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Anonymous #1
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 device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight 
#16639023 - 08/03/12 12:09 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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will there ever be one?
im 19, gay, although i live a straight life and it would be much better, and i would love it, if i were just straight. i used to be growing up, i would get harder then a rock from tits an pussy.
I want to settle down with a Female, and I want her to have MY kids, and grow up as a family.
this is sorta depressing.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16639055 - 08/03/12 12:20 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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Do you really want a female or would you be just as happy with a male partner as long as you could have kids?
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 Lynnch
Strangerer
Registered: 04/29/09
Posts: 4,313
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Anonymous #2]
#16639076 - 08/03/12 12:27 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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....SO you are interested in a relationship with a female... and you want to have kids.... but what, you can't bring yourself to have sex with women?
What made you turn gay? How about you just call yourself bi and see what happens?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Anonymous #2]
#16639079 - 08/03/12 12:28 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Do you really want a female or would you be just as happy with a male partner as long as you could have kids?
i dont know, ive always longed for a female partner, it could be how i grew up, regardless, ive felt deep emotional connections in the past with females, and i know i could in the future, its just the physical aspect. i can tell a girl is beautiful, but my dick just wont get hard.
sometimes, but rarely, i find myself wanting to fuck a girl in the v or ass, or suck on her titties. but these are girls ive known for awhile, lost contact, came back into contact mostly.
new girls that i want my mind to recognize as physically amazing, dont get my dick to tingle.
but the idea of it sounds alot better, an it looks like better sex although i get aroused from men on men, i just would rather fuck a girl an be happy with it. honestly.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Lynnch]
#16639087 - 08/03/12 12:31 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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most likely environmental factors turn me gay. i went into a deep depression when i was 15-17, starting smoking copious amounts of marijuana, everyday, one day i was jacking it to porn when i was high,,, looked at the dude, got a rock hard boner. anxiety about being gay i feel like fueled it
also, my parents divorced, live with dad, moved away from all my guy friends growing up because of divorce. mom is crazy, im trying to love my mom again.
Edited by Anonymous (08/03/12 12:35 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16639099 - 08/03/12 12:34 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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also i hooked up with a guy once, a chubby. ive posted about it. i couldnt kiss the dude and i was drunk and holdin my saliva in my mouth, i didnt want to swallow it, to be honest i was very fuckin grossed out about the kissing. id 100 percent rather kiss a female and i enjoy it more. but i got hard and come off the thought of just a guy sucking my cock.
also its not that idont get hard from a female interaction, cause after we start interacting, i do., but the erection isnt as quick, nor as hard
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Lynnch
Strangerer
Registered: 04/29/09
Posts: 4,313
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16639135 - 08/03/12 12:41 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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I don't think looking at a dude and getting a boner necessarily makes you gay.
Think with your mind not with your dick dude. I like big hard dick too, mine, going into some pussy. You see?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Lynnch]
#16639158 - 08/03/12 12:46 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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Lynnch said:
I don't think looking at a dude and getting a boner necessarily makes you gay.
Think with your mind not with your dick dude. I like big hard dick too, mine, going into some pussy. You see?
well its the thought..
i feel like i have anxiety on both sides, which could be the problem. as in, i try to force the boner when thinking of a girl, and i try to take away the boner when thinking of a guy. so when the take the boner away from a guy it increases, an when i try to justify and think of reasons that this girl is hot it takes away.
solution: just accepting it i suppose, and stop jacking off immensely. 2-3 times aday
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Lynnch
Strangerer
Registered: 04/29/09
Posts: 4,313
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16639208 - 08/03/12 01:02 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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Just relax. This stuff isn't as cut and dry as people make it out to be.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Lynnch]
#16639212 - 08/03/12 01:03 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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Quote:
Lynnch said:
Just relax. This stuff isn't as cut and dry as people make it out to be.
thats a nice perspective. hopefully it sticks
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 mick
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Registered: 07/06/04
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16639461 - 08/03/12 01:56 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
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Lynnch said:
Just relax. This stuff isn't as cut and dry as people make it out to be.
thats a nice perspective. hopefully it sticks
if you want to hook up with a female for natural reasons I think it will eventually happen for you. Gay/Straight doesnt define who you can and cant have sex with, i think if anything the labels inhibit your desires because now you might feel trapped in a role. sexuality can be very fluid. I would keep your eyes open and continue to network with people. Maybe you will run into a girl you do feel sexually attracted to, and will get a chance to explore that side of yourself with her.
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All We Perceive
Sea Cucumber
Registered: 09/25/07
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Loc: colorado
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: mick]
#16639777 - 08/03/12 02:51 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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Yeah. I'm sure to get mad flack for this, but I think a decent percentage of the gay population just had trouble with girls or some sort of depression during their formative "relational" years, got frustrated, and convinced themselves they were gay. Bisexuality also gets a lot of jealousy from the gay/straight population who try and force you into one category or the other I personally think because they are afraid to break their own self-image of gay or straight. As a bisexual person, I can say that I definitely thought I thought I was gay for a few years because of anxiety/depression/people suggesting I was gay. As mick said, sexuality is very fluid and you should be able to have sex with whomever you wish without your "category" affecting you. Your post reminds me of a really good gay friend of mine who was considering hooking up with chicks (and seemed to really want to) but still hasn't yet because it would impact his self-image. Don't let you hold yourself back.
Myself, I am attracted to neither the stereotypically "hot" male or female. To me, a "7" who is smart as fuck, bold, not afraid to take risks, and open to just about any experience is ten times hotter than girls exponentially hotter by looks alone. A big key is not to force it for males or females you "think" you should be attracted to because that's what society purports to oogle over. Don't be afraid to be you.
I empathize with you wanting to have your own kids and the emotional depth of a woman. I'm not counting anything out but that's why I probably would never date a male. I want the bond of having kids with my partner. I find women to be much more sensual, and I love their smoothness and definitely agree to preferring kissing women over men. There is something primal about hooking up with a guy that I enjoy though too. Each gender has their place. 
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Edited by All We Perceive (08/03/12 02:56 PM)
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Visionary Tools
I <3 Thomas Jefferson
Registered: 06/23/07
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: All We Perceive]
#16640426 - 08/03/12 04:57 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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People really overthink this don't they?
man, woman, it's all the same to me. It's not important what's inbetween their legs.
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slide down a pole than with your legs spread and using your pussy as a brake. Ask the fire department 
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Anonymous #3
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Visionary Tools]
#16640652 - 08/03/12 05:42 PM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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honestly dude i think that kind of happens sometimes from just spending your whole life looking at pussy. you see a dick and you're like "eyy well that's something new" and it turns some people on. porn is kind of geared to guys so after scrolling through pages and pages of tits and pussy sometimes you start diving down for something new to whack it to. i don't think it necessarily makes you "gay." maybe a little bi or something. maybe you should take some time and hook up with dudes or something to balance it out. then maybe women will become more attractive again. idk 
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Freyja
High Priest of his own madness
Registered: 09/03/11
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Anonymous #3]
#16642913 - 08/04/12 03:19 AM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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If you really want to label yourself maybe try calling yourself bi, then just let whatever feels right happen.
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bloodsheen
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Freyja]
#16643098 - 08/04/12 04:53 AM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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The fact that you find kissing a guy entirely revolting could be because you are so against homosexuality? Two friends of mine (a guy and a girl) were good friends and they decided to hook up one time. I asked them about it and they were like it wasn't weird, we didn't kiss or anything haha. At the time I thought it was a horrible thing to say but there are certainly certain stigmas here. At 19 you are only on the brink of understanding your sexuality. Plenty of guys figure it out a decade or more later than you. Your post leads me to believe that part of the reason you connect with women is because you had good experiences with them growing up and bad experiences with men. Those are some serious issues to work out.
The best advice is to just stop thinking about it being weird or wrong or what you don't want and let your dick decide. If you want a girl, be with a girl. If you want a guy, be with a guy. The whole marriage and kids thing should be way off for you, so don't worry about it now. Although I understand that could be a tad difficult considering your post haha
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Anonymous #1
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: bloodsheen]
#16643208 - 08/04/12 06:10 AM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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bloodsheen said:
The fact that you find kissing a guy entirely revolting could be because you are so against homosexuality? Two friends of mine (a guy and a girl) were good friends and they decided to hook up one time. I asked them about it and they were like it wasn't weird, we didn't kiss or anything haha. At the time I thought it was a horrible thing to say but there are certainly certain stigmas here. At 19 you are only on the brink of understanding your sexuality. Plenty of guys figure it out a decade or more later than you. Your post leads me to believe that part of the reason you connect with women is because you had good experiences with them growing up and bad experiences with men. Those are some serious issues to work out.
The best advice is to just stop thinking about it being weird or wrong or what you don't want and let your dick decide. If you want a girl, be with a girl. If you want a guy, be with a guy. The whole marriage and kids thing should be way off for you, so don't worry about it now. Although I understand that could be a tad difficult considering your post haha
no i dont think its wierd or wrong, i just dont like it. i dont like the dudes saliva in my mouth. where-as i dont mind if he came in my mouth. but thinkin about a dudes saliva in my mouth, is just disgusting. also it depends on the way the guy looks and is, i guess im extremely picky and want a dude that is feminine. like this dude in the Link provided below maybe my thing is girls with cocks? i could see myself in the future liking this, but ive never encountered a shemale
http://www.google.com/imgres?start=50&num=10&um=1&hl=en&biw=1139&bih=638&addh=36&tbm=isch&tbnid=AY0Vor1vqv0CvM:&imgrefurl=http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read.php%3F40,703855,704283,quote%3D1&docid=KwOKNeSI1lyS4M&imgurl=http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/file.php%253F40,file%253D42866,filename%253Dtokio-hotel.jpg&w=520&h=346&ei=k_QcUMX1FYja6wHXu4CIDA&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=436&vpy=210&dur=1242&hovh=183&hovw=275&tx=78&ty=56&sig=115430358453652260828&page=3&tbnh=141&tbnw=190&ndsp=24&ved=1t:429,r:8,s:50,i:114
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Anonymous #1
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: All We Perceive]
#16643225 - 08/04/12 06:18 AM (10 months, 10 days ago) |
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mick said:
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Anonymous said:
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Lynnch said:
Just relax. This stuff isn't as cut and dry as people make it out to be.
thats a nice perspective. hopefully it sticks
if you want to hook up with a female for natural reasons I think it will eventually happen for you. Gay/Straight doesnt define who you can and cant have sex with, i think if anything the labels inhibit your desires because now you might feel trapped in a role. sexuality can be very fluid. I would keep your eyes open and continue to network with people. Maybe you will run into a girl you do feel sexually attracted to, and will get a chance to explore that side of yourself with her.
Yeah, i sort of have a underlying feeling that im goingto eventually fully switch back to just girls, but im deff bouncing around right now, i find myself wanting to fuck both, although the guy side is prevalent most likely cause its sort of been taboo for me. i'd rather bang the dude and suck his dick, or have him suck my dick, and do nothing else at all.
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All We Perceive said:
Yeah. I'm sure to get mad flack for this, but I think a decent percentage of the gay population just had trouble with girls or some sort of depression during their formative "relational" years, got frustrated, and convinced themselves they were gay. Bisexuality also gets a lot of jealousy from the gay/straight population who try and force you into one category or the other I personally think because they are afraid to break their own self-image of gay or straight. As a bisexual person, I can say that I definitely thought I thought I was gay for a few years because of anxiety/depression/people suggesting I was gay. As mick said, sexuality is very fluid and you should be able to have sex with whomever you wish without your "category" affecting you. Your post reminds me of a really good gay friend of mine who was considering hooking up with chicks (and seemed to really want to) but still hasn't yet because it would impact his self-image. Don't let you hold yourself back.
Myself, I am attracted to neither the stereotypically "hot" male or female. To me, a "7" who is smart as fuck, bold, not afraid to take risks, and open to just about any experience is ten times hotter than girls exponentially hotter by looks alone. A big key is not to force it for males or females you "think" you should be attracted to because that's what society purports to oogle over. Don't be afraid to be you.
I empathize with you wanting to have your own kids and the emotional depth of a woman. I'm not counting anything out but that's why I probably would never date a male. I want the bond of having kids with my partner. I find women to be much more sensual, and I love their smoothness and definitely agree to preferring kissing women over men. There is something primal about hooking up with a guy that I enjoy though too. Each gender has their place.
i appreciate these inputs, when you view it as primal, for me atleast, it makes sense, but up close and personal is something i would have to get used to, an force that way of acceptance. maybe in time. im deff not goingto be jumping into any relationships anytime soon. and it sucks because my recent ex, who im still close with and love, is a wonderful person. she's probably the best and most loyal girl i know, she isnt an illusion either, she is the rare loyal charm that you would marry in the old days n love till the end type deal, and she is hot. but because of these feelings i tried pushing away that kept submerging, i could no longer commit my whole-self and thought process to the relationship. and i told her and she understands my situation and is willingly staying close to me. so i guess thats cool.
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millzy
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Re: device to make your straight to gay, or gay to straight [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16646138 - 08/05/12 10:28 AM (10 months, 8 days ago) |
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the older you get the less you'll care. i mostly dig chicks but i like a guy every once in a blue moon.
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