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AroundtheSon
Learning to See
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Loc: Midwest.
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Platinum
Psychonautical Engineer
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Loc: New York
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Re: Need Advice - Girls Friend [Re: AroundtheSon]
#8983922 - 09/25/08 11:50 AM (15 years, 6 months ago) |
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just me
Friend
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why lie, why cheat?
if you want the other girl, be honest with the first girl.
if i were you id go for the 3sum
but dont beat around the bush ( )
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ManianFH
living in perverty
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Re: Need Advice - Girls Friend [Re: Platinum]
#8983950 - 09/25/08 11:55 AM (15 years, 6 months ago) |
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Platinum said:
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Tchan909 said: I would not let it go any further if I were you, if the first girl means anything to you at all. You'll be destroying not only your own friendship with her but the friendship between the two girls.
the first girl doesnt really mean anything to me... except as a friend. i dont even really want the sex with her anymore, i'm just taking it cuz i can get it. and i really like her friend.
Platinum if you still want to be her friend, then first you need to see where this is going to go with the new chick. If you think there is potential for long term then sit down with your fuck buddy first and tell her you really like this other girl and want to try and have a relationship with her.
If she considers you a friend and understands the logistics of the relationship the way you do things should turn out ok. It will be 5 minutes of awkwardness to save a friendship, definitely worth it,
-------------------- notapillow said: "you are going about this endeavor all wrong. clear your mind of useless fear and concern. buy the ticket, take the ride, and all that.... " ChrisWho said: "It's all about the journey, not the destination."
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Platinum
Psychonautical Engineer
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Re: Need Advice - Girls Friend [Re: ManianFH]
#8983963 - 09/25/08 11:58 AM (15 years, 6 months ago) |
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i could just be looking to deeply into things or it could be coincidence. but since i ended things with the fuck buddy her friend hasnt been able to hang out. seems like theres always a reason. so im going to start things up with the fuck buddy again, and see what happens. if she suddenly is able to hang out again then ill see her true motives, she just wants what she cant have... theres no "danger" in it right now. well see how things go.
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ManianFH
living in perverty
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Re: Need Advice - Girls Friend [Re: Platinum]
#8983974 - 09/25/08 12:01 PM (15 years, 6 months ago) |
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Platinum said: heres a little update. i told the first person i just wanted to be friends. and she agreed. i was talkin to the friend last night and she said shes still in love with her ex. not a big deal though... just lookin to have some fun but i thought maybe if i ended things with the first person itll be easier for the friend. guess not... not im wishing i hadnt said that to the original girl. well... im sure if i wanted i could still get with the original one... just invite her over andmake a move..
ouch tho... when she said she was still in love with her ex... just ouch.
eh.....
sigh.....
well try and keep having sex with her, youve already come that far.. maybe without you trying something more will come from that, but dont count on it
-------------------- notapillow said: "you are going about this endeavor all wrong. clear your mind of useless fear and concern. buy the ticket, take the ride, and all that.... " ChrisWho said: "It's all about the journey, not the destination."
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just me
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Re: Need Advice - Girls Friend [Re: Platinum]
#8983976 - 09/25/08 12:01 PM (15 years, 6 months ago) |
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3SUM DUM DUM
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ManianFH
living in perverty
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Re: Need Advice - Girls Friend [Re: ManianFH]
#8983991 - 09/25/08 12:05 PM (15 years, 6 months ago) |
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blah im a step behind this whole situation. I recommend you Do Not get back with the first chick. Move on man, you said it yourself you werent even interested in sex with her. On top of that you told her you didnt want to do that anymore. Dont confuse the poor woman because your masterplan to date her friend didnt work out (truth hurts). Id say, keep going towards the unknown.. fuck teh new girl and see how shit pans out.
And be honest with your friend about whay youre up to, friends are honest with each other. Maybe she can offer you insight on how to approach this other girl.
-------------------- notapillow said: "you are going about this endeavor all wrong. clear your mind of useless fear and concern. buy the ticket, take the ride, and all that.... " ChrisWho said: "It's all about the journey, not the destination."
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Pernicano22
Almost Dead....
Registered: 08/01/08
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FatMamaCheezcake said: That's so stupid. Grow some balls, do what you want, and man up about it. Better still, you coulda done the right thing and manned up about it BEFORE-hand instead of bein' all chicken and sneaky about it.
Especially since it seems you LIKElike the second girl. I can definitely see this ending well for all three of you.
I Agree, Man Up and Make your Choice
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QuantumReality
Mycopath 🗡
Registered: 05/20/07
Posts: 3,203
Loc: BoobyTraps
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Re: Need Advice - Girls Friend [Re: Platinum]
#8984117 - 09/25/08 12:37 PM (15 years, 6 months ago) |
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Out with the old in with the new, no buts
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igwna
The Cap'n
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kill the ex with a knife = solved.
-------------------- I don't believe in cops, bosses, or politicians. Some call that anarchism. I call it having a fucking heart that beats.
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FatMamaCheezcake
Stranger
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Dizzwizzle said: Out with the old in with the new, no buts
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I disagree. Definitely you should at least TRY for the butts.
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Platinum
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Re: Need Advice - Girls Friend [Re: igwna]
#8984802 - 09/25/08 03:01 PM (15 years, 6 months ago) |
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skcorrelyt said: kill the ex with a knife = solved.
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Lndrydusting
Forever new. . .
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Re: Need Advice - Girls Friend [Re: Lndrydusting]
#8986773 - 09/25/08 09:09 PM (15 years, 6 months ago) |
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Lndrydusting said: I'm telling you if you end it with the first girl this friend will drop you like an atom bomb! The only reason she's probably sleeping with you is because she's jealous of her friend and secretly wants to hurt her and blame it on you!
Who totally fucking called it ???? Seriously this shit happens with girls alot more than you think! Girls have friends, enemies and "fr-enemies"..... Its kind of an MTV term but its wicked surreal
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just me
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Re: Need Advice - Girls Friend [Re: Lndrydusting]
#8987774 - 09/26/08 12:49 AM (15 years, 6 months ago) |
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she knows cuz she is such a monster
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