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 Mafeki
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 Go outside and get a girl friend   1
#16408136 - 06/20/12 11:42 AM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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Don't do online dating it's lame. be forreal walk out yo door n' get a women right now.
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 mazaloto
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: Mafeki] 6
#16408157 - 06/20/12 11:47 AM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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Quote:
Mafeki said:
Don't do online dating it's lame. be forreal walk out yo door n' get a women right now.
I can't, I'm too socially awkward. The only one time when I took the initiative I engaged in what you might call a semi-rape (was pretty drunk).
Unless I'm on a few gallons of beer and a few hundred mgs of molly/speed there is no way on Earth for me to talk to a girl without getting anxious. Its pretty sad that I need drugs for such a basic operation but I can't help who I am.
Thats why I leave the girls to come and talk to me. Thats how I got my current gf.
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Mafeki
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: mazaloto]
#16408174 - 06/20/12 11:50 AM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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You must be like the only dude that can just sit around and get a girls most people aren't that lucky, I know I'm not. What I had to do is ask out 100 women just to get one date.
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: Mafeki]
#16408179 - 06/20/12 11:51 AM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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where should i go?
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Mafeki
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: druqs]
#16408187 - 06/20/12 11:54 AM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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Anywhere literally, go for a walk, the zoo, a store, whatever just remember it's easier to ask a girl out just as you would a male friend to just be friendly.
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mazaloto
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: Mafeki] 1
#16408189 - 06/20/12 11:56 AM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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Its pretty sad to be honest. I know I could probably get chicks if I had the verbal/social skills to do so but I'm just too fucking weird/awkward.
Say I meet a very nice girl on the bus, what do I do?
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Mafeki
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: mazaloto]
#16408196 - 06/20/12 11:58 AM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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All you got to do is bro talk to women like you would your best friend or mom let it be no different n' you're set. Yeah you be like 'your mom du fuck!?' n' yeah I said it, you know what I mean.
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Doc_T
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: Mafeki]
#16408203 - 06/20/12 12:02 PM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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I use a combined approach. I post online looking for women who want to go outside.
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Mafeki
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: Doc_T]
#16408216 - 06/20/12 12:05 PM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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Online dating isn't horrible just remember if you go online dating you're going to get online women. Another suggestion is when talking to a women try to match your mood with hers.
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SweetLeafSamadhi
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: Mafeki] 6
#16408219 - 06/20/12 12:06 PM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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Mafeki said:
... What I had to do is ask out 100 women just to get one date.
With a 1% success rate, are you entirely certain yours is the best advice to follow?
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: Mafeki] 2
#16408223 - 06/20/12 12:07 PM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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if only it were that simple.
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mazaloto
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: Mafeki]
#16408230 - 06/20/12 12:10 PM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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Quote:
Mafeki said:
All you got to do is bro talk to women like you would your best friend or mom let it be no different n' you're set. Yeah you be like 'your mom du fuck!?' n' yeah I said it, you know what I mean.
I get that! I should practice more often.
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Mafeki
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That was rhetoric, I just wanted to convey that a women not being interested in being you girl friend isn't a big deal.
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Mafeki
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Quote:
MisterMuscaria said:
if only it were that simple.
It's funny you should say that and thank you for commenting; It is that simple, it really is.
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: mazaloto]
#16408236 - 06/20/12 12:11 PM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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Quote:
mazaloto said:
Quote:
Mafeki said:
Don't do online dating it's lame. be forreal walk out yo door n' get a women right now.
I can't, I'm too socially awkward. The only one time when I took the initiative I engaged in what you might call a semi-rape (was pretty drunk).
Unless I'm on a few gallons of beer and a few hundred mgs of molly/speed there is no way on Earth for me to talk to a girl without getting anxious. Its pretty sad that I need drugs for such a basic operation but I can't help who I am.
Thats why I leave the girls to come and talk to me. Thats how I got my current gf.
I dont currently have a gf but other than that this reads like I wrote it.
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MisterMuscaria
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I HAVE tried to pursue girls but they always end up getting weirded out and creeped out by me.
So I just let them chase me.
Im an attractive guy, just socially inept as fuck. I get hit on all the time and flirted with but I dont know how to respond to it, I just sorta freeze up or say something dumb.
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Mafeki
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You sound insecure and shy there's a way to fix that though, just keep doing things outside your comfort zone and eventually you'll be fine.
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mazaloto
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Haha that describes me in a nutshell.
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nice1
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: mazaloto] 1
#16408275 - 06/20/12 12:20 PM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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Quote:
mazaloto said:
I engaged in what you might call a semi-rape (was pretty drunk).
Is that when you try to rape them with a semi?
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MisterMuscaria
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Re: Go outside and get a girl friend [Re: Mafeki]
#16408279 - 06/20/12 12:21 PM (10 months, 22 days ago) |
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Quote:
Mafeki said:
You sound insecure and shy there's a way to fix that though, just keep doing things outside your comfort zone and eventually you'll be fine.
Yah that's what i really struggle with.
What sorta things should I be doing that might help?
All my friends tell me I shouldnt worry who hates me or what people think of me but it's not as easy as it sounds...I tend to be a little neurotic when I think too much.
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