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Anonymous #1
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 Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! 
#16131541 - 04/24/12 02:54 AM (1 year, 24 days ago) |
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I know it's not usual to have to see each other everyday (almost always do) or have instant updates on everything but this is a BITCH! Why am I feeling like this? Not asking for advice just wanting to share love woes because those are what I'm feeling right now..
You think I'd try to focus on my own things and rationally be happy to catch up on other things but no my mind is just trapped on this dark void feeling...
Life is a BITCH!
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 scrapske
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 Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16131574 - 04/24/12 03:05 AM (1 year, 24 days ago) |
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hes fucking somebody else bro
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: scrapske]
#16132019 - 04/24/12 07:32 AM (1 year, 24 days ago) |
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Hey 1, dont fall into the "I hope hes ok" thought trap. Lots of people confuse their romantic feeling of need for their partner with concern for their welfare, and then trip them out about it: "I was worried"/"something could have happened to you"/"you need to let me know...". I did that a couple of times years ago before realising that it is just a trip and became aware after realising that it can be kind of manipulative (unintentionally so a lot of the time). I am not saying that that is what you are doing, your post doesnt give off that vibe at all, but just thought it would add something to your thread, because it is something a lot of people do in these situations without realising.
I can relate to how sucky it feels, kind a like being owned in a he has your heart kind of a way, so nice, and yet...
If you are falling for him, I highly recommend Kahlil Gibran's verse on Love in The Prophet.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: Anonymous #2]
#16134115 - 04/24/12 06:33 PM (1 year, 23 days ago) |
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I don't have much to offer in terms of advice. Just to tell you i'm going through the same thing. I feel horrible that it's happening and even worse that I am so needy. I think the only reason I am so neurotic about it is because she always texts me, a few times a day, but today, it's 4;30 pm and no word from her. I can't remember the last time we didn't at least say "hi."
And I really don't want to contact her. She has been a little cold, distant, aloof lately. I did my best to spark up a text conversation with her yesterday. I feel like I am trying too much, and chasing her around so i'll just let it go.
But damn I can't stand it  Something's def wrong here, and my mind is spinning with different ideas.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: Anonymous #3]
#16134275 - 04/24/12 07:11 PM (1 year, 23 days ago) |
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Damn, 'least I know I'm not the only one. I get the same way with girls, drives me crazy. Anon 3, stay strong brother! Breathe easy and do some things you like to do. Remember it's all just a joke anyways and is not that serious at all.
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MistyMystic
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: Anonymous #4]
#16134373 - 04/24/12 07:31 PM (1 year, 23 days ago) |
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start not giving a shit!
BOOYAH!
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fbi365
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: MistyMystic]
#16135406 - 04/24/12 11:17 PM (1 year, 23 days ago) |
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OP. Are you still with us?
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MistyMystic
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: fbi365]
#16135883 - 04/25/12 12:38 AM (1 year, 23 days ago) |
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Sorry. My post was sort of stupid.
I think to a degree everyone is like that with someone they really like or need.
This one girl really chilled me out. Nothing I do makes her mad at me. Even stuff where I think to myself wow this time she's going to be pissed.
We mostly just text and talk every once in a blue moon but she made me realize that even the most secure invulnerable person can freak out in social situations.
All it takes back is a txt or call being like  sup hunny or talk soon miss you too right? But you don't always get that... Just relax. You are good so are they.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: Anonymous #2]
#16140901 - 04/26/12 04:43 AM (1 year, 22 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Hey 1, dont fall into the "I hope hes ok" thought trap. Lots of people confuse their romantic feeling of need for their partner with concern for their welfare, and then trip them out about it: "I was worried"/"something could have happened to you"/"you need to let me know...". I did that a couple of times years ago before realising that it is just a trip and became aware after realising that it can be kind of manipulative (unintentionally so a lot of the time).
How does one rid themselves of needing their partner romantically/emotionally? I would love to be able to not be so needy, but the more I think about it, it makes me feel even more needy. 
I understand that it isn't a partner's responsibility to take care of the other partner's emotional needs 100%. People have to be strong and deal with things too, but isn't having emotional needs met part of why people are in relationships?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: fbi365]
#16141910 - 04/26/12 12:39 PM (1 year, 22 days ago) |
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Quote:
fbi365 said:
OP. Are you still with us?
Yeah we've just been fuckin for the last few days. No more life is a bitch
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wasabi-kun
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16142188 - 04/26/12 02:00 PM (1 year, 22 days ago) |
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Your craving the chems. Your brain releases when your around him, you'll see him soon enough
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Crystal G
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: wasabi-kun]
#16142628 - 04/26/12 03:58 PM (1 year, 21 days ago) |
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I get really paranoid when my boyfriends have done this too. Makes me wonder if they are seeing somebody.
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Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!  
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HeadTripVertigo
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Re: Haven't heard from boyfriend all day and into morning hours -depressed! [Re: Crystal G]
#16142697 - 04/26/12 04:15 PM (1 year, 21 days ago) |
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it's 5am and her boyfriend's not home yet
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TACOS LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER
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