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Meeting a chick from OkCupid
#16193983 - 05/07/12 11:21 AM (1 year, 12 days ago) |
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well im gonna go get some drinks with this chick from OkCupid sometime this week
this is like my first blind/internet date and idk i just hope everything goes well
this chick is into all the same kinda music i am, loves shows, eats molly and L, and is this cute little petite chick
she wants to get some drinks and even said she will grab some molly (im always looking for new connects lol), i was like sweet im way down with that
gonna be my first hookup since the ex...pretty damn excited about this
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Be careful... surprise butt sex might be incomming.
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vinnymontana21
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why would she have to use an internet site to meet men? what decent woman would need that to meet men? anywhere she goes she would have dudes crawlin on her.
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Lynnch
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Hey man, Have fun! Don't be too surprised if she's a little heavier than advertised or has a 3 yo in tow. In the same thread, it's always interesting to hear new people's stories  Maybe take it easy on the molly with someone you barely know...
Lots of people don't have the time to go out all the time, some people don't like the bar scene, some people like the idea of screening their dates before a face to face encounter; there are plenty of reasons. And actually, outside of a club, how often do you see dudes straight up picking up chicks?
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Crystal G
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Re: Meeting a chick from OkCupid [Re: Lynnch] 2
#16194296 - 05/07/12 12:56 PM (1 year, 12 days ago) |
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Good luck. My first date on okcupid, I ended up dating for a few months. It can happen. Your relationship sounds like it has more lasting power tho. The guy I dated was ultra conservative, completely stupidly anti drug, talked mad shit about drug users all the time, and I was a full blown junkie at the time. 
I did get to make homemade porn with him tho... which I later posted on the shroomery.
-------------------- Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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Re: Meeting a chick from OkCupid [Re: Crystal G]
#16194325 - 05/07/12 01:05 PM (1 year, 12 days ago) |
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I've been with a girl I met on plenty of fish for fourteen months now. She was the third girl I mrt. First two were way fatter then advertised but I banged them anyway. Jaw dropped when I met my current girl. Very beautiful and semi sane which is perfect for me. I like online dating although I did feel really dirty doing it, always checking on messages and hoping the girls like you is exhausting and pretty sad day to day but when you find a good girl its real special.
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Re: Meeting a chick from OkCupid [Re: Crystal G]
#16194370 - 05/07/12 01:17 PM (1 year, 12 days ago) |
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Crystal G said: Good luck. My first date on okcupid, I ended up dating for a few months. It can happen. Your relationship sounds like it has more lasting power tho. The guy I dated was ultra conservative, completely stupidly anti drug, talked mad shit about drug users all the time, and I was a full blown junkie at the time. 
I did get to make homemade porn with him tho... which I later posted on the shroomery. 
That was the marine right ever get that MMF you wanted from him.
To op
Just relax be cool listen to her and sound interesting and going out for drinks is know for lets drink talk and then go back and fuck so clean your house and trim your hairs son
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Lynnch
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Re: Meeting a chick from OkCupid [Re: pfxtc]
#16194374 - 05/07/12 01:18 PM (1 year, 12 days ago) |
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I actually have a lot of fun chatting with chicks on pof. Throw around a few 'dtf?'s and laugh at the replies Don't take it too seriously. If the right chick shows up, great, if not, at least you had fun flirting...
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Re: Meeting a chick from OkCupid [Re: Lynnch]
#16194376 - 05/07/12 01:19 PM (1 year, 12 days ago) |
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Lynnch said: Hey man, Have fun! Don't be too surprised if she's a little heavier than advertised or has a 3 yo in tow. In the same thread, it's always interesting to hear new people's stories  Maybe take it easy on the molly with someone you barely know...
Lots of people don't have the time to go out all the time, some people don't like the bar scene, some people like the idea of screening their dates before a face to face encounter; there are plenty of reasons. And actually, outside of a club, how often do you see dudes straight up picking up chicks?
why take it easy on the molly?
im def gonna eat some if shes down, just makes sex that much easier and better
but for real i like this chick more thna just as someone to have sex with, sure ive never met her but shes got a cool personality it seems like and she likes all the same things i do, which is a huge turn on for me
for a gf, im not looking for ANYTHING serious, i just want a girl i like to have fun with, go to shows, have sex, chill and blaze, party...that kinda stuff
so obviously im gonna eat molly with her if shes down
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Re: Meeting a chick from OkCupid [Re: trekie]
#16194425 - 05/07/12 01:35 PM (1 year, 12 days ago) |
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trekie said:
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Crystal G said: Good luck. My first date on okcupid, I ended up dating for a few months. It can happen. Your relationship sounds like it has more lasting power tho. The guy I dated was ultra conservative, completely stupidly anti drug, talked mad shit about drug users all the time, and I was a full blown junkie at the time. 
I did get to make homemade porn with him tho... which I later posted on the shroomery. 
That was the marine right ever get that MMF you wanted from him.
No that marine I was going to get in an MMF with is a different marine, one who is actually bisexual and enjoys drug use.
-------------------- Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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Lynnch
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Well, I always found that molly gave me the sensation of being in love, but the next day I wondered what I really felt. When I've taken it with someone I already know I like, and I know she likes me, the next day is just as good instead of 'oh, we're not high anymore'... I mean, hell yea its great to break the ice and you'll have great sex, so if you're both feelin it and down go for it, you'll have a good time... But if it was me, I'd save it for the second date when the ice is already broken, you're already comfortable, and you can use it to make a good thing better, instead of relying on it to start a good thing. Ya hear?
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Re: Meeting a chick from OkCupid [Re: Crystal G]
#16194464 - 05/07/12 01:46 PM (1 year, 11 days ago) |
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Yeah I was going to say Marines can go either way, Be huge America fuck ya pricks or be like that.
Well that goes for all branches of the military.
That shit is fun done it a few times with some buddy's I severed with to a few different girls.
Including the one Ive been with for 4 years now .
To op dude just be confident but act like you give no fucks and make sure the house is clean because almost anytime a girl wants to go to a bar for drinks it means she wants to bone.
That way if its a horrible mistake they can blame it on the booze.
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I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.
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Re: Meeting a chick from OkCupid [Re: Lynnch] 1
#16194496 - 05/07/12 01:56 PM (1 year, 11 days ago) |
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Lynnch said: Well, I always found that molly gave me the sensation of being in love, but the next day I wondered what I really felt. When I've taken it with someone I already know I like, and I know she likes me, the next day is just as good instead of 'oh, we're not high anymore'... I mean, hell yea its great to break the ice and you'll have great sex, so if you're both feelin it and down go for it, you'll have a good time... But if it was me, I'd save it for the second date when the ice is already broken, you're already comfortable, and you can use it to make a good thing better, instead of relying on it to start a good thing. Ya hear?
good advice. stick with weed and maybe a couple drinks.
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Anonymous #1
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yeah thats a REALLY good point
def didnt think about it that way
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Run, run far away from that site. Every girl (4) on there that I met, have been horribly, horribly insane individuals and mentally unstable. Not saying it can't happen, but def. had some crap experiences thanks to that site.
Wanna hear something funny? I actually had better success with vampirefreaks.com and I made an account there simply as a joke to troll in the chats!
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Re: Meeting a chick from OkCupid [Re: Duraldo]
#16213884 - 05/11/12 08:05 AM (1 year, 8 days ago) |
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it puts the lotion on its skin, less it gets the hose again!
SKIN SUIT HERE YOU COME!
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Re: Meeting a chick from OkCupid [Re: mndfreeze]
#16221478 - 05/12/12 10:15 PM (1 year, 6 days ago) |
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Why would a proper and reasonable woman use a dating site? Simple, to make an extra weeding out process that doesn't happen on the street. Also, because the people who usually do approach them aren't what they want. Lastly, dating websites are kinda like a people's shopping mall, you can see them before you try them and you don't even have to be afraid that they caught you looking.
As for OP's situation, I would keep in mind all the cliche Internet dating pitfalls and try to have fun with it. Don't forget to tip too.
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naturesrevolt said: Don't forget to tip too.
haa
and dont forget to pinch it at the top before you roll it down.
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You need a reservoir, otherwise it will get everywhere.
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automan
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I've 'dated' a ton of chicks from okcupid
I recommend it
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