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 Bundy
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 What would you do? 
#16686245 - 08/12/12 08:53 AM (9 months, 5 days ago) |
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So my sister has been with this man for 8 years, married for 6. When my first nephew was a year old, some girl sent her a message on Facebook saying "Your husband cheated on you with me."
My sister asked if it was true, and he said "She's an old school fling from a long time ago, she's just jealous."
Well, now it's a few years later, and it turns out he's friends with a guy from work, who knows her, and his friend was over and talking about that girl, and it came up, I'm guessing by accident, that he actually DID cheat on my sister, while they were married, and had a 1 year old son together.
She loves him, it's obvious, but she's very torn. She has two kids with him now, he's in the air force, she's spent almost a decade with the man, and doesn't want to throw it away, but she's still very worried.
She made him call his mom the other day and tell her what he had done, and she made him call our mom and tell her. (I'm guessing that was his punishment)
I dunno man, if I found out I was cheated on during my marriage, I don't care how old it was, I'd be furious, disgusted, I'd feel used and dirty, and would leave. Most of all I'd be pissed at the lie, and the extent, and length.
She pretty much feels like what I just said above ^
but doesn't know wether to forgive and move on, or if she should leave.
What would you folks of the shroomery do?
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xamplesample
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 Re: What would you do? [Re: Bundy]
#16686434 - 08/12/12 10:18 AM (9 months, 5 days ago) |
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xxblahblablahxx
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Registered: 07/14/12
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I think it depends on the extent of the cheating. Like, was it only once or was it like an affair? It's hard to say unless you are in that situation (8 years in with a kid) what you would do. In any event, I would suggest marriage counseling before just calling it quits.
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 Synth Ethics
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I recommend you stay out of all this as its none of your business
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BudsMacKenzie
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Quote:
simon418 said:
I recommend you stay out of all this as its none of your business
He is just asking what "we" would do...
Id leave my significant other, Id first make her feel like a dirty slut and then take everything of mine and my child and move on. Theres no more trust, theres no more stable relationship. At least to me. Once trust is broken which is a hell of a challenge for me give, its over.
My 2cents. 
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