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 moonrockmushy
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 Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{  [Re: 999]
#16519869 - 07/12/12 03:11 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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You are either underage or very immature. There is no need to be so sensitive.
If you don't want people to judge or criticize you, don't post about your personal life on a public forum.
If you don't like the way the conversation is going, then leave.
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 tymoteusz3
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: 999]
#16519880 - 07/12/12 03:12 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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999 said:
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amilibertine said:
OP, you should show her how porn isn't supposed to by romantic. It's supposed to be vulgar and dirty, because that's a big part of human sexuality. You should show her how parents are not god and that she's her own person. She doesn't have to live with the shame her parents raised her up to have.
Healthy relationships can get a lot out of porn. My girl watches just as much as I do. It turns us on. It's important to know that we shouldn't be ashamed of our sexual desires (unless those desires include children or rape) and that we should embrace our dirtiness.
I dunno, I couldn't date someone who was sexually repressed. I've tried. It's awfully boring and very frustrating.
Part of growing into your own person is the ability to see your parents as human. That is to say, see them as flawed beings who don't necessarily have correct opinions and world views.
You know? That whole "leaving the nest" deal. I guess what I'm saying is that instead of reinforcing those cultural beliefs her parents instilled in her by not pointing out that there is nothing wrong with porn, or sex, you should open her eyes to the possibility that her parents aren't always in the right.
I completely agree with you. She really isn't that repressed, and I actively work to help her and guide her down this path... I wish.. I knew how to explain the situation to you! We're very experimental and explore many aspects of sex, but on the inside she is troubled by it. I'm very supportive of anything and everything she is interested in, but I'm glad she's not that into porn. We enjoy making our own porn, though, and frequently have sexy photo shoots.... from romantic, to dirty.
I'm not really sure why everyone is so judgmental of me when it comes to this, but I can only imagine it is a misunderstanding. I really can't describe what is really going on, but sexual repression and controlling her is not the case here. She is her own person, and if she really wanted to watch porn, I would never try to stop her. I might be a little hurt, and we would talk about it, and I'd feel better about it. But if I just walked in on her watching porn, without ever discussing it with me, I would feel like she was being sneaky and deceitful. I wouldn't leave her for that, of course.
However, if she was on Omegle, masturbating in front of strangers, I would be completely astonished. This isn't the person I've known for three years and have been committed to for two.
I would probably leave her for that.
That being said, I wouldn't mind having sex on camera/online. That doesn't bother me. The main thing that would bother me would simply be secretiveness, as we are very vocal.
These dickwads who are sitting around judging me don't know what the fuck they're talking about, and I hope they burn in hell.
That being said, if they would be willing to admit that maybe this was a misunderstanding, I would completel forgive them, un-ignore them, and understand where they are coming from... but their accusations simply were not true, and really offended me.
Really...
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999 said:I would leave my girlfriend if she was masturbating on a camera to hundreds of strangers.
I would be upset if she watched porn.
That is the way I feel about things, I'm not telling you how to be in a successful relationship.
I'm sure you also don't mind swinging, your girlfriend working at a strip club, having casual sex with strangers, etc.
I would mind, and I would leave her for this.
However, that being said, she NEVER would.
She's a terrific woman, and I'm blessed to be with her.
But, thanks for telling me how to run my already fantastic relationship.
It's none of your business.
Sorry.. You said it.
Its not the only one either. This thread is CHOCK full of your controlling bs.
http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/16517838#16517838
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Because I would be hurt/offended if my girlfriend watched porn, as it goes against her valuess.... you decide I'm controlling and rate me poorly?
That's whack, yo.
Yup..
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I'm a double-standard making hypocrite, and I love how innocent my girlfriend is. She's actually two years older than me, too.
Asian family, strong morals.
I love her for the person she is, and it would just hurt me to watch her corrupt herself.
I'm slowly breaking her into the sexual world, and it's a nice, slow ride for me.. allowing us to spend more time emotionally than sexually, which is a change from what I was doing/dating BEFORE her.
You sound really immature. You also don't sound that old. I would suggest to look up (like I have before) the definition of controlling. Also look up co-dependence.
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: 999]
#16519882 - 07/12/12 03:13 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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These dickwads who are sitting around judging me don't know what the fuck they're talking about, and I hope they burn in hell.
oh jeez..
maybe i should actually read this thread.
it seems to be full of lols.
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999
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: k00laid]
#16519898 - 07/12/12 03:16 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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moonrockmushy said:
You are either underage or very immature. There is no need to be so sensitive.
If you don't want people to judge or criticize you, don't post about your personal life on a public forum.
If you don't like the way the conversation is going, then leave.
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k00laid said:
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These dickwads who are sitting around judging me don't know what the fuck they're talking about, and I hope they burn in hell.
oh jeez..
maybe i should actually read this thread.
it seems to be full of lols.
X'D It is :P
Enjoy!!
See, that piece of humor will leave people to wonder if I'm trolling, or serious.
Doesn't matter, I came here for answers to my original question :3
But seriously, I love my girlfriend, she is terrific.
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SoreSpore
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: k00laid]
#16519902 - 07/12/12 03:17 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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honestly, please read the thread k00laid and respond to OP.
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k00laid
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: 999] 1
#16519903 - 07/12/12 03:17 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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999 said:
See, that piece of humor will leave people to wonder if I'm trolling, or serious.
dont worry none of us are guessing.
you are 100% serious.
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tymoteusz3
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: 999]
#16519913 - 07/12/12 03:18 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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999 said:
X'D It is :P
Enjoy!!
See, that piece of humor will leave people to wonder if I'm trolling, or serious.
Doesn't matter, I came here for answers to my original question :3
But seriously, I love my girlfriend, she is terrific.
While you are at it, look up the definition of humor.
List of big words for 999 to look up
- Humor
- Co-depedence and Co-depedency issues
- Controlling and controlling partners
Edited by tymoteusz3 (07/12/12 03:21 PM)
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SoreSpore
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: tymoteusz3]
#16519927 - 07/12/12 03:20 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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you, muh nucca, are ignored by OP as well as me.
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999
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: k00laid]
#16519942 - 07/12/12 03:22 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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k00laid said:
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999 said:
See, that piece of humor will leave people to wonder if I'm trolling, or serious.
dont worry none of us are guessing.
you are 100% serious.
110%.
Wish more comments were on topic.
That's the pub for you.
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k00laid
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: 999]
#16519950 - 07/12/12 03:23 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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999 said:
Neither shrooms, mescaline, nor LSD have found me yet.. at least, not that I can remember.
I've done... many, many drugs. I'm pretty experienced with drugs.
I'm really depressed about never having had open-eyed visuals.
I'm going off to the fucking military, ya dig? I can't be "expanding my mind" for much longer.
If that doesn't happen, I'm going to probably drink and smoke and wallow in depression
Like, how should I go about trying to find a connection? Find some stoners, befriend them,
but by god in the name of acid I'll talk to every aging hippy in that town
I'll go to every fucking health food store and go to his house for sixteen hours of  if it will get me 'sid.
How can I increase my chances?
How much money should I bring just for mind candy? (I think $300
giving me some advice on how to put my best foot forward and increase my chances,
at first i was almost joking.
but you really are a cop...
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moonrockmushy
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: 999]
#16519964 - 07/12/12 03:26 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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Ok I will give you some honest advice :
I do hope you get the chance to expand your horizons at some point, but you're being too eager. Going out in an environment you are unfamiliar and asking around for drugs is going to get you ripped off or arrested. If you get arrested good luck getting you intelligence spot in the marines.
Asking for drugs is going to get in the way of making friends, if anything it will probably make people wary of you right off the bat, much like what happened here.
Stop obsessing over psychedelics, get off the internet, go enjoy your vacation. Try to meet people and keep an open mind.
Be patient, keep your ear to the ground, and when the time is right mushrooms will find you.
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999
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: moonrockmushy]
#16519981 - 07/12/12 03:28 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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moonrockmushy said:
Ok I will give you some honest advice :
I do hope you get the chance to expand your horizons at some point, but you're being too eager. Going out in an environment you are unfamiliar and asking around for drugs is going to get you ripped off or arrested. If you get arrested good luck getting you intelligence spot in the marines.
Asking for drugs is going to get in the way of making friends, if anything it will probably make people wary of you right off the bat, much like what happened here.
Stop obsessing over psychedelics, get off the internet, go enjoy your vacation. Try to meet people and keep an open mind.
Be patient, keep your ear to the ground, and when the time is right mushrooms will find you.
Thank-you for your honest advice on the relevant topic, it was appreciated.
+5 shrooms.
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: 999] 2
#16520051 - 07/12/12 03:38 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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999 said:
Like, how should I go about trying to find a connection?
Follow the smell of patchouli or sandalwood to a real communal looking coffee shop and ask for the "wireless password".
Good luck.
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Vore
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: 999] 1
#16520063 - 07/12/12 03:39 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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OP, don't believe anything the recruiters say. I have gone through the military experience - those men are used car salesman that will tell you whatever they think you will believe. Mine is from the Navy side of things, but I know plenty of people that got 90+ ASVABS and got dropped from their program for the dumbest shit. One guy had ADD (they knew that), promised him a nuke job, then when he got in got dropped for his ADD. Some jobs have schools with high drop out rates, and what happens when you get dropped? Cannon fodder.
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999
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: Vore]
#16520096 - 07/12/12 03:44 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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k00laid said:
you really are a cop...
 
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Vore said:
OP, don't believe anything the recruiters say. I have gone through the military experience - those men are used car salesman that will tell you whatever they think you will believe. Mine is from the Navy side of things, but I know plenty of people that got 90+ ASVABS and got dropped from their program for the dumbest shit. One guy had ADD (they knew that), promised him a nuke job, then when he got in got dropped for his ADD. Some jobs have schools with high drop out rates, and what happens when you get dropped? Cannon fodder.
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Hey man, I really appreciate this message. Don't worry, though... I'm in the delayed entry program, which I can leave any time before I ship out. If I don't get a job I like before boot camp, I will leave in pursuit of another career. Plus, I already went through a long process to be able to get in, and have all of my ducks in a row. I'll be extremely careful.
Much love, thanks for the consideration!
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999
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: ModularMind]
#16520104 - 07/12/12 03:45 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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ModularMind said:
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999 said:
Like, how should I go about trying to find a connection?
Follow the smell of patchouli or sandalwood to a real communal looking coffee shop and ask for the "wireless password".
Good luck.
Hehe. That one tripped me up for a sec. 7/10.
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: Vore]
#16520123 - 07/12/12 03:46 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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Vore said:
OP, don't believe anything the recruiters say. I have gone through the military experience - those men are used car salesman that will tell you whatever they think you will believe. Mine is from the Navy side of things, but I know plenty of people that got 90+ ASVABS and got dropped from their program for the dumbest shit. One guy had ADD (they knew that), promised him a nuke job, then when he got in got dropped for his ADD. Some jobs have schools with high drop out rates, and what happens when you get dropped? Cannon fodder.
Yup. Pretty much everyone I know in the military, or formerly in the military, was fucked over by the military one way or another.
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: 999]
#16520135 - 07/12/12 03:48 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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Hey man, I really appreciate this message. Don't worry, though... I'm in the delayed entry program, which I can leave any time before I ship out. If I don't get a job I like before boot camp, I will leave in pursuit of another career. Plus, I already went through a long process to be able to get in, and have all of my ducks in a row. I'll be extremely careful.
Much love, thanks for the consideration!
Yeah, no. Once you sign a contract they own your ass. Anything they promise you to get you to sign is bullshit if it's not explicitly written into the contract.
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999
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: NizzyJones]
#16520151 - 07/12/12 03:50 PM (11 months, 17 hours ago) |
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NizzyJones said:
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Hey man, I really appreciate this message. Don't worry, though... I'm in the delayed entry program, which I can leave any time before I ship out. If I don't get a job I like before boot camp, I will leave in pursuit of another career. Plus, I already went through a long process to be able to get in, and have all of my ducks in a row. I'll be extremely careful.
Much love, thanks for the consideration!
Yeah, no. Once you sign a contract they own your ass. Anything they promise you to get you to sign is bullshit if it's not explicitly written into the contract.
http://usmilitary.about.com/cs/joiningup/a/dep.htm
And as far as jobs go, it is written into the contract.
I've done a bit of homework on it, don't worry.
And you can leave the DEP any time you want.
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Re: Listen to me bitch, and offer me advice? :,{ [Re: 999]
#16520235 - 07/12/12 04:06 PM (11 months, 16 hours ago) |
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999 said:
And you can leave the DEP any time you want.
100% true.
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NizzyJones said:Once you sign a contract they own your ass.
This is one more of the lies they try to spin.
But if you're gonna pull out, pull out before boot camp. It gets really hard really fast after that, you can wind up staying there for 4 months while they process you out. You seem to know where you're going, if you have any questions just shoot me a 
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