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 domesticgnome
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 Anyone with some first date advice? 
#16473151 - 07/03/12 02:33 AM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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I asked a girl out today and have a day to figure out what to do for a first date. I don't know yet if she is at all interested in the same things as me: mostly cars, outdoors and mushrooms (clearly it'll be a long shot to find a girl that likes any of these things), so I'd like to do something on the safe side. For instance dinner and a movie, but I need a personal twist on it to see if we're compatible beyond being able to get along with each other. The best I've come up with so far is dinner obviously, then going to a park for the sunset and to smoke a jay or something along the lines. That may be too cliche though, not that it matters if I can show her a good time, but some third person advice is never going to hurt. Throw some ideas out if you got 'em. They're much appreciated.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: domesticgnome]
#16473279 - 07/03/12 03:06 AM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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She smoke weed? That can be a major turn off for some girls. Dinner an a movie is safe I suggest you get on yelp an find an find an UNBELIEVABLE place to eat and or get dessert at. Incredible food sticks in the mind plus gives lots of opportunity to talk an get to know each other, once you know something about her you can really mix it up on the next date.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: Rewindicus]
#16473287 - 07/03/12 03:10 AM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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go to youtube and type in Playersupreme, this guy has posted over a thousand videos about everything you need to know about girls
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: birdbrain92]
#16473294 - 07/03/12 03:11 AM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: birdbrain92]
#16473372 - 07/03/12 03:43 AM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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some funny stuff on that site, but he brings up some very good points. for example check this out op, its from he site.
Never go to the movies if your going to learn how to be a player from me. Never, ever, make that first date a movie date. Why? Because you cannot talk to her and get to know her. Most daters and guru’s have it all wrong I’m telling you. They have it ass backwards.
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domesticgnome
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16473986 - 07/03/12 10:18 AM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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Thanks for looking out guys. I'll look into your suggestions and see what I cam come up with.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: domesticgnome]
#16474034 - 07/03/12 10:31 AM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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She does smoke by the way. Not much though. I'll just discard that idea entirely.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: domesticgnome]
#16474042 - 07/03/12 10:32 AM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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If there's a nice park nearby, go for a walk.
Have pot available but don't push it. It's been my experience that 'I don't smoke that much' can mean different things.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: Doc_T]
#16474066 - 07/03/12 10:37 AM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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Find a cool place for dinner where you can talk but its not run of the mill boring food.
Do something like a hibachi or mongolian grill. It doubles as food and entertainment. Then if you want to go to a movie find a drive in theater or an outdoor show in a park because this lets you set your own environment where the movie is just formal background noise.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: DocShroom]
#16474409 - 07/03/12 12:23 PM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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Sound advice guys. Thanks.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: domesticgnome]
#16474797 - 07/03/12 02:04 PM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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Don't do movies on a first date unless it's something she really really wants to see. I remember when Kinsey came out I took a girl to see just to gauge her reaction about matters on sexuality. But for the most part movies are for when I've been seeing a chick for a minute. I try to pick a decent restaurant or maybe even a lounge if I'm sure if I would to hang with her for awhile. But I think a nice lounge that offers food for a first date is a good bet.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: Blackbird33]
#16475663 - 07/03/12 05:17 PM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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Bowling is cheap and fun. If you frequent at a restaurant, where your cool with the staff, that's usually a good place to go because everyone will be friendly with you. Makes you feel less nervous and gives off good vibes to the girl.
Go-karts are pimp too
Same with ice-cream
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: ComputerTekGuy]
#16476288 - 07/03/12 07:27 PM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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You guys are awesome. I've decided I'll make a reservation at bonefish grill which seems like a a decent establishment. I just can't narrow down what activity to go for after dinner.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: domesticgnome]
#16477145 - 07/03/12 10:23 PM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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 Ditch the restaurant idea. Never take a girl to somewhere expensive as hell like Bonefish for the first date. Are you being for real?????? This will put a lot of pressure on the chick and make it awkward. Also never go to a movie on the first date. Do something really noncommittal like "grab a drink" or "grab a tea/coffee." That way if she sucks, you can jet and vice versa. I go to the coffee shop all the fucking time and see people on first dates here all the time!!! Also, you won't run out of things to say. Once you feel like she's into you, make up an excuse and leave.
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Edited by All We Perceive (07/03/12 10:23 PM)
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do what feels right op.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: domesticgnome]
#16477526 - 07/03/12 11:26 PM (10 months, 14 days ago) |
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Best advice is to say fuck it and just talk and do stuff without thinking about it and be nice if you like her and when in doubt be too hands-on rather than not. Also, look genetically attractive.
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Re: Anyone with some first date advice? [Re: MaxFresh]
#16477938 - 07/04/12 12:41 AM (10 months, 13 days ago) |
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Picnic or day date somewhere fun like the aquarium or zoo or something like that. Somewhere you can just relax and chill out and have a good time while chatting away
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