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 RandalFlagg
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 Re: Warning: dating rant inside  [Re: CherryBom]
#5821613 - 07/04/06 10:10 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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How amazing is it that 99% of the people in this thread are jaded beyond belief? It seems as if we've all had our hearts broken or at least trampled upon. And it seems as if we have all had awkward moments in the whole game of love.
Let's just all stay single for the rest of our lives. It's easier.
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CherryBom
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5821620 - 07/04/06 10:12 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Heh, I didn't realize that untill you pointed it out, but you are entirely correct. Oh man.
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KingOftheThing
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: CherryBom]
#5821623 - 07/04/06 10:13 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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CherryBom said:
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RandalFlagg said:
I don't feel like "playing the game" anymore. I just want to be myself.
That's how you win the game. When you stop caring about it.
hmm i always thought winning the lotto and spending the rest of your life banging 22yr old models was how you won the game? 
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 Gillette
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5821641 - 07/04/06 10:19 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I don't call it jaded, I call it realistic...
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Boom
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Gillette]
#5821646 - 07/04/06 10:22 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah you folks all sound pretty bitter
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KingOftheThing
the cool fool
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Boom]
#5821659 - 07/04/06 10:26 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Booooom said:
Yeah you folks all sound pretty bitter
the first time you get really burned by a member of the opposite sex it makes you a little bitter...then every time subsequently just adds to the bitterness.
Edited by KingOftheThing (07/04/06 10:33 PM)
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OneWhoHasSeen
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Gillette]
#5821686 - 07/04/06 10:33 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Gillette, if I may add my 2-cents in here?
Firstly, let me say you are NOT talking to someone who knows how to date. I never went out on dates, never had a girlfriend. When I DID get a girlfriend, we got married soon after.
But in my humble opinion, you should become FRIENDS with someone before you decide to "date" them or start a relationship. IMO, you should stop going out on dates and start inviting prospective males to hang out with you and your friends. If a guy asks you for a date (or you are interested in a date with a guy), then take him along with a group of your other friends. Make him a friend before you decide to start a relationship with him.
A lasting relationship is built on compatibility. You need to become friends with someone and build up some sort of trust before you can find out who they really are. What do you learn on a date? You learn a lot about that person's social mask (the face he shows the world), but not about who he is on a truly deeply level, and that is the person you will be having the relationship with, not his mask.
Me and my wife were friends for over seven years before we decided to get together, and we have never had any issues with “on again/off again” or any of the other games people tend to play with each other. We occasionally have fights, but because we are best friends we have no problems making up again in the end.
As far as the rest of the dicussion goes, I think Cherrybom has it right.
“If you love someone and want to be with them, there are NO games. You are truthful and honest about how you feel and why you feel it. You're angry? Be angry! Frustrated? Break something! It's fun! Don't lie to yourself about how you are feeling. And for bloody hell, don't you fucking dare lie to somebody who loves you with their entire soul. They don't deserve that, and you don't deserve that.”
This is what having a soul-mate is all about, anything else is just ego games.
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Jim
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: CherryBom]
#5821687 - 07/04/06 10:33 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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fuck that not all guys lie... chivalry isn't dead... some of us still have manners...
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CherryBom
Yoga Gypsy
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Jim]
#5821698 - 07/04/06 10:37 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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CherryBom said:
I know that. I was just being angry. Sorry. 
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Jim
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: CherryBom]
#5821704 - 07/04/06 10:37 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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its understood...
the statistic of the good ones I'm sure is less than 1%....
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Use the Fucking Reply To Feature You Lazy Pieces of Shit! afoaf said: Jim, if you were in my city, I would let you fuck my wife.
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Gillette
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: OneWhoHasSeen]
#5821709 - 07/04/06 10:38 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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yeah K I usually do the friend thing, which makes me wonder why I'm even doing the gay dating thing, maybe its because I almost feel obligated to do it, who knows.
The thing about my friends tho, is I've either known them all forever, so we're like family....or its you guys, and the distance thing is a real pain in the ass.....
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Redstorm
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Gillette]
#5821730 - 07/04/06 10:43 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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At least you can get a date. 
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Gillette
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Redstorm]
#5821733 - 07/04/06 10:44 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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pfffffft like your having that hard of a time
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Jim
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: MOTH]
#5821737 - 07/04/06 10:45 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I would never violate the sanctity of someone else marriage...
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Use the Fucking Reply To Feature You Lazy Pieces of Shit! afoaf said: Jim, if you were in my city, I would let you fuck my wife.
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Redstorm
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Gillette]
#5821751 - 07/04/06 10:47 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I've been on two dates since December, both of them being in February. Let's not forget that this girl stopped taking phone calls from me sometime after the second date for some mysterious reason.
I'm having quite a hard time.
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MOTH
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Jim]
#5821756 - 07/04/06 10:48 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Jim said:
I would never violate the sanctity of someone else marriage...
It's up to the couple involved to define what that sanctity is for them, though.
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Jim
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Redstorm]
#5821757 - 07/04/06 10:48 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I don't enjoy 'dating'... the best relationships I have ever had just happened by chance...
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Use the Fucking Reply To Feature You Lazy Pieces of Shit! afoaf said: Jim, if you were in my city, I would let you fuck my wife.
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Jim
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: MOTH]
#5821761 - 07/04/06 10:49 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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thats not how I was brought up... but if it works go with it...
I just personally wouldn't do it...
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Use the Fucking Reply To Feature You Lazy Pieces of Shit! afoaf said: Jim, if you were in my city, I would let you fuck my wife.
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Gillette
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Redstorm]
#5821763 - 07/04/06 10:49 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Awwwww
are you asking out chicks tho? or just sitting at home?
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OneMoreRobot3021
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Jim]
#5821765 - 07/04/06 10:50 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Jim said:
I don't enjoy 'dating'... the best relationships I have ever had just happened by chance...
Same here.
In fact, I don't think I've ever "dated."
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