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If it wasn't for the fact that Hitler was a dude, I'd say the most psychotic person in the world was a woman.
 and yet very true
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 Re: My wife lost it.  [Re: Vahunter]
#16174935 - 05/03/12 02:52 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Seriously dude their is something wrong here, get it fixed. Number one thing is this bitch has no respect for you. That's like her #1 job as your wife. Nothing else matters without respect. Number two is if you subject your children to this kind of relationship they are going to repeat it by becoming emotionally (physically?) abusive dickwads or lame-brained doormats who don't get or deserve respect.
I'm not saying you deserve this, nobody does, but if you continue to subject yourself and your children to this example you are the only one to blame.
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Re: My wife lost it. [Re: yoimjohn]
#16174949 - 05/03/12 02:56 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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i can a least somewhat relate man. girls can be fucking crazy.
my chick can turn from love to hate in a split second over a misinterpreted text message. over a misspelled word that confuses her. there is no right or wrong with what i do. i could be the perfect person and still the recipient of all her depressive rage.
bipolar?
yes shes bipolar, among other things
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yoimjohn
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your looks are goingto fade with all the stress creating wrinkles and premature old age facial skin!
seriously, who said you had to date? get a gym membership ( your mental and physical well-being will increase ) eat healthy (singles lifestyle food choices!) move into a apartment ( unless its your home, then kick her out ) get healthy looking an u will find a women in no time if you want.
you can be single for awhile, n then worry about dating. get your life on track. when your kids are doing fine post-divorce, as in they aren't fuckin up in school then i would consider dating again or going out and havin fun and hopefully you meet that special someone who treats you right.
the most important thing is that you COMMIT to this move.. there is no looking back, just the present and near future. and you will be much happier with the decision after all the BS that comes with a divorce..
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Re: My wife lost it. [Re: Vahunter]
#16177051 - 05/03/12 05:01 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Get some professional help or dump her. You won't be happy with your marriage if she's stuck in her alcoholism. If she is unwiling to help help herself then get a lawyer and get her away from the kids. Your main worry should be that your kids on safe. I wouldn't want my kids alone with their alcoholic mother for a single fucking second. You have other lives to worry about other than your own right now. this sounds incredibly tough but unless she has some major realizations quickly, it's not going to work out. You can however get her to make those realizations by giving her consequences (like removing the kids) and showing her you will not stand for the behavior and you will not do anything to support her alcoholism.
I promise you if you go to any professional they will tell you the exact same thing. You don't need to pay me, i work for free . But seriously, spare your children from any more harm and do something today!
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also, alchoholism should be taken SERIOUSLY, it is in my eyes a drug, and when your addicted you are not in control of your actions what-so-ever. people have done FUCKED UP SHIT to their husbands..
my mom is an alchoholic, and she's bipolar, my dad and her were together for 20 years, they seemed happy till she started drinking her wine.. she wasn't always bipolar, something ( probably alchohol/alchoholism unleashed in her, or some other drug that im unaware of ) but she changed ALOT in a small period of time became mentally fucked.
my dad tried to reconcile and he saw my mom when she volunteerd to turn the bath on for him put alot of bleach into the bathwater.. she tried to kill my dad.
wanna know how he saw? my tv screen glare when we were both watchin this show, showed a reflection across the room through both the bathroom and my bedroom door. he saw her pouring it in essentially. its fucked up and it happened.
do you want this to happen to you? i wouldnt trust her.. she sounds just like my mom with the way she acts.. she probably DOES HATE YOU..
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Re: My wife lost it. [Re: yoimjohn]
#16177395 - 05/03/12 06:09 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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That's pretty damn messed up..What was his reaction to that?
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That's pretty damn messed up..What was his reaction to that?
well he was like wtf are you doing, n she tried saying ' what its a joke ' 
he decided to continue on with the divorce that she was taking him to court for. after that he never trusted her. never even ate the dinner food she made for the 'family' while they were both in the house.
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Re: My wife lost it. [Re: yoimjohn]
#16177433 - 05/03/12 06:19 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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oh yeah, she ended up lying big time, tried to say my dad hit her alot and in ' in front of the kids ' which is bulshit, he wasnt that type, when i saw those court papers ( like a fuckin packet ) of shit that me and my bro and sis " apparantly saw him doing to her " i was astonished. it was the opposite if anything. i remember he was laying on the couch sleeping and i literally saw my mom on two different occasions go up to him and start punching him in the face.
and then another time she took a chair and hit him in the face/head with it when he was sleeping. saw that too
she ended up convincing the courts that he was the crazy one ( in the beginning) but after awhile they started coming along(only a little) she took over 600,000$ from him in the divorce, the money is also from the house she made my dad sell that i was growing up in. had to move away from all my friends. she ended up in a mental hospital for a couple of months which revealed her bipolar disease, n then she got out, and blew all of the money..
till this day she still believes in her own lies -.- she also had me arrested when i was 11 during the divorce and said i was crazy and trying to kill her when in fact i was just cursing at her because of her crazy bulshit. i had to go to a hospital for a day n then they checked me out and let me go home..
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Re: My wife lost it. [Re: Vahunter]
#16178691 - 05/03/12 10:43 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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love the extensions of *sigh* after your posts, OP.
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Re: My wife lost it. [Re: yoimjohn]
#16178702 - 05/03/12 10:45 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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That's pretty damn messed up..What was his reaction to that?
well he was like wtf are you doing, n she tried saying ' what its a joke '
he decided to continue on with the divorce that she was taking him to court for. after that he never trusted her. never even ate the dinner food she made for the 'family' while they were both in the house.
I wouldnt either. Thats bullshit. I once caught a gf like spitting into my cup when she gave it back to me to drink. I had a hard time trusting her with anything after that. We werent even fighting, i dont know what the fuck was going through her head
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Re: My wife lost it. [Re: mick]
#16179087 - 05/03/12 11:41 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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feelings of inadequacy and "feeling trapped". what a bitch move, though; i bet that must have been a weird sighting.
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I hope she is at least still having sex with OP after all this, otherwise staying with her makes no sense at all.
If he was at least still getting some pussy I guess I could kinda understand still putting up with it a little bit.
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withoutawire
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No amount of pussy is worth risking your kids lives over. He's destroying them at a fundamental level every minute he allows her to be around them. He needs to get custody immediately.
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Something very similar happened to me once at a bar. Chick told me that she was divorced and her hubby had the kids and she couldn't stay long because she needed to pick them up. Well, she stayed and got drunk as hell. I took her out to her car and she wanted to go at it but I told her that it wasn't right because she had too much to drink and we could meet up another day. So, I tossed her keys under her seat and sat with her for a while...she had already started pulling off some of her clothes thinking we were going to do it. Eventually, she passed out and I went back inside.
Lo and behold, who starts calling/texting/blowing up my phone at 3 a.m. but her hubby. I told him that I didn't screw his old lady but he didn't believe me. He said he found he sleeping in her car at the bar and her clothes were off and her hair was ruffled. I told him that she threw herself at me and told me she was divorced.
I went by her work a few days later but kept a distance. She looked very respectable and seemed to have a high ranking position...nothing like the chick who was wasted at the bar.
Moral of the story: maybe the dude dropping her off didn't have sex with her, the alcohol probably severely affected her judgment, and she isn't getting what she wants at home.
If you have been together for ten years and have two kids then your marriage is worth saving. However, she needs to get off the booze and you need to fix whatever it is that she is missing at home. Maybe too much damage has been done but if you truly want to fix it then both of you have to try.
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Re: My wife lost it. [Re: meams]
#16180319 - 05/04/12 05:28 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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meams said:
take the kids.
file for custody.
collect child support payments. if she fails -> jail.
Sorry to you man, but you and your kids are better off without her... Fucking shitty situation.
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Re: My wife lost it. [Re: mick]
#16180643 - 05/04/12 09:28 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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That's pretty damn messed up..What was his reaction to that?
well he was like wtf are you doing, n she tried saying ' what its a joke '
he decided to continue on with the divorce that she was taking him to court for. after that he never trusted her. never even ate the dinner food she made for the 'family' while they were both in the house.
I wouldnt either. Thats bullshit. I once caught a gf like spitting into my cup when she gave it back to me to drink. I had a hard time trusting her with anything after that. We werent even fighting, i dont know what the fuck was going through her head
 thats gross man, i hope you didn't drink it.
and i would assume you broke up with her with that as the underlying reason.. a more normal minded person wouldn't spit in a drink. sounds like a way to spread germs-sickness
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Anonymous #6
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Re: My wife lost it. [Re: yoimjohn]
#16190540 - 05/06/12 04:02 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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im sorry to read this, my simpathy gose out to you. i understand why you would stay, your kids, i see alot of people saying take your children and blahh blahh blahh, get dna testing blahh blahh blahh. well for all the other fathers out there theyll feel me about putting their children befor them selfs, and some wont. doing whats best for yourself and whats best for the kid(s) isnt always the same thing and sometimes conflict. and after raising a kid for over a year and oftan less than that you bond with the kid. any fucker can make them only real men raise em
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Anonymous said:
im sorry to read this, my simpathy gose out to you. i understand why you would stay, your kids, i see alot of people saying take your children and blahh blahh blahh, get dna testing blahh blahh blahh. well for all the other fathers out there theyll feel me about putting their children befor them selfs, and some wont. doing whats best for yourself and whats best for the kid(s) isnt always the same thing and sometimes conflict. and after raising a kid for over a year and oftan less than that you bond with the kid. any fucker can make them only real men raise em
Pro-tip: Spell check. Learn to use it.
Edited by tymoteusz3 (05/06/12 06:37 PM)
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frylock91
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Way to stay on topic.
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