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 Mr.Monsanto
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 advice on giving girls oral 
#15990104 - 03/24/12 03:51 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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SO I put my face all up in her snatch and lather it up with my tongue and shit, but im lookin at it like  it's some type of alien technology that I'm sure Macgyver couldnt even figure out wtf to do with it.
And sometimes ill suck on that bitch and tongue fuck her but for all the hype about girls bein all like OMFG ORAL SO GOOD i must be doing it wrong cause this shit doesnt even come close to making a pussy purr. After like 10 mins of trying all type of different stuff on it and she's barely even moaning i just want to deliver a spartan death kick straight into that cunt so it learns to appreciate the gentleness and loving touch of my tongue
So what the fuck do guys, where is the magic button i press with my tongue to make her scream for joy. 
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the_drummer
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: Mr.Monsanto] 1
#15990137 - 03/24/12 03:59 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Use your hands as well. Makes it easier on the jaw/tongue so you can go longer/more intense.
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: Mr.Monsanto]
#15990167 - 03/24/12 04:05 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I recommend the video, Entitled "Pussy Eating Lesson" embedded on this forum post http://www.orgasmanic.com/index.php?topic=1003.0 (NSFW) That forum is a general sexuality discussion one. You may need a membership to see that page. Its free.
I learned about that forum from this podcast http://loureads.com/2012/02/11/lou-reads-from-orgasmanic-a-forum-about-general-sex-masturbation-chat/
There is also this video of women discussing what they like on YouTube. Its like being a fly on the wall while ladies talk about sex. Kinda fun.
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: the_drummer]
#15991070 - 03/24/12 08:34 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
the_drummer said:
Use your hands as well.
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XUL
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You know if she is turned on if she is wet.
Start slow and sexy. Girls like that. Kiss your way down her body and kiss her inner thighs. Tease her and make her want it. Start slow and tease her lips. Dont try the ABC thing, just gently lick her clit until she is warmed up. You should also suck on it every now and then. Also insert your toungue into her every now and then.
When she is really wet and ready then slowly tease her with your finger by inserting it. One finger and then two when she warms up.
When she is really going then you should lick her clit while fingering her.
Some girls respond to tapping semi gently on their pussy or even sqeezing it. I think that is for more experience women though..
This always worked for me.
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keyohnah
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: Mr.Monsanto]
#15991699 - 03/24/12 11:32 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Pretttyy sure that "magic button" is called the clitoris.
Also, listen to XUL's post. Solid advice. 
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: keyohnah]
#15992532 - 03/25/12 04:02 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Also, lots of surface area with the tongue. Don't just like poke at the clit with the tip of your tongue. You want to start by basically spreading your tongue over the clit area slowly to get her started.
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: pwnasaurus]
#15992860 - 03/25/12 08:19 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Dont be selfish and spend some xtra time down there if you want her to really like it. I know that's a simple explanation but a very true one. My current hottie loves it and enjoys toys/assplay too. Give and you shall receive my friend.
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: Mr.Monsanto]
#15993355 - 03/25/12 12:10 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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1. dont just dive in start slow, kissing rubbing... essentially getting her all hot and bothered
2. hands...use them on boobies, back, ass, legs, and eventually inside her
3. suck on the clit area, and use lots of tongue all about
4. fingers + mouth combo and your golden
good advice in this thread, had to repeat some!
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Press your lips into her cunt and blow and then shotgun the resulting queef back to your special friend.
On a serious note, lick that butthole, yo.
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Mr. Bojangles
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It's all about the tease. You want her to be dying with anticipation so do like other said and start slow. One thing that works is kissing along the inner thighs hovering over the slit then going back up the other thigh, but that's just one idea amongst sooo many others. Just build up each level.
As far as just general thangs:
When it comes to the clit you want to actually suck. It's kinda sick when you think about it but just like you like getting your dick sucked, the same suction should be there for her clit. Just lock your lips, suck in and flatten your tongue against her clit while you do a sort of stunted lapping motion (sorry, it's kind of hard to explain).
Feel her up! Don't just twist her nipples the entire time either, you gotta be attentive but just get sensual with the hands, feeling around you'll find where she likes them the most (for some its the tits, some its the thighs/ass, some its the sides) but still don't focus solely on that area. "spread the love" 
And finally, when you get to the point when you're gonna add a finger or two into her hotbox, you want to do two things with them...a) curl them upwards, aka the g-spot "come hither" move and b) turn them around and press them down.
Like I said, it's all about teasing her and keeping her begging for the next move. All clits are different too...some girls clits you can absolutely destroy with your tongue and they love it and can get off in no time...others need to take it more slow and careful and will be a good test of your jaw's stamina.
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Black_Sunset
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All the above advice but be passionate about it. You gotta make love to that pussy.
I used to eat it like I was a fucking robotic pussy-eating machine. Lick-lick-lick-lick-lick...*change direction* lick-lick-lick... It worked, and came like 90% of the time...but sometimes it took 10, 15 mintutes!
Now I just go down on it like it and savor it. You gotta touch her, turn her on, and when you get down there tease her. I always start with very a very light touch right before I start like a warm hot breath on it or just a small lick of her clit and then wait a few seconds. Grrls are all about being built up for that stuff!
Just get 100% focused and into it when you've got your mouth in there. Be gently but firm. Vary your pressure and speed. Act like you're making love to it with your mouth. When she thinks you're into it she will be into it
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also, remember that while giving a lot of pressure can feel good, you don't want to over stimulate it and have her lose sensitivity. For example don't lick super hard for very long and don't suck on anything too hard for very long. This is part of the built up and is important so that you do not dig yourself into a hard hole to get out of if your goal is to get those legs wrapped around her head as she writhes in orgasm.
Also, also, there is a huge difference between making her cum and making her cum with her help!
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Edited by Black_Sunset (03/27/12 02:21 AM)
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: XUL]
#16021461 - 03/30/12 11:20 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Every girl I've gone down on has given me props. You gotta slowly work to the pussy, don't rush. Do some foreplay.
Once you get down there be very gentle at first and lick her up and down. Grab her ass while your working or her tits.
Then start to focus on the clit. Use the flat of your tongue, not the tip. Suck on that clit man. And try to lick it while your sucking.
You can work some fingers in her too once your get going. Combo it all together.
You can even dip down and lick her asshole if you want. You can slowly work down there if your not sure if shes cool with it.
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: Wing]
#16028527 - 04/01/12 11:59 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Im so bad at it that my girlfriend literally stops me half way so that she can go to sleep. And yeah, ive tried ALL that stuff you guys just mentioned, my tongue must have the fuckinv consistency of sandpaper or something
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: Wizzy]
#16028589 - 04/01/12 12:18 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Overthinking? Making it awkward? Showing you are really nervous?
Will be that dude.
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: Wing]
#16029058 - 04/01/12 02:35 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Wing said:
Every girl I've gone down on has given me props. You gotta slowly work to the pussy, don't rush. Do some foreplay.
Once you get down there be very gentle at first and lick her up and down. Grab her ass while your working or her tits.
Then start to focus on the clit. Use the flat of your tongue, not the tip. Suck on that clit man. And try to lick it while your sucking.
You can work some fingers in her too once your get going. Combo it all together.
You can even dip down and lick her asshole if you want. You can slowly work down there if your not sure if shes cool with it.
I do basically this with the same response. They all love it.
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Wing
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: pwnasaurus]
#16029153 - 04/01/12 03:04 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Fuck yea.
I guess some people have it and some don't.
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: Wing]
#16032417 - 04/02/12 08:09 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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You've gotten some good tips here so far. It wouldn't hurt to ask her how she likes it orally. A good sex game to play is, show and tell me what you like when I do this...I personally, like my clitoris sucked with the tongue licking upwards, parting the v-lips to get to the clitoris with the tongue. After getting me going suck hard and I'm putty in your embrace.
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Mr.Monsanto
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Yargh I've tried a lot of what has been mentioned in here. The asking what she likes deal has been done on multiple occassions but it doesnt seem to matter much since her answer is always "everything you do feels amazing." It's not that I think I do it badly, I just have trouble making her climax. The first time I have ever, and she has ever had an orgasm was a result of the two finger g-spot rub. I dont even know if she legitimately had an orgasm, but she kept saying I made her teeth and her body vibrate so I guess that's something.
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"Let me mention what I've been thinking
How to save the children, when the ship is sinking
So I'm singing, no lip syncing to slogans
Political hooligans with tanks, missiles and guns
Everything is relative when it's all in the family of man
Understand the time has finally come to realise the great power of one
All formulas equalise under the Sun, amen"
Nujabes & Shing.02
We have the power to change the world when we realize how powerful the hearts and minds of men truly are.
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Re: advice on giving girls oral [Re: Mr.Monsanto] 1
#16034937 - 04/02/12 08:02 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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