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sui



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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766752 - 04/09/07 05:00 PM (5 years, 1 month ago) |
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The message no matter what can come off creepy, its alla bout how she takes it.
I sent this to my girlfriend like right after we started talkin. I really didnt mean for it to come off creepy but looking back it kinda did. 
"It was nice talking to you Laska, I was thinking about that shooting star we saw. That was pretty cool and the fact that we were just talking about astrology makes it even cooler lol.
I wish we had a place that we could go to talk that wasnt in your car. Theres just too many people here, Rio on my couch, Troy and Ryan in the Living room, it sucks, but this is really the only place they have to go. I dont mind and Its better than them being homeless.
I was thinking maybe we can get a room somewhere later this week when i get paid. Please dont think im just out to sleep with you, i just want to get to know you better and it would be easier to talk if there wernt like 4 people around plus my place is kinda a mess(5 guys in a SMALL place LOL).
Id like it if we could, though i understand if you are uncomfortable with it.
See ya tomarrow at work.(or rather today LOL)
peace, Sui"
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it stars saddam
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: sui]
#6766773 - 04/09/07 05:07 PM (5 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
suimush said: Please dont think im just out to sleep with you
You shouldn't have said that.
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sui



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Quote:
it stars saddam said:
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suimush said: Please dont think im just out to sleep with you
You shouldn't have said that.
ya think
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Quote:
it stars saddam said:
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suimush said: Please dont think im just out to sleep with you
You shouldn't have said that.
Better than removing the "please dont think" part of it.
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adrug

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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766931 - 04/09/07 05:49 PM (5 years, 1 month ago) |
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Aw Randall... Just talk to the girl.
Myspace? Come on. Grow some balls!
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6767073 - 04/09/07 06:26 PM (5 years, 1 month ago) |
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you seem like a sweet guy. go for it.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6859741 - 05/01/07 06:30 PM (5 years, 1 month ago) |
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so what happened with this, randal?
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: dr_gonz]
#6860119 - 05/01/07 07:54 PM (5 years, 1 month ago) |
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If i were interested i would think it's cute if i wasn't... i'd prolly still think it's cute.
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DrCamacho89
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: Aninator]
#6860157 - 05/01/07 08:01 PM (5 years, 1 month ago) |
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Women sometimes like the akwardness. I happen to think they like the mysterious over the awkwardness, but that's just me. I think women may find this cute, but intrigued by a guy who lays it out on the table in a myspace message? Unlikely. The element of mystery is gone, and it has become impersonal in the process.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: dr_gonz]
#6866510 - 05/03/07 08:19 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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She never called. I have since shifted my focus back to having sex with drunk ugly girls.
I'm NEVER going after a girl again. I'll let them come to me. Because if they want you...they find a way to put themselves in front of you. It just sucks. The girls I want either don't want me or they do and I make a complete idiot out of myself and ruin my chance.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866522 - 05/03/07 08:22 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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RandalFlagg said: I make a complete idiot out of myself and ruin my chance.
How?
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goobler
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866534 - 05/03/07 08:25 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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its ok man.....
tell me all about it
/pats couch
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866554 - 05/03/07 08:31 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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Why didn't you just talk to her whilst shit-faced?
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866567 - 05/03/07 08:35 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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RandalFlagg said:

She never called. I have since shifted my focus back to having sex with drunk ugly girls.
I'm NEVER going after a girl again. I'll let them come to me. Because if they want you...they find a way to put themselves in front of you. It just sucks. The girls I want either don't want me or they do and I make a complete idiot out of myself and ruin my chance.
You need to not worry about it and learn to take rejection better. A woman will reject you for many reasons and they don't always include their not interested in you, ie ex-boyfriend/relationship, no time to pursue dating bc work/school, she is talking to another guy and doesn't want to ruin it by pursuing other guys etc.
Timing is the key to life, and if you get so upset that the timing was off that you will not try for a good looking, cool girl again, then I don't know who you think you're punishing. You're only hurting yourself. Don't let another person EVER dictate your happiness. Get in the gym, grow some confidence, because after reading your posts, I think the only thing you're missing right now is confidence.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6866754 - 05/03/07 09:12 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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Quote:
JunkFood said:
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RandalFlagg said: I make a complete idiot out of myself and ruin my chance.
How?
I get nervous and freak out around girls that I like/am attracted to. I either say nothing and can't "get the ball rolling" or I say the dumbest shit imaginable. However, if I'm not attracted to the girl then I can totally be cool and talkative. That's why I always end up with girls that I'm not really interested in...because I can talk to them.
The last girl I had sex with was a bar-slut who had a face that looked like it was run over by a truck. I guess that's just my lot in life.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866776 - 05/03/07 09:15 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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do you pick up said sluts where this girl you like bartends? or has friends that work there?
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DrCamacho89
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866783 - 05/03/07 09:17 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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We've all been there man. It comes in stages. Head up, the more you practice with the girls you are comfortable with, you will carry that over to the others because you will learn to disassociate the two over time. It starts with your self worth.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: goobler]
#6866786 - 05/03/07 09:17 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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Actually no. So, she has no clue that I am a promiscuous creep who prays on ugly women.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866792 - 05/03/07 09:18 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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RandalFlagg said: I get nervous and freak out around girls that I like/am attracted to. I either say nothing and can't "get the ball rolling" or I say the dumbest shit imaginable. However, if I'm not attracted to the girl then I can totally be cool and talkative. That's why I always end up with girls that I'm not really interested in...because I can talk to them.
The last girl I had sex with was a bar-slut who had a face that looked like it was run over by a truck. I guess that's just my lot in life.
You shouldn't go below your standards.
If you don't have any good girls to fuck don't fuck any girls at all.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6866802 - 05/03/07 09:22 AM (5 years, 29 days ago) |
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Shit my boy has a complete 10 for a gf, then fucks her fat ass 240lb best freind Fuck em all short fat retarted and tall
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The only time I will depend
is when I’m seventy years old
thats when I can’t Hold my shit
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so I shit on myself
Cuz I’m so sick and tired of shittin’ on everybody else"
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