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 tito123
 
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 Re: Quitting masturbation  [Re: modsquad09]
#16385928 - 06/15/12 04:54 PM (11 months, 15 hours ago) |
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I haven't had an orgasm in five weeks.
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/r7xob/nofap_resource_thread_90day_reports/
yourbrainonporn.com
If anyone is interested, check these links out.
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MushroomDogMan
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: tito123]
#16389346 - 06/16/12 11:16 AM (10 months, 30 days ago) |
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The only way to stop masturbating is to get a girlfriend. Get out of the house and stop being so picky. Besides, being picky is usually an excuse for something else. Confidence is the most important thing in being successful with women. Sometimes you need to build up that confidence by enjoying the company of a very large and lonely lady. We all have to start somewhere.
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modsquad09
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Quote:
MushroomDogMan said:
The only way to stop masturbating is to get a girlfriend. Get out of the house and stop being so picky. Besides, being picky is usually an excuse for something else. Confidence is the most important thing in being successful with women. Sometimes you need to build up that confidence by enjoying the company of a very large and lonely lady. We all have to start somewhere.
Mushroom dog has a point.
I always thought you should be with someone if you truly like them, so that always meant being picky for me, and getting that ideal chick.
BUt your right, im not perfect so why do i deserve a perfect lady so early on in my despair?
One thing not cumming for a month has done is made me less picky. lol.
More confidence, and a bit more witty. Got a larger ladies number recently as well, not the best of teeth either, but kinda cute and seems to have confidence her self. So like you say confidence is important no matter who you ask. No one wants to be with a sad loser right? except other sad losers who need the company.
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modsquad09
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: tito123]
#16395022 - 06/17/12 02:43 PM (10 months, 29 days ago) |
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tito123 said:
I haven't had an orgasm in five weeks.
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/r7xob/nofap_resource_thread_90day_reports/
yourbrainonporn.com
If anyone is interested, check these links out.
good site.
I also noticed as mnany others on here about the increase in acne.. possibly due to higher testosterone? Stress? or a lil' of both
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MushroomDogMan
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: modsquad09]
#16395300 - 06/17/12 03:44 PM (10 months, 29 days ago) |
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Modsquad did you ever call that lady? Good luck. Remember if you don't admit that you're nervous and just act like everything is normal shit almost always works out. It sure beats jerking off.
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modsquad09
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MushroomDogMan said:
Modsquad did you ever call that lady? Good luck. Remember if you don't admit that you're nervous and just act like everything is normal shit almost always works out. It sure beats jerking off.
nah havent been feeling the greatest.. twisted my neck/back the other morning sleeping(mainly from heavy lifting in the yard the day before that)
I'll probably call her tonight. Thanks for the luck.
haha and word it sure beats not jerking off in my case lol
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Phoenician
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: modsquad09]
#16400571 - 06/18/12 11:00 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
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 quinn
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: Phoenician]
#16402325 - 06/19/12 09:32 AM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
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im gonna join. posting just so my brain knows that... and for the weird male internet camaraderie.
already a few days in...
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Vore
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: quinn]
#16412874 - 06/21/12 07:49 AM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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Unless it's hurting a current relationship, why would you want to abstain? Jacking off is not the best thing in the world, but its pretty natural and just a big a part of my life as taking a piss or having breakfast.
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 kiss_the_sky03
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: Vore]
#16412887 - 06/21/12 08:00 AM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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I haven't masturbated in over two weeks because I've been in a new country on my friends couch.
It hasn't been too bad. Although, I did have a wet dream last night
I do feel I have more drive to go out and do stuff now (try and get pussy as soon as I get my own room)
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modsquad09
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: Vore]
#16413824 - 06/21/12 01:06 PM (10 months, 25 days ago) |
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Vore said:
Unless it's hurting a current relationship, why would you want to abstain? Jacking off is not the best thing in the world, but its pretty natural and just a big a part of my life as taking a piss or having breakfast.
The post above explains it pretty well.
Less content.
Like not smoking pot for some. Less content.
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: modsquad09]
#16417672 - 06/22/12 12:45 AM (10 months, 25 days ago) |
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I read somewhere that cumming releases allot of zinc, and zinc effects testosterone levels, so lower zinc lower testa-ronies? But if you got your dick inside a warm pussy the pussy juices counter balance it. I dont know, might be worth looking into. But after I bust my nut I try to remember to take a multiple vitamin the same day or shortly after, this covers that base and allot of others.
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modsquad09
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: Sober]
#16420693 - 06/22/12 04:03 PM (10 months, 24 days ago) |
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Sober said:
I read somewhere that cumming releases allot of zinc, and zinc effects testosterone levels, so lower zinc lower testa-ronies? But if you got your dick inside a warm pussy the pussy juices counter balance it. I dont know, might be worth looking into. But after I bust my nut I try to remember to take a multiple vitamin the same day or shortly after, this covers that base and allot of others.
I heard avena sativa works well for replenishment as well as zinc.
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: tito123]
#16421735 - 06/22/12 07:52 PM (10 months, 24 days ago) |
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Are you catholic? I heard catholics are told its a sin to masterbait. Im sure most do anyone.
I used to attend an insane church when I was in middle school they told us we couldnt masterbait so some of my friends were trying to not masterbait. It was stupid.
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Nullface
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It's pointless to not do it. I don't do it for weeks at a time because I just forget. It doesn't change my life at all if I'm doing it 3 times a day or I haven't done it for a month.
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: Nullface]
#16421759 - 06/22/12 07:57 PM (10 months, 24 days ago) |
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Damn u must have a pretty busy life to simply forget about jacking off for a couple weeks.
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Nullface
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Damn u must have a pretty busy life to simply forget about jacking off for a couple weeks.
Not really. I'm a jobless loser living with is mom right now. I just don't really care about 5 seconds of euphoria to dedicate 10-20 minutes getting there.
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Re: Quitting masturbation [Re: Harri]
#16422078 - 06/22/12 09:01 PM (10 months, 24 days ago) |
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I have tried to quit since February. Since then, I have failed 3 times... However I think I should be fine for a while. The biggest risk for failure is wasting time on the internet, watching TV, etc... there is so much sex in everything.
I definitely feel more energy and more motivated without doing it. I also waste a lot less time.
However, I think that the biggest change has been caused by the lack of porn. Porn really changes my mind a lot... albeit a lot of it is subconscious, but since I have stopped I feel that I respect girls a lot more. I look at them as the humans they are, not the tasty piece of meat I want to stick my piece of meat in. This has helped a lot both in getting a lot more female friends, and in getting rid of the shyness I normally have around a pretty girl.
My reason for stopping? It is an act of hedonism. It connects sexual things solely with the physical pleasure, and I am trying to rise above that and make sex more of the sacred thing it is. And while I definitely still have a lot of things I do just for the instant gratification, I am trying to work towards more lasting pleasures, and I think this will help with the goal.
My only complaint: every now and then you get wet dreams, and if you weren't planning on showering in the morning it screws your schedule up 
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I have tried to quit since February. Since then, I have failed 3 times... However I think I should be fine for a while. The biggest risk for failure is wasting time on the internet, watching TV, etc... there is so much sex in everything.
its true really. our society is founded on sex.
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I definitely feel more energy and more motivated without doing it. I also waste a lot less time.
like being hungry pushes you to find food, not jerking pushes you to find tail.
if our society is largely founded on sex (which it seems to be),
then it makes sense that you waste a lot less time, because you are being pushed actively out into society,
not turning away from it and containing yourself within yourself
(in regards to sexuality).
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However, I think that the biggest change has been caused by the lack of porn. Porn really changes my mind a lot... albeit a lot of it is subconscious, but since I have stopped I feel that I respect girls a lot more. I look at them as the humans they are, not the tasty piece of meat I want to stick my piece of meat in.
i dont think it's porn itself,
so much as it is porn as a regressive tendancy, or way to shy away from life.
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This has helped a lot both in getting a lot more female friends, and in getting rid of the shyness I normally have around a pretty girl.
beware of the shy ones! 
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My reason for stopping? It is an act of hedonism. It connects sexual things solely with the physical pleasure, and I am trying to rise above that and make sex more of the sacred thing it is.
its wrong to equivocate sex or 'sexuality', with masterbation.
you are now being sexual (socially).
masturbation is almost a way of being asexual,
in the same way that a person who goes out to protest does something political,
and a person who sits at home their entire life and reads political journals is being apolitcal.
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And while I definitely still have a lot of things I do just for the instant gratification, I am trying to work towards more lasting pleasures, and I think this will help with the goal.
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modsquad09
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Quote:
hailtothethief said:
I have tried to quit since February. Since then, I have failed 3 times... However I think I should be fine for a while. The biggest risk for failure is wasting time on the internet, watching TV, etc... there is so much sex in everything.
I definitely feel more energy and more motivated without doing it. I also waste a lot less time.
However, I think that the biggest change has been caused by the lack of porn. Porn really changes my mind a lot... albeit a lot of it is subconscious, but since I have stopped I feel that I respect girls a lot more. I look at them as the humans they are, not the tasty piece of meat I want to stick my piece of meat in. This has helped a lot both in getting a lot more female friends, and in getting rid of the shyness I normally have around a pretty girl.
My reason for stopping? It is an act of hedonism. It connects sexual things solely with the physical pleasure, and I am trying to rise above that and make sex more of the sacred thing it is. And while I definitely still have a lot of things I do just for the instant gratification, I am trying to work towards more lasting pleasures, and I think this will help with the goal.
My only complaint: every now and then you get wet dreams, and if you weren't planning on showering in the morning it screws your schedule up
Yep that's it.
Longevity. Control. Insights. More will power, confidence, smarts, and people/positivity in your life.
Instead of living for the sperm that flies out of your dick. lol
Much better to work and earn a hott chick that you have first made a emotional connection and mental bond to first. Just because of them as a person. Then the sex is that much more rewarding/amazing.
Much less problems that way. One night stands without some kind of bond or knowing each other, leave you feeling alone still and even worse cause you lost your vital essence(sperm) your energy.
women don't really lose their energy they just gain ours more than we do theirs.
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