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RandalFlagg said:

Man, I have a lot of issues when it comes to women.  I watched women manipulate my dad and take all of his money.  I watched my male friends get cheated on.  I watched women in my life lie to me and do whatever they could to pursue what they wanted (and they didn't care if they hurt other people).  I have been hurt by women and I've seen males that I care about get hurt by women.  I just DO NOT trust most females.

So, it's like a double whammy.  I don't think I'm good enough for the girls that I like and I don't want to get close to them because I don't want to get hurt. 

I intentionally go after girls that are ugly and with lackluster personalities because they are easy and I enjoy treating them like crap.    And you know what's scary....they like being treated like crap.  Because when you treat them well they get bored of you.

I think that I'm subconsciously getting women back for all of the shit I've seen them pull.  I guess that I'm a misogynist because of this.

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OK man, that's some fucked up shazbot right thur. 
Until you stop blaming every woman you meet for perceived
past transgressions, you're probably not going to find yourself in a good relationship. 

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From females I have seen horrifying instances of fickleness, selfishness, and manipulative behavior. I could tell you some stories that would make you recoil.

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Yea, and I could tell you plenty of stories about fickle, selfish, and manipulative behavior by guys too!  Now I'm not sayin' guys and gals are exactly the same, it does seem that in general we do behave a bit differently and that makes sense, given the underlying levels of various hormones between the sexes.  What I'm getting at here is that you need to chill out, learn to give everyone a clean slate, tabula rasa and all that good shit.  Also, if you're an ugly motherfucker, you may as well stop dreaming about them supermodels.  Find someone on your level, but don't go lowering yourself and your standards just so you can be an ass.

If you're dedicated and open, patient and discerning, you can find an honest partner who is fun to be around, and with whom you may share a myriad positive moments.  But only if you keep looking for it!  Let go of your preconceived notions, be tolerant with self-respect and respect for others.  Reciprocity.  And good luck...