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 i think im in love... 
#16165208 - 05/01/12 01:43 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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We just met this past weekend and went on a date last night, started making in my car out at the end, things started getting so hot and heavy and passionate, that I begged him to fuck me right then and there. I really couldn't wait cause we were feeling such strong chemistry, so we just did it right there. I'm one of those people that doesn't like to follow dating rules or social etiquette so I hate to wait. If I see something beautiful, I embrace it fully and don't hold back.
I swear to god, I know we were just hooking up in a car, but in my head it felt like we were fucking making love. Holy shit, the sexual chemistry was so intense, and he was doing such amazing things with his body parts, he got me wet all over. He is the most amazing kisser and every look and touch we gave each other was incredibly sensual. And he's really sweet, not at all like the rough and tough guys I usually go for. I told him that I wanted to make out with him all night with him.
I don't want to get ahead of myself by saying I'm in love with him already, but if I keep seeing this guy I know I'm going to fall for him.
FYI, I am one of those people that falls in love at very first sight. Every single time I've ever fallen for somebody, it's always been since love at first sight for me (I believe it's a combination of sexual attraction and pheromones, since many times solely sexual attraction will not cause me to fall in love like that). I never ever develop love for somebody after spending time with them or dating them. If it isn't there from the beginning, I just won't ever fall in love with them later on. And the first moment I met this guy, I was just completely blown away by this intense attraction I felt for him.
He's cute as hell, and I can't help but think this must be real, because he doesn't typically look like the kind of guy I usually go for. I tend to go for tall, dark-skinned Hispanic men with athletic builds. This guy is lean built, tall, and white as fuck. He looks like a young Tom Cruise with piercing blue eyes.
But what came out of his mouth was what really did it for me. We ended up having this surprisingly deep conversation about post-Marxism, Slavoj Zizek, John Locke's utilitarianism, sex-positive feminism, anti-pornography feminism... it was the most wonderful conversation I've ever had with anybody in a club environment.
It turns out he's a lawyer by occupation, and we both studied the same subject while he was studying at undergrad. And here's the best part: He's not one of those annoying, stuck up, conservative lawyers!!! He's a criminal and environmental lawyer, and super liberal leaning, and really down to earth. Not as liberal as a Marxist or anarchist, but definitely as liberal as John Rawls and fully supports welfare and social programs. I was SOOOO glad to hear that, because when I heard he was a lawyer I was halfway expecting him to be like "RON PAUL 2012! MILTON FRIEDMAN!" Nope, he is completely not okay with electing a racist, sexist creationist bigot in the white house, just like me!
So, I asked him out. I definitely think this guy could be the one, just based on how strong and passionate my attraction is for him. I would definitely have a mutually exclusive relationship for this guy. I just have to try my damn hardest not to screw this up like I always manage to do. 
So... yea. Once we declare ourselves exclusive, I'm going to get rid of everybody else. Currently I'm dating like 4 guys... because I haven't made up my mind yet who I wanna be with, but now I know for sure. >_>
But... I can't get rid of everybody just yet, and it's because I'm so misanthropic... that I just keep getting this voice in the back of my head telling me that this isn't going to work, that I'm going to screw it up, and so because of that I should keep as many "backup-guys" around just in case of a rebound, for when shit hits the fan with me and this guy.
I can't stop thinking like this, because when things are going good, I always expect the worst.
It's the neurotic junkie in me.
Edited by Anonymous (05/01/12 10:02 PM)
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 lifeiswhatyoumake
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You don't fall in LOVE with a guy you met the past weekend
LOVE takes time. You should have controlled yourself and not fucked him so early.
Sex makes people think they're in love, when in most cases they aren't. When are people going to learn to wait to have sex... that's how you fall in love. Patience is a virtue.
You are dating 4 guys and you think you fell in love with this new guy? Give me a break. Sorry to sound rude, but I have to.
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Edited by lifeiswhatyoumake (05/01/12 01:50 PM)
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 drSE
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i love how the story ends with "So i asked him out"
seriously though, I love you crystal G. haha, people need to be more open like us.
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Quote:
lifeiswhatyoumake said:
You don't fall in LOVE with a guy you met the past weekend
LOVE takes time. You should have controlled yourself and not fucked him so early.
Sex makes people think they're in love, when in most cases they aren't. When are people going to learn to wait to have sex... that's how you fall in love. Patience is a virtue.
I don't believe that. Out of the many partners I've had I've only fallen in love 3 times. Each of those guys was love at first sight. It lasted long after, sometimes even years after we broke up. I would have done anything for them.
You can't say my feelings aren't real. I have never, ever fallen in love with somebody over time. If it isn't there from the beginning, that shit ain't ever going to happen with me later.
I'm thinking I'm 1 of those people that's very sensitive to pheromones, which is why I'm like that.
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Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!  
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 Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16165252 - 05/01/12 01:54 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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lifeiswhatyoumake said:
You don't fall in LOVE with a guy you met the past weekend
LOVE takes time. You should have controlled yourself and not fucked him so early.
Sex makes people think they're in love, when in most cases they aren't. When are people going to learn to wait to have sex... that's how you fall in love. Patience is a virtue.
I don't believe that. Out of the many partners I've had I've only fallen in love 3 times. Each of those guys was love at first sight. It lasted long after, sometimes even years after we broke up. I would have done anything for them.
You can't say my feelings aren't real. I have never, ever fallen in love with somebody over time. If it isn't there from the beginning, that shit ain't ever going to happen with me later.
I'm thinking I'm 1 of those people that's very sensitive to pheromones, which is why I'm like that.
my true love, i knew the first night. Weird story but I love her to death and she loves me to death, but we will never date. Or be together in the end. We love each other so much that we actually loath each other in a weird way. Its sad but for the best.
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16165314 - 05/01/12 02:05 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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lifeiswhatyoumake said:
You don't fall in LOVE with a guy you met the past weekend
LOVE takes time. You should have controlled yourself and not fucked him so early.
Sex makes people think they're in love, when in most cases they aren't. When are people going to learn to wait to have sex... that's how you fall in love. Patience is a virtue.
I don't believe that. Out of the many partners I've had I've only fallen in love 3 times. Each of those guys was love at first sight. It lasted long after, sometimes even years after we broke up. I would have done anything for them.
You can't say my feelings aren't real. I have never, ever fallen in love with somebody over time. If it isn't there from the beginning, that shit ain't ever going to happen with me later.
I'm thinking I'm 1 of those people that's very sensitive to pheromones, which is why I'm like that.
There is a difference between falling in love with someone and loving someone.
Falling in love--also known as "lust"--is temporary. It's great while it lasts but sooner or later, that begins to drop off. That's when you find out whether or not you actually LOVE the other person.
I agree w/ lifeiswhatyoumake in that respect: love takes time. It's not decided in the blink of an eye.
Falling in love, though--happens all the time.
Just felt the need to point that out.
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: drSE]
#16165335 - 05/01/12 02:08 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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drSE said:
my true love, i knew the first night. Weird story but I love her to death and she loves me to death, but we will never date. Or be together in the end. We love each other so much that we actually loath each other in a weird way. Its sad but for the best.
The first guy I ever fell in love with was like that. After dating him for 2 weeks, I knew I had to stay away from him because I knew he was going to hurt me bad. He had all the warning signs of being a really abusive guy, and as much as I loved him, I knew I couldn't put myself in that position. He begged me not to leave, and insisted he could change, but I knew it would be for the best if I left. My feelings for him lasted for 2 years after that point though.
I grew up in an abusive home, so there's certain signs I tend to look out for in guys. And guys who show those signs, I won't ever, ever date, no matter how into them I am.
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Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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Fuck I'd like to date a man like that, LOL.
Keep him around.
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Crystal G
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the_drummer said:
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Crystal G said:
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lifeiswhatyoumake said:
You don't fall in LOVE with a guy you met the past weekend
LOVE takes time. You should have controlled yourself and not fucked him so early.
Sex makes people think they're in love, when in most cases they aren't. When are people going to learn to wait to have sex... that's how you fall in love. Patience is a virtue.
I don't believe that. Out of the many partners I've had I've only fallen in love 3 times. Each of those guys was love at first sight. It lasted long after, sometimes even years after we broke up. I would have done anything for them.
You can't say my feelings aren't real. I have never, ever fallen in love with somebody over time. If it isn't there from the beginning, that shit ain't ever going to happen with me later.
I'm thinking I'm 1 of those people that's very sensitive to pheromones, which is why I'm like that.
There is a difference between falling in love with someone and loving someone.
Falling in love--also known as "lust"--is temporary. It's great while it lasts but sooner or later, that begins to drop off. That's when you find out whether or not you actually LOVE the other person.
I agree w/ lifeiswhatyoumake in that respect: love takes time. It's not decided in the blink of an eye.
Falling in love, though--happens all the time.
Just felt the need to point that out.
I definitely agree with that, there is a difference between falling in love (hot and passionate romantic encounters), and unconditional love (the type of love you give your kids). The reason I responded that way though, is because the other poster was insinuating that I could not possibly fall in love with a man I just met. To which I responded its definitely possible, as its how I've always fallen in love.
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Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16166123 - 05/01/12 04:38 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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You should start some kind of self contained polygamous orgy commune out on a farm or something... 
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Shins]
#16166217 - 05/01/12 04:57 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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You should start some kind of self contained polygamous orgy commune out on a farm or something...
Hehe that doesn't sound so bad. Honestly I wouldn't do it unless my partner was really into it tho. Even tho I'm a swinger, when I find that one that I truly love, I devote myself fully to that person. And I can easily see myself doing that with this guy. I just don't become monogamous until I find that right person, because I'm particularly selective.
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Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G] 1
#16166350 - 05/01/12 05:21 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah sometimes there are those once in a lifetime relationships that are worth fighting and sacrificing for.
thats how me and my lady are.
I also want you to know that as a Ron Paul supporter myself, i would fully support the idea of a self contained orgy commune. Im all for smaller scale associations like that that are possible to opt out of if you wish. Kind of like how anarchy is supposed to work in theory with smaller scale, spontanious local organisation. Anarchy is actually as far right as you can go by my understanding.
Anyways good luck with your new man, IMO do what you feel is best for you regardless of what other people think, love at first sight does happen and it's by no means defenitely doomed to fail. Who am i to judge?
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Shins]
#16166602 - 05/01/12 06:08 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I'd be interested in sequencing your genome in the future
I want to know if an "open major histocompatibility complex" can lead to pheromone sensibility.
I also believe that you can fall in love at first sight, if the attraction is high enough. However i agree to the fact that "first-love" will decrease with the duration of the relation
I personally think that i have a good compatibility of my immune system with women of latin america.
Pheromones 1
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Edited by Amphibolos (05/01/12 06:16 PM)
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lifeiswhatyoumake said:
You don't fall in LOVE with a guy you met the past weekend
LOVE takes time. You should have controlled yourself and not fucked him so early.
Sex makes people think they're in love, when in most cases they aren't. When are people going to learn to wait to have sex... that's how you fall in love. Patience is a virtue.
You are dating 4 guys and you think you fell in love with this new guy? Give me a break. Sorry to sound rude, but I have to.
falling in love and developing love are two different things. i definitely believe in love at first sight, i fall in love very very easily and then through getting to know the person better unconditional love and respect develops. who are you to tell anyone they should have controlled themselves and not had sex? different strokes for different folks.
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lifeiswhatyoumake said:
You should have controlled yourself and not fucked him so early.
falling in love and developing love are two different things. i definitely believe in love at first sight, i fall in love very very easily and then through getting to know the person better unconditional love and respect develops. who are you to tell anyone they should have controlled themselves and not had sex? different strokes for different folks.
Completely agree. I think people who impose those dating rules about "waiting X number of dates for sex" and "waiting X number of days to call back" are so fucking stupid.
What the fuck are we waiting for? If I see something I like, I am going to fully embrace it. I'm not going to hold back simply because it's society's expectation of what is "right." I'm a passionate person when it comes to love and life, and if I want something, I am going to go for it and give it my 100%.
People who don't understand will never truly understand real, raw, unadulterated, unbridled pleasure, passion, and emotion.
Just a bit ironic, that comment came from a guy named "lifeiswhatyoumake."
If anything, the fact that I'm dating 4 guys at the same time and STILL managed to fall in love with this new guy only proves my strong feelings for him. Obviously it means that he stands out to me in a way that all these other guys couldn't compete with. So once he returns his interest in me, I'm planning on getting rid of everybody else and just making it the two of us.
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I want to know if an "open major histocompatibility complex" can lead to pheromone sensibility.
Just curious, what is this complex and what makes you think I have it?
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Amphibolos said:
I personally think that i have a good compatibility of my immune system with women of latin america.
I am actually the same way, hence why I tend to go for hispanics typically. This guy will be the first white guy I've dated in a few years.
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Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
Edited by Crystal G (05/01/12 09:35 PM)
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16168142 - 05/01/12 11:15 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Where to begin...
does your new man you met this past weekend know that you are dating 4 other guys at the same time?
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You had sex in the car?? Naughty naughty  Now kids, no sex in the car, my friend has scars from the seat belts because she did that.
Totally agree Clara. There's love, and Love, and Lovvvveee and well, you get the point.
Lol dude, she didn't say she's in committed relationships with 4 guys, plenty of people go on dates with multiple people without getting tied down to any one. I for one don't know how they find the time, but to each their own.
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Where to begin...
does your new man you met this past weekend know that you are dating 4 other guys at the same time?
Currently we've only been out on 1 date. This is not information you dispense to somebody on ONE date. He's not "my new man" yet.
For starters, I don't even know at this point if he is interested in me. Everything points to yes, but you never know, the human mind is weird sometimes.
Second of all, it really doesn't matter whether I tell him, because as soon as he shows his interest in me, I'm planning on leaving everybody else.
Although... actually, come to think of it, ever since I went on that date, I stopped texting and calling all those other guys I was seeing. So in the mean time, I am not dating them, and will not START re-dating them again unless he for whatever reason decides he's not interested in me anymore.
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Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16168335 - 05/01/12 11:48 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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This reminds me of a girl im dating right now. We fucked in my car on our second date. Was pretty cool, she started squirting all over me and got embarrassed lol.
it was really cute.
I met her on a deserted beach for miles in every direction at 1am. I was naked within 30 minutes. We made out and I saved her dog from being run over by drunken 2am traffic. That pretty much sealed the deal. Even though weve both gone relationship crazy since then i still love her dumb ass.
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16169707 - 05/02/12 07:37 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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I want to know if an "open major histocompatibility complex" can lead to pheromone sensibility.
Just curious, what is this complex and what makes you think I have it?
Major histocompatibility complex
There would be some evolutionary advantage of having a partner with a different MHC than ours. This way the descendency would be able to cope better with future viral attacks. My point of view is that it also reflect the way we respond to other persons in a relationship
NOTE: This is a basic consideration and it doesnt take in account the social factors
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: mick]
#16169709 - 05/02/12 07:38 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Sounds like you found your vaginas soul mate.
Crystal g's inverse vagina aka sensual kisser guy =/> 4 other guys.
If one man is better than four man that is love.
Hahaha.
Wait.
Ahahahahwwwhahwhahwhahahaha
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Crystal G
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Amphibolos said:
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Crystal G said:
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Amphibolos said:
I want to know if an "open major histocompatibility complex" can lead to pheromone sensibility.
Just curious, what is this complex and what makes you think I have it?
Major histocompatibility complex
There would be some evolutionary advantage of having a partner with a different MHC than ours. This way the descendency would be able to cope better with future viral attacks. My point of view is that it also reflect the way we respond to other persons in a relationship
NOTE: This is a basic consideration and it doesnt take in account the social factors
Interesting..... how do u tell whether somebody has it over the internet?
The reason I say I'm sensitive to pheromones... is cause the last guy I was in love with, I was obsessed with his sweat. So much that I would take his military blouse that he had sweated in and hadn't washed for a week, and put it over my face and go to lalaland with it.  or whenever he worked out, id pick up his armpit and sniff under it and it'd produce this insane chemical reaction in my brain.... almost like I was high... he was THE BEST smelling guy I've ever been with. I felt like I could separate the testosterone molecule from his sweat... and believe me... he had LOTS.
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Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16171661 - 05/02/12 04:51 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Hmmm, I have definitely borrowed guys shirts because their smell drove me crazy, and I pretty much always bury my face in their chest/shoulder and inhale deeply when I go in for a hug and haven't seen them in a few days. But I have never fallen in love at first site. In fact, the people who I have fallen for I have done so after getting to know them really well as friends, and those few times I have been in love do not correspond with the people whose smell I was most attracted to.
Just offering an alternate experience to consider with your hypothesis. Certainly not trying to say how "love at first sight" does or doesn't work, but I am equally curious.
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16171918 - 05/02/12 05:48 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Interesting..... how do u tell whether somebody has it over the internet?
In fact, every vertebrate have some kind of major histocompatibilty complex. My point was that for example, in your case, you could "smell" the compatibility of your immune system with the one of your last love, thats why you kept sniffing his sweat and you liked its scent.
I'd might say that it could also play a role in how you can fall in love at the first sight.
I hope i managed to express myself correctly this time 
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Crystal G said:
Interesting..... how do u tell whether somebody has it over the internet?
In fact, every vertebrate have some kind of major histocompatibilty complex. My point was that for example, in your case, you could "smell" the compatibility of your immune system with the one of your last love, thats why you kept sniffing his sweat and you liked its scent.
I'd might say that it could also play a role in how you can fall in love at the first sight.
I hope i managed to express myself correctly this time
your saying if you like the smell of the persons natural sweat (skin without deodorant) you subconsciously or consciously feel/are more compatible?
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: yoimjohn]
#16180288 - 05/04/12 05:09 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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We made love again today. 
So, here's where it gets fucking cool. He managed to get enough booze in me and pry into my life until I admitted that I did have an extensive history of drug use. I didn't tell him much about being an addict, but told him a lot about my raver days and my research chem days in Japan and things like that.
And he DID mention he always wanted to try LSD, but that he wanted to research it first before trying it out. Which makes me think he would make a really good and responsible drug user, like the kind that this community likes. God, his personality and everything, he's such a weird and eccentric guy and so intellectual (not to mention he LOVES Hunter S Thompson), that I can't help but think that he would completely love drugs to the extent that we do.
I think he's been mostly sheltered and a diligent academic his whole life, which is why he's never dabbled in drugs or alternative lifestyles. Apparently even all the girls he's dated before me were mostly conservative, sexually prudish Irish Catholic girls. But he's always had a thing for girls that were dangerous and edgy, like the type that would get expelled from high school (hey, which I did! Perfect!) 
So I've completely made up my mind; I'm completely going to fry face and trip balls with him and have a romantic, intimate acid sesh with him one day.
He seemed super open-minded about it all too. Which makes me like him even more; I totally thought he was going to be judgmental and want to leave me after hearing stuff like that. In fact, I felt so comfortable talking to him, that while we were cuddling he pried more and more into my life, until I spilled the beans about my past in BDSM and prostate-milking and swinging. I even told him I have a medical IV fetish and enjoy watching boys and girls urinate.
And his response was the BEST response ever; he wasn't shocked at all, he seemed more intrigued, almost like he was interested in trying it out himself. He even admitted he's very interested in trying out a few eccentric things, just wouldn't tell me what. So I know he's a FUCKING FREAK IN THE SHEETS deep down, he just needs to explore it.
I told him I'm into him even more, now that I know how wild he is deep down, and he said the same about me.
I'm bubbling right now.  I feel like I've found my soul-mate.
Oh yea, I totally forgot to add, we both have body dysmorphic disorder too LMFAO!!!! When we both took off our clothes, he started talking about how insecure he was and how much he didn't want to take off his shirt because of how out of shape he was. I thought he had a great body, I had no idea what the fuck he was talking about. So then I started talking about how much fat I had around my waist and how I really wanted to get a boob job, and that I wanted to get a million plastic surgery procedures until I totally look like one of those women that has had way too much work done, and he thought I was crazy. So we ended up cracking up after realizing we both had body dysmorphic disorder and even high-fived each other over it. XD
I've dated guys who have had body dysmorphic in the past, and basically we just end up totally potentiating and intensifying each other's dysmorphias. What ends up happening is, we see the other person getting so insecure about themselves, that we start thinking "Oh shit! If he/she's that hard on him/herself, then what the fuck are they going to think about ME, somebody who actually IS fat and ugly!!!" And then we start criticizing our own physical features so much that we end up planning a date to go in and get plastic surgery done together. Hahahaha.... it's bad, dude.
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Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16182683 - 05/04/12 07:36 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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already calling him the one?
girl u crazy 
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Bassfreak]
#16183594 - 05/04/12 11:16 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Yup. When I crush on someone, I fall for them HARD and IMMEDIATELY. Like injecting a drug. You know when its "the one." Its the junkie mentality in me.
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Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
Edited by Crystal G (05/04/12 11:32 PM)
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16184753 - 05/05/12 05:17 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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So you dumped those 4 other guys?
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Simms]
#16184782 - 05/05/12 05:30 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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So you dumped those 4 other guys?
Yea, I haven't seen them since. 2 of the guys were pretty much just short-term flings in my eyes anyway, so I pretty much just stopped texting them and answering their calls altogether. The other 2 I respect a little more and we have been a little more intimate, so I told them that I met somebody new and that I'm going to stick it out with him until he dumps me for whatever reason. 
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Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16185174 - 05/05/12 10:02 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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ppop corn please
wants to see pridish irish catholic girls
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Re: i think im in love... [Re: Crystal G]
#16185342 - 05/05/12 11:32 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Crystal G said:
Yup. When I crush on someone, I fall for them HARD and IMMEDIATELY. Like injecting a drug. You know when its "the one." Its the junkie mentality in me.
i mean thats one way to not garauntee a long healthy relationship
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So I told him that my biggest fantasy is to have the most romantic, intimate, and passionate acid sesh with him.
I wasn't even expecting him to be into the idea, but his response was, "That sounds amazing... I'd stop the world and melt with you."
O....M.....FG!!!!!!!!!! PANTIES. DROPPED.
I had the biggest grin plastered all over my face all day from that.
Now I know what song we will be blasting to while frying. 
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Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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#16198036 - 05/08/12 03:17 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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That sounds amazing... I'd stop the world and melt with you.
Edited by Anonymous (05/08/12 03:18 AM)
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