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 naturesrevolt
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I know it from my job in sexual therapy.
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Crystal G
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 Re: large labia  [Re: koraks]
#16077882 - 04/11/12 11:52 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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koraks said:
Yeah, sure they are - and so what? Would you suggest people grow up in a social vacuum so they can develop 'pure' norms?
What is the problem, really? That some women feel inadequate in terms of their physical appearance? You think that didn't happen 500 years ago? Ever heard of Helen, over whom the Trojan war was allegedly started? Apparently even the ancient Greeks (and Trojans...) were obsessed with beauty.
What is the point in blaming the media and pornography for something that is inherently human?
Sexual objectification isn't a problem in and of itself.
The problem, however, if when those standards become impossibly unachievable. The fact that women are potentially destroying their sexual sensitivity and pleasure just to attain a "pretty"-looking vagina symbolizes the active distortion of the female psyche on display, and it is frankly upsetting and raises concerns.
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Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!  
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 CureCat
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Lynnch said:
90% of the time plastic surgery is obvious and frankly, unattractive.
It's colloquially called "plastic" surgery (as a dysphemism for cosmetic surgery, though in this case, there are also legitimate health reasons), but the procedure just removes skin.
I doubt this kind of "trimming" surgery is visually detectable after healing most of the time, especially with the variation and all.
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naturesrevolt said:
I know it from my job in sexual therapy.
So then you're a sex therapist? If so, it's good to have someone experienced in the field from a medical and therapeutic perspective weighing in.
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naturesrevolt
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Re: large labia [Re: CureCat]
#16078140 - 04/12/12 12:41 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I get busy a lot, so don't count on me as any sort of reliable source.
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thedream
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For the most part guys like a nice neat looking vagina, not a sloppy roast beef sandwich. Its just the way it is, just like most girls prefer a circumsized penis of a certain size and girth. You don't think some guys feel inadequate about their penis. It is just the nature of having genitals as it can be a source of insecurity for some folks or both genders.
And I am sure that before there was pornography the genitals were still a source of insecurity, perhaps not as much as today but I wouldn't doubt it was prevelant.
Going down on a chick with long labial flaps is a big turn off for most.
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naturesrevolt
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Re: large labia [Re: thedream] 1
#16078162 - 04/12/12 12:46 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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"Just eat skirt steak and enjoy it!" - my flatmate.
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Lynnch
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Usually during sexy time I'm looking into her eyes, not staring at her pussy.
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CureCat
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naturesrevolt said:
I get busy a lot, so don't count on me as any sort of reliable source.
Well then I won't rely on you to post frequently, but it sounds like you are a reliable source of information, at least.
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Crystal G
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Re: large labia [Re: CureCat]
#16078604 - 04/12/12 03:52 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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This thread has compelled me to spread open my legs and look at my vajayjay in front of the mirror.  Yep, everything looks fine. 
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Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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ChilliPapaSmurf
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Re: large labia [Re: thedream] 2
#16078840 - 04/12/12 07:29 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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thedream said:
For the most part guys like a nice neat looking vagina, not a sloppy roast beef sandwich. Its just the way it is, just like most girls prefer a circumsized penis of a certain size and girth. You don't think some guys feel inadequate about their penis. It is just the nature of having genitals as it can be a source of insecurity for some folks or both genders.
And I am sure that before there was pornography the genitals were still a source of insecurity, perhaps not as much as today but I wouldn't doubt it was prevelant.
Going down on a chick with long labial flaps is a big turn off for most.
Don't speak for 'most guys' unless you've spoken to almost every guy you've ever met about this very subject. YOU find it a turn-off; perhaps you are the squeamish sort. (I wonder do you still cut the crusts off your bread? I have theory about fussy eaters being fussy lovers...)
As a teenager I used to think every girl's pussy would look like an unopened flower bud just like every chick in every mainstream porn film I ever saw. But then I actually got a girlfriend. And, lo and behold! this real woman had a real, unique and beautiful pussy between her legs. But she was self-conscious about it. No large lips but a different colour, dark around the edges unlike anywhere else on her body. Fortunately, it being the first pussy I ever got acquainted with I adored it and she relaxed about it in a very short time. Had I been a sneering jerk "Eww, what happened to you?' that shit could have affected her for a long time.
As I grew older and more experienced I have come to the conclusion that NO two vaginas are alike. And furthermore large lips are LOVELY. They are sensual and soft, sensitive and responsive. The first time encountered them I realised they were like her traffic lights: pink and smaller when she wasn't turned on, but five minutes of kissing, sucking and licking just her labia and they were bright red, engorged, beautiful. I kid you not it was like watching a flower bloom in slow motion.
And from most of the guys I've talked to: they like them too. (These days I have no compunction about bringing up these subjects even in mixed company, it's so much more interesting than the weather or football) The thing is, most men are reluctant to admit it because we have been fed a diet of airbrushed, manufactured beauty so to admit to liking something that isn't mainstream is difficult for many. I live in a multi-cultural European capital and there are so many different, adventurous people here, nothing is really 'normal' if you're open minded. Plus of course, not everybody will discuss their girlfriends most intimate bits with their friends.
Now, I'm honestly delighted when I'm with a woman with large lips and if I ever met someone whose lips were abnormally large (2 or 3 inches is not uncommon, I think you'll find) I would take care to still make her feel appreciated and sexy because if she's self-conscious how could I possibly enjoy myself?
But then I'm nice like that. And now I'm very horny too.
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I ceased, for Nature kindly here,
Began to whisper in her ear...
Sheridan 18th Century England
Though each one of us lies wounded and far spent,
With arrowed eyelash sticking in his heart,
We still longed to see that bow your eyebrow bent,
Speeding yet another poisoned dart.
Hafez 13th Century Iran (Trans. Le Galliene)
Edited by ChilliPapaSmurf (04/12/12 07:39 PM)
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Crystal G
Ultimate Scumbag and Douchebag
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ChilliPapaSmurf said:
Don't speak for 'most guys' unless you've spoken to almost every guy you've ever met about this very subject. YOU find it a turn-off; perhaps you are the squeamish sort. (I wonder do you still cut the crusts off your bread? I have theory about fussy eaters being fussy lovers...)
As a teenager I used to think every girl's pussy would look like an unopened flower bud just like every chick in every mainstream porn film I ever saw. But then I actually got a girlfriend. And, lo and behold! this real woman had a real, unique and beautiful pussy between her legs. But she was self-conscious about it. No large lips but a different colour, dark around the edges unlike anywhere else on her body. Fortunately, it being the first pussy I ever got acquainted with I adored it and she relaxed about it in a very short time. Had I been a sneering jerk "Eww, what happened to you?' that shit could have affected her for a long time.
Thank you very much. And I don't like how the original author assumed that "all women like uncircumcised dicks," cause I for one despise the practice of genital mutilation.
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Men who have a fear of women who exert control of their sexualities, know that they wouldn't be able to control or easily manipulate women who are aggressive, dominant, or defiant. Women who refuse to passively cooperate or adhere to stereotypical gender roles. So they use social stigma and social shame and call us "sluts" to try to implant fear and guilt in us, in an effort to control and coerce our behaviors. It is a completely selfish philosophy that stems from the belief that they OWN women.
Thus, me taking control of my sexuality is my big way of saying "FUCK YOU" to the institution, and another "FUCK YOU" to the patriarchy!
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ChilliPapaSmurf
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Crystal G said:
Thank you very much. And I don't like how the original author assumed that "all women like uncircumcised dicks," cause I for one despise the practice of genital mutilation.
You're most welcome. But for the record (please don't anyone keep records) I am genitally mutilated i.e. circumcised. Being muslim it sort of happened when I was 8 or 9 days old. But I'm quite happy with it and thank god women are so goddamned wonderful because I've never heard a word breathed about it. In fact the nicest compliment anyone has ever paid me was that I had a beautiful cock. And no, it isn't porn-star big at all.
Oh and I just came from a charity gig trying end the odious practice of female genital mutilation (though they seemed to have re-labelled it female genital cutting) so I too despise the practice but y'know for men... I have an open mind. Ignore the zealots and the scientific evidence is pretty mixed.
Ha ha, maybe they 're-labiad' the phrase to female genital cutting. Right, I think it's about time I should join some discussions about some fucking drugs or something.
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I ceased, for Nature kindly here,
Began to whisper in her ear...
Sheridan 18th Century England
Though each one of us lies wounded and far spent,
With arrowed eyelash sticking in his heart,
We still longed to see that bow your eyebrow bent,
Speeding yet another poisoned dart.
Hafez 13th Century Iran (Trans. Le Galliene)
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