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 VisionaryFlicker
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 Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits  [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15963730 - 03/18/12 05:08 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah, that could be. Though it does seem like we dig each other quite a bit. I'm just gonna keep my mouth shut and have fun with her.
On a side note, I gotta remember to keep my mouth shut when I drink. For some reason, lately when I drink I end up doing stupid shit. It's like I get disconnected from the real world and the consequences once the drunk wears off don't mean a thing to me.
You don't necessarily need to hide your sentiments from her. You got to take into account half the people posting here act like they are a hell of a lot harder then they really are. Why do you think every single thread which even MENTIONS a girlfriend ends up getting at least one post suggesting to "kick that bitch to the curb", or suggesting that "she's cheating on you man.".
If you feel like you want to further pursue this, your best shot is telling her, whilst making clear that you're cool with it if she's not ready for that right now. You have made this clear to her; she will or has already considered it, and for the time being you've done all you can. If she doesn't bring it up again, assume she doesn't want anything more and enjoy what you guys have right now.
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: daz01]
#15963794 - 03/18/12 05:32 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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What the fuck was that OP? You say you're fine with just fucking her and good at hiding you're emotions then some posts later you say you told the girl she is more than just a fuck.
You love her already bro?
haha I dunno man, maybe it was that we were drinking wine watching stars in her backyard, telling life stories between make out sessions.
Sounds corny, I know, but I'm not a brick wall to shit like that. It's not that I couldn't hide my emotions, it's that I realized I didn't want to to a degree.
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15964058 - 03/18/12 07:00 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I realized I really dig this girl so I wanted to tell her I'm into her more than just hanging out every once in a while and hooking up.
What else is there? Seems like this is what most people do when they are in a relationship, or when they are FWBs. You hang out and have fun. Then you do it.
What else are you trying to do with this girl? Read her poetry? Do her laundry? Move in with her?
I don't get what else it is you are trying to get out of her. A commitment after two weeks? 
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: Anonymous #4]
#15964123 - 03/18/12 07:19 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I realized I really dig this girl so I wanted to tell her I'm into her more than just hanging out every once in a while and hooking up.
What else is there? Seems like this is what most people do when they are in a relationship, or when they are FWBs. You hang out and have fun. Then you do it.
What else are you trying to do with this girl? Read her poetry? Do her laundry? Move in with her?
I don't get what else it is you are trying to get out of her. A commitment after two weeks?
Good point.
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: Anonymous #4]
#15964177 - 03/18/12 07:36 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah, i wouldn't mind doing those for her. I've already written her a few poems. You guys think i should them to her?
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I realized I really dig this girl so I wanted to tell her I'm into her more than just hanging out every once in a while and hooking up.
What else is there? Seems like this is what most people do when they are in a relationship, or when they are FWBs. You hang out and have fun. Then you do it.
What else are you trying to do with this girl? Read her poetry? Do her laundry? Move in with her?
I don't get what else it is you are trying to get out of her. A commitment after two weeks?
Yeah, I wouldn't mind doing all of those things. I even wrote her some poetry. You guys think I should show it to her?
But yeah, good point.
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#15964366 - 03/18/12 08:27 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah, i wouldn't mind doing those for her. I've already written her a few poems. You guys think i should them to her?
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I realized I really dig this girl so I wanted to tell her I'm into her more than just hanging out every once in a while and hooking up.
What else is there? Seems like this is what most people do when they are in a relationship, or when they are FWBs. You hang out and have fun. Then you do it.
What else are you trying to do with this girl? Read her poetry? Do her laundry? Move in with her?
I don't get what else it is you are trying to get out of her. A commitment after two weeks?
Yeah, I wouldn't mind doing all of those things. I even wrote her some poetry. You guys think I should show it to her?
But yeah, good point.
You should, but you should incorporate into one of the poems a request for anal.
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: VisionaryFlicker] 2
#15964377 - 03/18/12 08:29 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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No, but seriously. Writing poetry for girls is the gayest shit I've ever heard. If I were a girl, and some dude would write me poetry, I would just start getting a gag reflex, and hopefully vomit all over this dude's smug gay-face.
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: rodfarva]
#15967555 - 03/19/12 04:17 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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i had a friends with benefits once
now we live together and say i love you
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: t00th] 1
#15967587 - 03/19/12 04:23 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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i had a friends with benefits once
now we live together and say i love you
during that time she fucked black guys though.
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#15976495 - 03/21/12 03:30 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Update: So the other night her and I were drinking some wine and beer,talking and hanging out on a blanket in her backyard. After a little while we went back into her room.
Then something hit me as we were laying on her bed...I said, ' I gotta tell you something'... ' I don't think of you as just a fuck buddy or anything'.
She asked, 'What do you mean?'
I kinda fumbled with my words for a while but then by the end my thoughts became a bit clearer and I said, 'Well, I'm cool with things how they are right now--not serious and all--but I'm not just here to hangout and hookup...I really like being around you'.
It worked out pretty well, I think. She said, ' I really really like you.... and it scares me. I just got out of a relationship, and I dunno, it's complicated...' Then she kinda started fumbling with her words and said, 'yeah I dunno how to explain it'.
So I said said, 'cool, yeah we both don't really know how to explain it'. Then we had another heated love making session.
I don't know, what do you guys think? I realized I really dig this girl so I wanted to tell her I'm into her more than just hanging out every once in a while and hooking up. Kinda took a gamble but it seems to have worked out okay. But still, it may have been better to leave these things unsaid. We haven't talked or hung out since that night, so I guess I'll see how things are feeling when we do. Also, keep in mind we've only known each other about 2 weeks.
Shes definitely most likely still fucking her ex man...food for thought
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: Anonymous #6]
#15977817 - 03/21/12 08:38 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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definitely if he's developing feelings, but otherwise carry on! 
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: Deekay]
#15977953 - 03/21/12 09:09 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Ehh, thanks people, but actually the dude lives 'round 20 hrs a way now.
And yes, I shall carry on!
Edited by Anonymous (03/21/12 09:10 PM)
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15980431 - 03/22/12 11:32 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Fuck, I had my ex over yesterday. But it was kind of a surprise and I did not have a condom, she did not want to go without. Could have been the best sex ever had, fuck.
Leaving was awkward, she promised me she will never do this again, I was like wtf. I did not actually feel anything about her, and was acting all cold all the time, so I did not know how to respond either. Except that now I feel really shit.
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: Anonymous #7]
#15981143 - 03/22/12 02:39 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Fuck, I had my ex over yesterday. But it was kind of a surprise and I did not have a condom, she did not want to go without. Could have been the best sex ever had, fuck.
Leaving was awkward, she promised me she will never do this again, I was like wtf. I did not actually feel anything about her, and was acting all cold all the time, so I did not know how to respond either. Except that now I feel really shit.
I know that feel bro
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Please don't read her poetry... Is she hot? WHY NOT JUST KEEP FUCKING HER!? Soon as you make it exclusive is when SHTF... What more are you going to do once you are in a relationship? See each others parents!? :barf:
Honestly, if you keep your mouth shut, it will keep your dick wet.
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: SoreSpore]
#15986077 - 03/23/12 04:10 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah, I was just kidding about the poetry. And yeah, I find her pretty sexy.
The only thing I'd kinda like to do is see her more, but since she said she doesn't want anything serious, I figure it's best to give her a good amount of space...
And yeah, definitely going to keep my mouth shut from here on out...enjoy the ride. Good news is she hit me up last night and invited me out for tonight.
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Re: I guess I got my first friends with benefits [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15986550 - 03/23/12 06:15 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah, I was just kidding about the poetry. And yeah, I find her pretty sexy.
The only thing I'd kinda like to do is see her more, but since she said she doesn't want anything serious, I figure it's best to give her a good amount of space...
And yeah, definitely going to keep my mouth shut from here on out...enjoy the ride. Good news is she hit me up last night and invited me out for tonight.
That's and idea. Do stuff other than sex with her, like go out for dinner and shit. Soon you'll have coerced her into a relationship avant la lettre.
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Anonymous #4
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Yeah, I was just kidding about the poetry. And yeah, I find her pretty sexy.
The only thing I'd kinda like to do is see her more, but since she said she doesn't want anything serious, I figure it's best to give her a good amount of space...
And yeah, definitely going to keep my mouth shut from here on out...enjoy the ride. Good news is she hit me up last night and invited me out for tonight.
Do stuff other than sex with her, like go out for dinner and shit. Soon you'll have coerced her into a relationship avant la lettre.
haha!
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