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Extending your throat – Getting Tipsy– In case you never noticed this about yourself – your throat is not really curved, but straight. Your mouth and throat come together at kind of a sharp L-curve – at least when you are sitting straight up. A man’s penis is straight, but bends a little too. The combination of an L-shaped bend and a straight object going together doesn’t really make sense! It is sort of like trying to shove a straight stick down an L-shaped pipe. In order to perfect Deepthroating, you must learn how to reshape your throat to accept the penis – to get the mouth and the throat to “line up”. How do you do this? Well, if you have ever watched ER or any other medical show and seen how they TIP the head back to put the intubation tube in – you will get the idea.

The easiest way to learn this concept is to lie on your back on your bed, then move your head to the edge and let it naturally fall over the edge! This will provide a much more natural alignment for your toy to extend into your throat. So, while in this position, take your toy and start to move it down into your throat. You should find that it slides down much easier in this position. This is an excellent way to begin.

If you can’t handle being upside down – hey, I understand, I get dizzy too – then you will have to try and force that position by consciously tipping your head back. For me, Deepthroating has become easy in any position because I know that when I begin I have to have my head tipped back. So, if I am on the top, with my hubby lying down, I hover over him and tip my head back as I accept his penis into my throat.

Or, if I am kneeling at his feet I take his penis in my hands and as I get it further down to my throat I tip my head back. This makes it much easier to accept. Whatever position you like to give a blowjob in, it is possible to tilt your head back. Even the famous and popular 69 positions. Use a pillow to put under your neck if YOU are on bottom – this way you can extend your head back. The hardest way to Deepthroat is probably during a 69 with the woman on top – but believe me, you can learn how to do that too – just remember to relax and extend your neck as much as you can to get his penis all the way in.

Don’t hold your breath – While you have the toy down your throat it will seem – especially at first – that you can’t breathe. When you give a normal blowjob you use a combination of your nose and mouth to breathe. When you are Deepthroating, you must learn to breathe out of your nose more. This seems unnatural at first, because our natural instinct when something is shoved into our throat is to gag and hold our breath or to cough.

So, one of the most important techniques to learn is how to breathe while doing the Deepthroat. Here are some pointers: when the toy goes into your throat and pushes past the tonsils – DO NOT PANIC. Simply hold your breath for the few seconds that it is blocking your airway. Then, when you pull out the toy, take a breath – from your mouth. Not only will this give you greater breathing, but the warm, hot air on your man’s penis will excite him tremendously!

In time you will learn how to pattern your breathing with the rhythm of the insertion and it won’t feel so much like you are suffocating! To do this, just repeatedly swallow the toy in and out and practice the breathing as you go. Once you can successfully get the toy down into your throat and continue breathing without gagging – you are ready to advance to a real penis.

Getting over the Gag: If you are a “gagger” – meaning every time something goes into your throat you gag – the mission is to defeat the gag reflex. It is called a “reflex” because the throat wants to expel items which are closing off the windpipe – it is a survival instinct. However, you can overcome this reflex by learning to relax and concentrate on what you are doing. If you are breathing and relaxed the gag reflex will not be so bad.

There really are no super secrets to eliminating or overcoming the gag reflex – simply mind over matter and practice. Therefore, the best way to overcome it is to continually force yourself to accept the toy down your throat. Each time it should get much easier and much better to do. Eventually, your gag reflex will barely be noticeable when giving oral sex. One final tip to overcoming this obstacle is to be aroused! The more aroused and willing we are to pleasure our partner, the easier it is to accomplish this.

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