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sanchothestoner
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Why is my mom such a bitch?
#18139433 - 04/20/13 09:14 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Instead of showing compassion, she puts me down. Instead of offering help, she just laughs and says I'll go no where. What the fuck, man? She's such a terrible mother! I hate her. She's so controlling of everything and if things don't go her way she gets pissed. She's my mother, she should support me and show me love. Instead she makes me feel like the biggest sack of shit of the fucking planet.
I was trying to retune my guitar, but it have a double locking tremelo thing so tuning it is a bitch. I fucked it up and now I have to go get it fixed. I'm pissed off at that. I was talking with my dad and I was raising my voice because he wasn't understanding how I fucked up and I was pissed. My mom comes in and is like "Why are you yelling? I'm trying to sleep." I tell her I'm mad because of what happened and she's like "Wow you get mad at something so stupid?" I'm just like what the fuck?! Music is my passion and she knows that. I raised my voice a little more than she's like "Stop yelling! You're a crazy person for getting so upset at nothing!" Then she just starts going off and shit and we get in a huge fight.
She always makes fun of me! She's the reason I'm so fucked up in the head. She's a hypocritical bitch. If I tell her something I want to do with my life that she wouldn't do or doesn't like she puts me down so hard. She makes me feel like a piece of shit constantly. Fuck man, I'm trying so hard not to cry right now.... This fucking SUCKS. I don't love my own mother...
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
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thatsnice69
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Slip some L in her juice
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itsthedank
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Re: Why is my mom such a bitch? [Re: thatsnice69] 4
#18139468 - 04/20/13 09:26 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Move out and be glad you have two parents.
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Shroomslip
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My mom's a bitch too.. I'm so glad I wasn't raised by her. I pretty much avoid her as best as I can now. She has her moments, but she spends most of the time completely bombed ass drunk, to where she can't even say 1 line without slurring at least one word so bad it's almost incomprehensible. When she gets drunk all she does is go on and on about her problems and what's bugging her, she will literally repeat the same exact line 10-20x in 10 minutes. "No, but <my name>, your brother is disrespecting me and I'm not going to take it" something like that, she'll say that over and over again through a conversation.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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sanchothestoner
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Re: Why is my mom such a bitch? [Re: itsthedank]
#18139524 - 04/20/13 09:51 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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thatsnice69 said: Slip some L in her juice
She wouldn't be able to handle it. She'd fucking lose it.
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itsthedank said: Move out and be glad you have two parents.
My dad's not a whole lot better. He's a lot nicer, but he doesn't really know how to be a parent. Our personalities also clash quite a bit.
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
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Tmethyl
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You have to stop depending on mom. Best thing to do is abandon her completely, shell come around and realize, eventually.
Show her you're serious, by taking real action.
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Force Ten
Home Will Always Be Here
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Re: Why is my mom such a bitch? [Re: itsthedank] 3
#18139547 - 04/20/13 09:58 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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itsthedank said: Move out and be glad you have two parents.
This.
Doesn't sound all that ridiculous to me... sure, you fucked up your tuning and now you have to get it fixed.. big deal. Shit happens. Part of being an adult is learning to solve problems instead of throwing hissy fits over them. Perhaps your mother didn't make her point in the most diplomatic, but hey man she has a right to sleep, and since I'm guessing its your parents house and you don't pay rent (correct me if I'm wrong) They have the right to set rules for how shits gonna go down there, like not having to listen to people yell about random shit.
Not to say that that justifies putting you down, but you'd probably be happier if you took responsibility for your own feelings and realized that no one else can MAKE you feel any certain way, there is a gap between stimulus and response in which you can choose how to interpret and react to the actions of others. Focus on what you can control. You can't control the behavior of others, but you CAN control your own thoughts, emotions and behavior.
-------------------- So hear this please And watch as your heart speeds up endlessly And look for the stars as the sun goes down Each breath that you take has a thunderous sound Everything, everything's magic
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VivaLaMushie
RIP LS :(
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I have no relationship w the bitch who gave birth to me. Sometimes moms aren't what they seem.
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Mr. Magoo
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Re: Why is my mom such a bitch? [Re: itsthedank] 2
#18139559 - 04/20/13 10:02 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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I hear you man. My mom told me that I'm a loser and that I'd never amount to anything when I was only 8. I'm in my 30's now and I don't ever think I'll ever forget that day. I think parents act that way sometimes because that might be the way that their parents treated them. It's the same thing with alcoholism and physical abuse. If you grow up seeing and dealing with situations like that you're more likely to treat your kids the same way. It's on us to break the cycle. My best advise is try to be patient with your mom because she may not know any better. I know you're probably thinking that sounds stupid because she's the grown up so she should know how to act, but sometimes you have to be the mature one when you end up in situations like that. Like I said just be patient. You're not going to be living there much longer and you only have one mom. My mom and I get along great now that we live in different states. Hang in there man.
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sanchothestoner
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Re: Why is my mom such a bitch? [Re: Force Ten]
#18139570 - 04/20/13 10:05 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Force Ten said:
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itsthedank said: Move out and be glad you have two parents.
This.
Doesn't sound all that ridiculous to me... sure, you fucked up your tuning and now you have to get it fixed.. big deal. Shit happens. Part of being an adult is learning to solve problems instead of throwing hissy fits over them. Perhaps your mother didn't make her point in the most diplomatic, but hey man she has a right to sleep, and since I'm guessing its your parents house and you don't pay rent (correct me if I'm wrong) They have the right to set rules for how shits gonna go down there, like not having to listen to people yell about random shit.
Not to say that that justifies putting you down, but you'd probably be happier if you took responsibility for your own feelings and realized that no one else can MAKE you feel any certain way, there is a gap between stimulus and response in which you can choose how to interpret and react to the actions of others. Focus on what you can control. You can't control the behavior of others, but you CAN control your own thoughts, emotions and behavior.
Yeah, I reread my post and it makes me sound like a bitch. I left a lot out because I didn't feel like sharing everything that happened. The thing is, she's the ONLY person who gets me mad. At least this mad. Her whole attitude is what gets to me.
Whatever, I just needed to rant.
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TheFakeSunRa
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If you're an adult you need to get your own place. My parents were asswipes and when I turned 18 I rolled right the fuck out. I've been a broke ass fuck ever since but I would rather starve than live with those assholes.
And if music is your passion you ought to be able to tune your fucking guitar.
-------------------- [quote]Asante said: You constantly make posts thatr fling middle school insults at people you don't like mixed in with maladjusted psychopathic comments about wanting to beat up the other poster with a crowbar. You know how shit you are, you just don't give a fuck for precisely that reason. I disendorse you.[/quote]
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hidenseek1
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my mom can be pretty negitive at time, but i think its just s copeingmechnism, seem llike usually it is because i didnt do something e ws supposed to, or did somethinght i was not told to do but i was suppsoed to have.
which i understand
another point for if i procrastinate, am i am baout to do something thats was suppsed to be done, and shell yeall at me while, im omn my way to do it or is actually doing it
then ther is times where it seems the more around the house i do, the nore she yells at me to do, as oppsed to when i sit around on the computer s=all fayy its liek a get outa wotk free card, i guess outa sight outta mind
there there jus generally weirdness that you get with every humen
i think being awfully annoying/harsh runs in my family, from environment if not physical
-------------------- You can drink at 7 A.M., because the Beastie Boys fought for that right -------------------------------------------------------------------------- pons asinorum -------------------------------------------------------------------------- lsd and the vietnam war changed music forever
Edited by hidenseek1 (04/20/13 10:21 AM)
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sanchothestoner
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Re: Why is my mom such a bitch? [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
#18139616 - 04/20/13 10:27 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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TheFakeSunRa said: And if music is your passion you ought to be able to tune your fucking guitar.
I can tune guitars, but not a double locking tremolo guitar. They're a bitch to take care of when it needs some tuning up.
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
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TheFakeSunRa
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So every time you restring your guitar you have to take it to a shop?
-------------------- [quote]Asante said: You constantly make posts thatr fling middle school insults at people you don't like mixed in with maladjusted psychopathic comments about wanting to beat up the other poster with a crowbar. You know how shit you are, you just don't give a fuck for precisely that reason. I disendorse you.[/quote]
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sanchothestoner
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Re: Why is my mom such a bitch? [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
#18139694 - 04/20/13 10:54 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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TheFakeSunRa said: So every time you restring your guitar you have to take it to a shop?
This one, yes. But the strings last a really long time. I've only gotten restrung once.
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
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TheFakeSunRa
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Do you have a girlfriend?
-------------------- [quote]Asante said: You constantly make posts thatr fling middle school insults at people you don't like mixed in with maladjusted psychopathic comments about wanting to beat up the other poster with a crowbar. You know how shit you are, you just don't give a fuck for precisely that reason. I disendorse you.[/quote]
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sanchothestoner
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Re: Why is my mom such a bitch? [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
#18139710 - 04/20/13 10:58 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Working on that. Going on a date this week.
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
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TheFakeSunRa
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Get your dick in that shit man
-------------------- [quote]Asante said: You constantly make posts thatr fling middle school insults at people you don't like mixed in with maladjusted psychopathic comments about wanting to beat up the other poster with a crowbar. You know how shit you are, you just don't give a fuck for precisely that reason. I disendorse you.[/quote]
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sanchothestoner
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Re: Why is my mom such a bitch? [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
#18139737 - 04/20/13 11:04 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Pretty confident I can. This chick is so rad. Last Friday we stayed up all night on LSD and MDA while smoking bowls of DMT throughout. I'm pretty sure she was only keeping up with me to impress me a bit
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
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TheFakeSunRa
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When your mom hears you busting that ass over your baby intercom she's gonna know you're a man now and to keep her bitch yap closed when your double tremelo goes sour.
-------------------- [quote]Asante said: You constantly make posts thatr fling middle school insults at people you don't like mixed in with maladjusted psychopathic comments about wanting to beat up the other poster with a crowbar. You know how shit you are, you just don't give a fuck for precisely that reason. I disendorse you.[/quote]
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