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 Bent Vibrato
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 How to you tell someone.... 
#16398349 - 06/18/12 06:47 AM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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....that they REALLY are annoying to trip with?
I'm not trying to be an ass but I really can't enjoy or self reflect when all someone does is bitch and whine for hours on end about their ex girlfriend. I'm contemplating the universe and they're going on and on like a broken record about an ex.
It just ruins the entire experience for me. I'm going camping Friday on this persons land and it was known I was going solo but now they are imposing themselves.
Anyone have any similar experiences?
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blackhawk
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: Bent Vibrato]
#16398358 - 06/18/12 06:51 AM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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This is why I don't trip with people usually
but I would just be like "dude,your ex..I don't give a shit." hopefully that will stop him 
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: blackhawk]
#16398359 - 06/18/12 06:54 AM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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Seriously that shit is annoying being honest an upfront is best. Just be like "dude I don't wanna hear you bitch about your ex it kills my trip" give him a chance to not do it an if he does stop tripping with him.
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blackhawk
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: Rewindicus]
#16398367 - 06/18/12 07:04 AM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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Bring some big ass noise canceling extra bass over-the-ear headphones while you're at it, just incase the above methods don't work out
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Edited by blackhawk (06/18/12 07:04 AM)
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elkart
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: blackhawk]
#16398377 - 06/18/12 07:26 AM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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Just leave them once the trip starts, go on a long ass walk.
Edited by elkart (06/18/12 07:34 AM)
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Mr. Good
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: elkart]
#16398478 - 06/18/12 08:51 AM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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Similar experience, I tripped with my ex. (gf at the time) Thought it was going to be an interesting experience, turns out all she wanted to do was have sex, and talk about how much she loved me, and it got quite annoying after just a few hours. I'm the kind of person that likes to sit in a dark room and think when I trip. So I talked to her, told her that I didn't love her while I was on shrooms, and that she honestly annoyed me.
Well she got all sad and mopey about that, so we didn't trip again together afterwards. It worked out in my favor, but kinda hurt her a bit.
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: elkart]
#16398482 - 06/18/12 08:52 AM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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Just tell them point blank, I did that with my friend the other day. He disagreed and said "well I wont do that this time", but I just took a pass on tripping that night. It really is best to be honest about these things and most everything. Dancing around the subject or lying about it doesn't help anyone.
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 bishlap
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4 simple words "shut the fuck up"
I had something like this happen, I was introducing a few e heads to mushrooms and this one dude was talking about everything wrong with him for hours like we cared, I tried explaining this isn't ecstasy no one cares about your problems because your bringing us down, luckily he got the point, but we don't hang out anymore.
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: bishlap]
#16399202 - 06/18/12 12:55 PM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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I'm so glad I'm more careful with who I trip with, their current mindset and where it happens.
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: Lord_McLovin]
#16399252 - 06/18/12 01:09 PM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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Be cool but tell him the truth. And give him anothe chance but explain that it's his last tripping with you if he gets whiney.
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: DocShroom]
#16399436 - 06/18/12 07:29 PM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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I had a friend that always talked about how he has to make money and hates work. I'm talking the entire trip. Finally I had my girlfriend take his ass home and told him I will never trip with him again. I think people just assume that your trip isn't worth their issue and selfishly want the full attention.
I also hate those that are constantly asking if you are okay when you are trippin hard. I'm fucking experienced and like to be in madness. Last thing I need is for someone to not trust me and freak me out more when I'm on my high levels.
I only have one friend I trip with. He gives me space and I give him space. If there are others that are tripping; I just stay sober and be the official babysitter. Sometimes that's fun too.
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the locked shroom
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I just wouldn't trip with him at all. Just tell him you're not gonna. I he asked why, I'd just tell him. I mean, when you're both sober. I wouldn't do anything drastic while tripping, but I would say "it's not really that fun; you talk about nothing but your ex".
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BlindSoothsayer
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If you don't want to trip with him, then why are you tripping on his land? It seems like a strange choice of set/setting if you would prefer solo tripping.
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Phobium
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Yeah man, been there, handled that.
Don't be afraid to tell them to SHUT THE FUCK UP!
On drugs, the last thing you want to worry about is your fucking ex girlfriend.
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magnifier661 said:
I also hate those that are constantly asking if you are okay when you are trippin hard. I'm fucking experienced and like to be in madness. Last thing I need is for someone to not trust me and freak me out more when I'm on my high levels.
I only have one friend I trip with. He gives me space and I give him space. If there are others that are tripping; I just stay sober and be the official babysitter. Sometimes that's fun too.
Good deal. I wish I had a trip partner, but for now I do it alone. People can bring you down or bring you up, but they will never keep you in one place.
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: Mr. Good]
#16405092 - 06/19/12 07:53 PM (10 months, 25 days ago) |
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Quote:
Mr. Good said:
Similar experience, I tripped with my ex. (gf at the time) Thought it was going to be an interesting experience, turns out all she wanted to do was have sex, and talk about how much she loved me, and it got quite annoying after just a few hours. I'm the kind of person that likes to sit in a dark room and think when I trip. So I talked to her, told her that I didn't love her while I was on shrooms, and that she honestly annoyed me.
You sound lovely. I'm surprised she didn't dump your ass.
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: Mr. Good]
#16405354 - 06/19/12 08:40 PM (10 months, 25 days ago) |
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Like has been said already, be straight forward with this guy. I wouldn't be as direct as saying "shut the fuck up"
I'd just tell him that you guys are trying to enjoy yourselves and him talking about his ex is bringing you down and to please try and not talk about her around you
Also, this is exactly why I don't trip with people.
However, this is why I would probably trip with a girl I was dating Quote:
Mr. Good said:
turns out all she wanted to do was have sex, and talk about how much she loved me
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gretchum
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This is going to sound extremely cheesy, brace yourselves...
Insult sandwich brutha. Start with something nice, insult and then something nice to soften the blow.
Example: "Dave man, you're one of my goodfriends, but I'm tired of hearing about your ex girlfriend, I don't care to be honest. I'd rather hear what you have to say about these cool stars and that full moon over there."
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Quote:
BlindSoothsayer said:
If you don't want to trip with him, then why are you tripping on his land? It seems like a strange choice of set/setting if you would prefer solo tripping.
 Sometimes you can't have cake and eat it too. Is he your friend or are you using him for the hassle free setting? Seems to me, it may be worth a little empathy toward a friend for the availability of a undisturbed trip setting.
Also, sounds like your friend needs to up his dose a little. M
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: gretchum] 1
#16411876 - 06/21/12 12:50 AM (10 months, 24 days ago) |
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Quote:
gretchum said:
This is going to sound extremely cheesy, brace yourselves...
Insult sandwich brutha. Start with something nice, insult and then something nice to soften the blow.
Example: "Dave man, you're one of my goodfriends, but I'm tired of hearing about your ex girlfriend, I don't care to be honest. I'd rather hear what you have to say about these cool stars and that full moon over there."
are you some kind of woman?!
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Re: How to you tell someone.... [Re: gretchum]
#16412782 - 06/21/12 06:48 AM (10 months, 23 days ago) |
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Quote:
gretchum said:
This is going to sound extremely cheesy, brace yourselves...
Insult sandwich brutha. Start with something nice, insult and then something nice to soften the blow.
Example: "Dave man, you're one of my goodfriends, but I'm tired of hearing about your ex girlfriend, I don't care to be honest. I'd rather hear what you have to say about these cool stars and that full moon over there."
Haha! Word!
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