course, we're not entirely sure, but she is definitely late on her period, and while she isn't getting morning sickness, she gets the most random bouts of nausea throughout the day.
I've been doing some research on that, and they said that not every woman gets morning sickness. And if they do get nauseous, not all of them get it in the morning 
She is tired all the time, when she usually isn't.
She has been a SUPER FUCKING GOD DAMN SON OF A BITCH for the past two weeks, especially to me, when she usually loves the shit out of me.
It alternates, really. Her mood, that is. She'll bounce from fucking hating the thought of even having to lay eyes on me, to cuddling up on me, tellin me she loves me, to right after she gets the sex, switchin back over to fucking hating me totally on a whim.
She used to not eat to much, but now she's eating A LOT, and it's all the most random shit. Foods I didn't even think she liked.
But most of all, she's TOTALLY LATE ON HER PERIOD.
It should have been here last week. Alas, it is not.
I also read during my research that there are a ton of reasons that a period can be delayed, and stress is number one.
But I don't know if she's stressed and her period is delayed due to it, or she's pregnant and thats causing the bitchiness and the period delay.
I don't really know how I feel. I'm not turned off by the idea, I had and do have every intention of marrying this girl. If I'd have a kid with anybody, it'd be her.
I kinda like the idea of having a kid. I kinda like the idea of having a kid with her.
But I don't know how I feel about it happening this early.
I don't know how I feel about her being such a fucking bitch! 
Like an idiot, she's never monitored and kept track of her menstrual cycle. She told me this straight away when we got together. She's never been
to a gynecologist, and she didn't even know where her clit was when we started doin our thing. So I figured it'd be in my best interest to educate her on some things that I've learned throughout my years around the block (I lost my virginity at 15 and my number of sexual partners is in the double digits  )
Without telling her, I started keeping track of her cycle. She wasn't doing it, so I tried to the best I could.
All I would know is when she got it, she would tell me that day, because then I knew she wasn't gonna wanna bang that day and not to try for it. Then I would know when it was gone ~6 days later because she'd be hornier than all get out.
So I took notes on this stuff, and noted about what time she got her period each month.
She's about 7-10 days LATE on her period.
So I don't know.
I kinda hope she is pregnant.
I dunno.
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 Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10163896 - 04/14/09 02:43 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Congratulations.
Will you keep it if she is in fact pregnant? Seems like she is.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10163911 - 04/14/09 02:47 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Threads like this make me cringe.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10163944 - 04/14/09 02:54 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Brother, you just described my wife's pregnancy symptoms to a tee. We have a six-month-old boy.
At first, she was depressed, fatigued, eating alot, and nauseated at random times throughout the day.
Get a pregnancy test.
The depression thing is a bitch. Because of the nature of it, neither you nor she will really be able to tell if it is from hormones or reality. It sucks.
My wife was depressed for the first 3 months of pregnancy, then it came back tenfold after we had the baby.
Do your best to be patient with her. It is not her fault, even though it may seem that she is being manipulative and dramatic.
Don't get sucked into it. Try to crack jokes to lighten things up, even if you feel depressed yourself.
Good luck!
Let us know what you find out!
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: MOTH]
#10163951 - 04/14/09 02:56 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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MOTH said:
Threads like this make me cringe.
I second that. In all actuality, I find that it's pretty hard to knock a chick up; I must have had that scare half a million times before, skipped periods, etc... And still nothing. (Knocking on the biggest piece of wood I can find)
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: FuzedBox]
#10163977 - 04/14/09 03:00 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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You know, I never even had a scare before my wife was pregnant.
We started trying to get her pregnant, really wondering if it was possible and two weeks later, you know.
The pull-out method worked for me all along!
You boys better not try that though.
I don't know if ya'll got nut control like Swyfty Swyf!
I learned it all from pornos!
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: MOTH]
#10164028 - 04/14/09 03:08 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
MOTH said:
Threads like this make me cringe.
This town, i know more girls who are 19 and under who are pregnant than i know girls the same age who aren't.
Its sickening.
One of my ex's just turned 18 and shes two months pregnant.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10164069 - 04/14/09 03:13 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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You gonna stop doing heroin now since your gonna have a child to take care of?
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Cubie]
#10164082 - 04/14/09 03:15 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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LOL this reminds me of that national lampoons senior trip movie, where they are talkin about sex-ed LOL..
"don't worry, ill pull out"
then as hes havin sex u hear that again except its
"dont worry, ill, I'll,i'll IIIIIII'lll" LOL
Edited by I AM SWIM (04/14/09 03:16 PM)
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10164101 - 04/14/09 03:18 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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if shes 7 - 10 days late, then u need to get a pregnancy test and see 
u shouldnt get a false positive on pregnancy tests, but u can get a false negative. so if it says shes pregnant, she is :]
congratulations if that is so! its a big deal but u seem to have a pretty positive attitude to the idea
but beware sometimes menstrual cycles fuck up randomly - mine was always exactly regular then the month after i lost my virginity it was 3 weeks late! for no reason whatsoever! and ive never missed or been late in the 3 or so years since, tho im on the pill now. so get that test before u overthink it all too much!
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: jvm]
#10165263 - 04/14/09 06:23 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
jvm said:
Congratulations.
Will you keep it if she is in fact pregnant? Seems like she is.
She and I talked about that as our relationship starting getting more serious.
We've had the pregnancy scare once. A condom broke.
We talked, and I've never been against abortion, I feel a woman should be able to choose, but that I PERSONALLY WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH THE REST OF MY LIFE KNOWING THAT I CHOSE TO KILL MY SON OR DAUGHTER.
If any other person can live with that decision, MORE FUCKING POWER TO THEM.
I personally would not be able to do that to my kid, have an abortion. My girlfriend felt the same exact way. If we had a child, we'd keep it.
Since that issue where the condom broke (about a month and a half ago) we haven't been using condoms. I've been using the pull out method for 4 years, and never had a problem. I told her about that, and she was all for it. Condoms fucking suck.
Though, i dont know... I've never come inside her, but even though I tell her not to grab me and pull me down when I'm getting close to orgasm, that I need to be able to pull out and do my deed on her, there have been a lot of times, especially in the last 14-16 days (we bang everyday) before these last 7-10 days (when she's been being a fuckin bitch) that she was stupid and grabbin on me and pullin me down when I was getting there...
I make it more than obvious when I'm about to cum, with vocalization and what not, so that she knows to let the hell go of me so that when it's time to pull out I can do it quick... but during those 14-16 days she'd be grabbin on me and I'd start to cum as I was trying to shake her stupid ass off me so I could get out...
So I don't know how possible it is that she got pregnant through this.
I went to work at 8am today, and she had gotten to her job around 3pm, when I got out at 4pm. I'm waiting for her to get out so I can talk to her, find out if she got her period today.
I don't know.
She's killin me with her bitchiness, but I'm buckin' up and just givin her the time and space she (thinks) that she needs.
I'd be happy to have a kid, especially with her.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10165269 - 04/14/09 06:24 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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answer me
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10165405 - 04/14/09 06:44 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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you're going to make a great parent!
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Cubie]
#10165491 - 04/14/09 06:59 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Cubie said:
You gonna stop doing heroin now since your gonna have a child to take care of?
good question.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10165550 - 04/14/09 07:06 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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your still a kid, dont have a kid
kids shouldnt have kids
and were destroying this fuckin planet
go get your balls snipped
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: CptnGarden]
#10166844 - 04/14/09 10:05 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Wellllllllllll..............
Just talked to her, and still no fucking period today.
I dunno.
I think I might actually be kinda disappointed if she turned out not to be preggers.
Given that I'm tryin to accept it and all that.
Well, I'm not really tryin that hard to accept it, I kinda want it to happen, I'm just tryin to deal with the fears that come with bringin a life into the world.
She seems to not even really be thinking about it. The fact that she could be pregnant.
"Oh, I don't keep track of my cycle do I don't know if I'm late or not"
I told her that she is totally late and to get her ass to the pharmacy and get a pregnancy test...
But she probably won't get that done either...
And even if I go buy it, getting her to pee on it will probably be a fucking task in and of itself too....
Regardless, I love the shit out of the girl.
No, she's not the brightest one I've ever met, but however, she is intellectually inclined, and is really the most caring and genuine soul I've ever come across.
She really cares deeply about my wellbeing, and the wellbeing of all those that surround her.
Even when you first meet her, 99% chance she'll go to bat for you on whatever issue you're having, or atleast have a ton of kind and supportive words to help you pull yourself through it. The girl really is an angel.
Not to mention drop dead mother fucking gorgeous.
Sooooooooo beautiful.....  I need to bang! 
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10166848 - 04/14/09 10:05 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Make sure she watches her fucking drinking and smoking  .
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10166971 - 04/14/09 10:22 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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why dont you answer my question you goddamn junkie
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She's not a big drinker, and actually she hasn't drank in a couple weeks.
She's not big on goin' out, so the last time she drank was with me. I know she's smart enough to know not to drink while pregnant. We'll know for sure when we get the test done.
She does smoke about a pack a day though, so I'll need to talk to her about that...
I smoke the same amount, a pack a day, so if she does turn up pregnant, maybe I could offer to drop it for the duration of the pregnancy if it'll make it easier for her to do the same?
If she does turn up pregnant, thats just as much my fuckin kid in there as it is hers, and I sure as shit aint gonna let her hurt my fucking baby, believe that shit.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Cubie]
#10167068 - 04/14/09 10:33 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
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why dont you answer my question you goddamn junkie
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Cubie]
#10167113 - 04/14/09 10:37 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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you catch more bees with honey
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Coaster]
#10167120 - 04/14/09 10:38 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Im out of honey
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Cubie]
#10167138 - 04/14/09 10:39 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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try heroin, that tends to attract the attention of junkies
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Krishna]
#10167147 - 04/14/09 10:41 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Oh yea, that would get ell ess bree's attention
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Cubie]
#10167172 - 04/14/09 10:43 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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You gonna stop doing heroin now since your gonna have a child to take care of?
just wondering buddy, if u can still take care of a kid and do h then more power 2 ya
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Coaster]
#10167208 - 04/14/09 10:47 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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i think he knocked himself out when he dove into the computer screen.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Mitchnast]
#10167287 - 04/14/09 10:57 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Nah I just went out for a cig.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10167399 - 04/14/09 11:09 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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wow so she didnt no about her clit until u came along
definitely a keeper 
so u think u got her preggy from the pull out or the broke condom im confused
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Cubie]
#10167430 - 04/14/09 11:11 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Cubie said:
why dont you answer my question you goddamn junkie
I think he effectively did.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Chespirito]
#10167441 - 04/14/09 11:13 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Abort that mission, homeboy
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Coaster]
#10167459 - 04/14/09 11:15 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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The broke condom was about a month and a half ago. We bought the morning after pill that time.
I was wary about it, because of how I feel about abortion, but it wasn't far enough along in our relationship that we hadn't talked about what we'd do if we had a kid. It seemed like the right thing to do.
Since the broken condom, I've just been bare-backin it and pullin out.
During the period I described above is when I think the pull out may have gone sour.
I make it really really really obvious when I'm getting close to orgasm.
Outside of sex, I've told her in conversation not to pull me down or hold onto my arms really tight when I'm getting close (as nice as it is and all) because when it gets to that point, I need to be able to pull out and do my thing on her (Where ever that may be on her body at that point in time).
During the time period I posted above, she wouldn't fucking listen and kept holding on to me when I would get close, making it a god damn pain in the ass to pull out and do the damn thing.
And there were a few times during the period in which she is most fertile that I had to struggle to get her the fuck off of me so I could pull out and do it. I was already cumming by the time I got out of her, only to finish the rest of it on her.
So during one of those times (we bang everyday, usually multiple times a day) it had to happen. That is, if it did happen.
Like I said, she could just be stressing out so hard about life that she's delaying her period, or anything else that delays a period.
I'm gonna make her take one of those tests tomorrow.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10167496 - 04/14/09 11:19 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Goddamn that was informative.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10167530 - 04/14/09 11:22 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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a test is essential otherwise talk is useless. Dont stress smoke a bowl and relax. You might not be able to again for 18 years.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: BuggingOUT]
#10167532 - 04/14/09 11:22 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yea my bad, I tried to keep it informative without being disgustingly detailed.
Preggo is kind of a big deal.
Maybe I should edit some kind of warning above that post........
Sorry.
It's a big issue for me right now, this whole thing.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10167549 - 04/14/09 11:24 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Ell Ess Bree want a new desktop background for your troubles
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10167556 - 04/14/09 11:24 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Ell Ess Bree said:
I make it really really really obvious when I'm getting close to orgasm.
Hahaha! That's hilarious.
Anything else you can tell me about your sexual tendencies?
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10167563 - 04/14/09 11:25 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Good luck with all that, buddy. But whatever you do, make sure this chick is somebody you're going to be able to tolerate for the rest of your life.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10167639 - 04/14/09 11:33 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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sounds to me like she wants u to impregnate her
my gfs sis stopped taking her pills so she wouuld get preggy
fucked up huh
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10167695 - 04/14/09 11:40 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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She has been a SUPER FUCKING GOD DAMN SON OF A BITCH for the past two weeks, especially to me, when she usually loves the shit out of me.
That means she is pregnant.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Cubie]
#10167735 - 04/14/09 11:46 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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I really like cubie's question and think it should be answered. Nice to find another alex grey fan.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10169625 - 04/15/09 08:16 AM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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i think we need some questions answering:
1) who the hell told u that pulling out was a properly effective method of contraception? little bits of cum can get out at any point during sex, so id say shes pretty likely to be pregnant if thats the only birth control ur using. yeah it makes it less likely shel get pregnant if u dont cum inside her but its still a lot more possibly than if u used condoms or the pill. if she is not pregnant and u decide u dont want kids yet for gods sake get her on the pill or get that injection thing if u dont like condoms. surely thats more pleasurable for all anyway if u have the choice not to have to pull out. it must be so annoying having to do that every time, i cant imagine it.
2) why are u not answering the heroin questions? id say its a pretty big deal if ur using such hard drugs and having a baby...it needs to be acknowledged anyway.
3) why doesnt she want to get tested for pregnancy? this is kinda unfortunate, u only get 9 months to prepare for having this child and theres a lot of stuff to do in that time - make sure u get that test tomorrow,, dont let her waste a couple of months just fannying around because shes struggling to come to terms with the 'might be' - this is obviously hugely on ur mind, as it shud be, but all this angst and thinking about it could be overcome with one simple wee... her wanting to live in ignorance is not the best policy even if it seems easier in the short term.
one of my friends gave birth the other month, going 7 and a half months before she plucked up courage to take a test and realised she was in fact pregnant. that was a pretty crazy 6 weeks of her and her boyfriend figuring out what the fuck to do; too late of course to change their minds about having it.
and also, if ur gonna try to get her to quit smoking during the pregnancy then definitely u shud too - passive smoking is pretty bad too anyway and could probably cause problems with the baby, but also she'd be likely to get irritated if there was one rule for u and another for her.
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 Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: pseudonym88]
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Why are u not answering the heroin questions? id say its a pretty big deal if you're using such hard drugs and having a baby...it needs to be acknowledged anyway.
If you're gonna try to get her to quit smoking during the pregnancy then definitely u should too - passive smoking is pretty bad too anyway and could probably cause problems with the baby, but also she'd be likely to get irritated if there was one rule for u and another for her.
... Parenting takes precedence over drug use. Save the heroin for when your kid is in their teens and is lying to you, getting arrested, throwing parties when you're out,having unprotected sex in your bed while you're out, stealing your cash, wrecking your car, flunking in school, and basically making your life a living Hell. That's the time for Heroin ... I'm sure you'll do the right thing . . . . 
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: LSDDict]
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i hate when they don't let you pull out 
happened to me once, but shes on the pill and it all worked out!
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10170216 - 04/15/09 11:40 AM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Abort that shit
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Deekay]
#10170228 - 04/15/09 11:42 AM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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why would u want to pull out when shes on the pill? i dont think id want my partner climaxing outside of me all the time its one of the most amazing feelings in the world!
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: pseudonym88]
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Clothes hanger FTW...
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Dany0]
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10170797 - 04/15/09 01:39 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Congratulations.
Will you keep it if she is in fact pregnant? Seems like she is.
She and I talked about that as our relationship starting getting more serious.
We've had the pregnancy scare once. A condom broke.
We talked, and I've never been against abortion, I feel a woman should be able to choose, but that I PERSONALLY WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH THE REST OF MY LIFE KNOWING THAT I CHOSE TO KILL MY SON OR DAUGHTER.
If any other person can live with that decision, MORE FUCKING POWER TO THEM.
I personally would not be able to do that to my kid, have an abortion. My girlfriend felt the same exact way. If we had a child, we'd keep it.
I'd be happy to have a kid, especially with her.
When I was 26 my fiance screwed up and forgot to refill her pill prescription and never told me.
She called from her mom's house one afternoon crying and told me she was pregnant.
We had already discussed what we'd do if that happened at inopportune time (abortion).
So, we did. It RUINED our relationship. I still think about it 23 years later.
Not an easy thing to deal with.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: pseudonym88]
#10171777 - 04/15/09 03:55 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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going 7 and a half months before she plucked up courage to take a test and realised she was in fact pregnant
How fat is your friend exactly that she didn't notice a large growth?
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Chespirito]
#10171898 - 04/15/09 04:17 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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I only wasn't answering the heroin question because cubie was asking it. He was only trying to start trouble, and I wasn't giving him the time of day because I didn't want this thread to get locked.
Anyway, I have been using heroin on and off since I first did it, maybe 3-4 weeks ago, whatever the time I stated was in my Heroin thread in ODD. That thread is locked, but not deleted by the way. Most of it is a pretty good read, if you wanna check it out.
However... I used heroin on thursday of last week, but not for a week and a half prior to that.
I haven't used since last thursday, just been taking my suboxone. I'm only intregued with the drug at this point, nowhere near addicted. I don't get cravings, I don't even think about it unless I choose to.
I found it to be incredible interesting and worth my time and money when I felt like experiencing it.
By absolutely NO MEANS AT ALL would I even think of using ANYTHING if I'm going to be having a child.
Not until this week did it really start ocurring to me that my love might be pregnant. The thought of using anything hasn't even crossed my mind.
If I found out she was pregnant for sure, without a second thought, I would drop all thoughts of using ANYTHING. I'd be more than happy to drop cigs for good as stated above.
My child would be my number one concern. Drugs are fun and all, but if I am going to have a child, I'm going to be a man and take care of my fuckin' kid. FUCK drugs, FUCK anything that would get in the way of me doing that.
My life becomes second priority, my childs health, safety, and entire wellbeing becomes my top focus.
This is undoubtable, non-debatable, there is no compromise here.
There is no using every once in a while, no once a month, no here and there, no only-on-special-occasions.
NO USING AT ALL, ZERO, if my girlfriend turns out to be pregnant.
This is a matter of my CHILD'S LIFE.
I wouldn't jeopordize that for anything in the whole fucking world, not even my girlfriend herself.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10171947 - 04/15/09 04:27 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Well best of luck to you then, you seem you would make a good father. Not just another guido knocking up bitches on the bathroom floor.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10172415 - 04/15/09 05:59 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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My life becomes second priority, my childs health, safety, and entire wellbeing becomes my top focus.
This is undoubtable, non-debatable, there is no compromise here.
There is no using every once in a while, no once a month, no here and there, no only-on-special-occasions.
NO USING AT ALL, ZERO, if my girlfriend turns out to be pregnant.
This is a matter of my CHILD'S LIFE.
I wouldn't jeopordize that for anything in the whole fucking world, not even my girlfriend herself.
im glad to hear that uve got ur priorities sorted. i read some of the odd thread but got a bit lost amidst the mudslinging. i cant say i think u doing heroin even pretty spread out is a great idea but each to their own, and i cudnt honestly say i wudnt do it if offered. so long as ur in control enough to give it up if need be. (whether for your health or ur potential child)
now to get that pregnancy test done!
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going 7 and a half months before she plucked up courage to take a test and realised she was in fact pregnant
How fat is your friend exactly that she didn't notice a large growth?
lol, shes a bit fat/chubby but not like obese. maybe 14 -20 pounds overweight maximum. i hope ive translated between american and uk weights accurately there. shed suspected for a while tho, just been too worried about the consequences to get a test done.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: pseudonym88]
#10172611 - 04/15/09 06:38 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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20 pounds overweight = fat as FUCK!
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: hpi]
#10172918 - 04/15/09 07:24 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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So I figured it'd be in my best interest to educate her on some things that I've learned throughout my years around the block (I lost my virginity at 15 and my number of sexual partners is in the double digits )
Holy shit man you are fucking KRAZY!
But really, if she is preg'd, then sit down with her and tell her all the shit you JUST told us and it'd make your life a lot easier, because then you two can honestly and calmly communicate all your feelings now, before getting in a huge fight, saying all this, and having it come out the wrong way... only to end it total misery, child support, and a fucked up life for you child. Communication is numero uno mi friendey
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ol, shes a bit fat/chubby but not like obese. maybe 14 -20 pounds overweight maximum. i hope ive translated between american and uk weights accurately there. shed suspected for a while tho, just been too worried about the consequences to get a test done.
So she is 6kg-8kg over weight? Ya, that's fat for a girl. Sorry.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant *DELETED* [Re: wireless]
#10173158 - 04/15/09 08:03 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Post deleted by Ell Ess BreeReason for deletion: I was really fucking drunk and really fucking pissed.
Everything is cool now.
I fucking love this girl more than anything on the fucking planet.
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10173171 - 04/15/09 08:05 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Man this is so great
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Re: I think I got my girlfriend pregnant [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#10173203 - 04/15/09 08:12 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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You know something? I don't usully talk this way about girls but you're gf;s a fucking dumb bitch!
Stupid bitch
Stupid dumb bitch!
I bet shed make a horrible mom and you'd make a shit father. This is one of the dumbest things Ive read ,
However... I used heroin on thursday of last week, but not for a week and a half prior to that.
I haven't used since last thursday, just been taking my suboxone. I'm only intregued with the drug at this point, nowhere near addicted. I don't get cravings, I don't even think about it unless I choose to.
I found it to be incredible interesting and worth my time and money when I felt like experiencing it.
Suboxone? Are you fucking serious? That's powerful as fuck, what the fuick are you taking that for any? You some kinda idiot?
I hope you don't have a kid cause it's gonna grow up with 2 carbon fiber idiot stick parents in a broken home and then you're gonna get it taken away by a bunch of stupid fuycking Fat Christian losers who are gonna raise it to believe in Jesus and God and the kids gonna turn out a schizophrenic religious fucking airhead motherfucker!
Now I'm PISSED off and I need to fucking vent!
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