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Reading about other peoples relationships.....ugh
    #16622373 - 07/31/12 03:18 PM (9 months, 16 days ago)

Every day I get on this site and read about other people’s relationships and problems. Whether they are good or bad, I generally get anxious, jealous, and pissed off. 

I’m not really sure whether it is because I am simply wishing that I was experiencing what they are going through or if it’s something to do with past relationships that I have been in that had similar qualities.

Sometimes it feels as if I am getting emotionally tied up in something that in no way affects me.

Anyone else ever experience this?


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Re: Reading about other peoples relationships.....ugh [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #16622786 - 07/31/12 04:19 PM (9 months, 16 days ago)

No


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Re: Reading about other peoples relationships.....ugh [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #16622787 - 07/31/12 04:20 PM (9 months, 16 days ago)

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Anonymous said:
Every day I get on this site and read about other people’s relationships and problems. Whether they are good or bad, I generally get anxious, jealous, and pissed off. 

I’m not really sure whether it is because I am simply wishing that I was experiencing what they are going through or if it’s something to do with past relationships that I have been in that had similar qualities.

Sometimes it feels as if I am getting emotionally tied up in something that in no way affects me.

Anyone else ever experience this?




I have experienced this when I read something that reminds me of my past encouters and suddenly generalizing all women or relationships. Now I just don't try to do any of this shit. Then again I am still in sexuality and relationship forum, hmm why is that?

But the solution is simple: get your mind off from it, don't read about it.


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Re: Reading about other peoples relationships.....ugh [Re: Simms]
    #16622799 - 07/31/12 04:22 PM (9 months, 16 days ago)

I was joking on my last post. Yeah, if something reminds me of a painful memory, it takes me back to the way I felt, briefly.


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Re: Reading about other peoples relationships.....ugh [Re: shLong]
    #16622992 - 07/31/12 05:00 PM (9 months, 16 days ago)

dude fuck that being single is sooooooo much better

ive had a crush on this chick for a couple years and im pretty damn sure she feels the same way now but i just really really wanna stay single cuz theres so much bullshit in a relationship. even with this chick i dont wanna do it at all but ive liked her for like 3years


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Re: Reading about other peoples relationships.....ugh [Re: Bassfreak]
    #16628984 - 08/01/12 05:23 PM (9 months, 15 days ago)

when i see a girl cheating in a movie, or anything that is un-loyal or leading to un-loyal events, i start to cringe and my stomach gets into a knot.

yes ive been cheated on by a girl who i was very close with.



sometimes the movie is too good and i dont care


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Re: Reading about other peoples relationships.....ugh [Re: Bassfreak]
    #16628995 - 08/01/12 05:25 PM (9 months, 15 days ago)

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Bassfreak said:
dude fuck that being single is sooooooo much better

ive had a crush on this chick for a couple years and im pretty damn sure she feels the same way now but i just really really wanna stay single cuz theres so much bullshit in a relationship. even with this chick i dont wanna do it at all but ive liked her for like 3years



In a few months we will all be reading about your relationship problems :cheers:


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