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 Jewel
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 confused.... 
#15935756 - 03/12/12 01:07 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I've been in a long relationship with Joolz, we have a baby on the way I'm 5 months. An I'm happy for the most part, but a couple days ago I found that he was lying to me, on a subject that may sound alittle childish but it hurt me, he tells me he loves me, tells me I'm so beautiful everyday an that he wants to spend his life with me. But I caught him with porn..... ._. It pissed me off bad bc I thought I would be enough for him not to do that.... I love him with all my heart an I know an understand that I'm young but he knows the shit I've been threw with other guys. An I tend to always think guys will cheat on me bc I've literally been fucked up in the head by all the past ex's. I just don't know what to do honestly. We fight pretty much every day or every other day :\ but we subside an forgive an forget. But how in the world do you sit there an just take someone in ur face screaming not letting me say any opinion. Then I just start to scream which he knows damn well that it isn't good for me to scream bc of the baby.. How do you get threw to ppl that do this to you :|
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Jwlst
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 Re: confused.... [Re: Jewel]
#15935784 - 03/12/12 01:17 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Take his porn away and make it clear he is only allowed to have sexual interaction with nothing else but you. Solid plan little miss, I am sure it will make the idea of other woman less exciting, exotic and taboo to him. Afterall, we couldn't expect you to compete with those digusting whores could we. 
Maybe instead you could put in a little more effort in the bedrom in exchange for him not watching porn? He will still do it though, just that he will keep it better hidden from you so you keep up the good work. Out of sight out of mind hey? Sounds good to me, should be good for you too.
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Re: confused.... [Re: Jwlst]
#15935989 - 03/12/12 02:36 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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His parents couldn't keep him from porn for 20-some-odd years and neither will you. Masturbation in combination with porn is quick and convenient when you just need to get your mind off of it. Its not a competition and its silly to be hurt over it in my opinion
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Jewel
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who are you
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Re: confused.... [Re: Jewel]
#15936103 - 03/12/12 03:44 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Who the fuck are you?
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Uzziel
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Troll post?
If not. Get over yourself. It is just porn. Doesn't mean anything. Probably doesn't find your huge belly a big turn on right now.
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Re: confused.... [Re: Uzziel]
#15936238 - 03/12/12 05:14 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
Who the fuck are you?
You posted anonymously and OP is (for all we know) new here. Cut her some slack dude.
Also, this:
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Uzziel said:
Troll post?
If not. Get over yourself. It is just porn. Doesn't mean anything.[snip]
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Joolz
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Jewel isn't lying. We are together and she is with-child. As for the porn, I never used it for masturbation. It was simply the woman's thread in the Pub, which I went to multiple times out of boredom and just looking at the artsy naked ladies.
We already had a fight about how she feels about porn. What she found was a previous time I entered the woman's thread. Even though it had been quite a while (multiple weeks) since I had looked at anything naked besides her, we still had a big fight over it.
Now I understand the terms and this will not be an issue again.
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His parents couldn't keep him from porn for 20-some-odd years and neither will you. Masturbation in combination with porn is quick and convenient when you just need to get your mind off of it. Its not a competition and its silly to be hurt over it in my opinion
Ha, nothing but wanking it daily from ages 12-18 could keep me from masturbating. No, before Jewel and I even got together I had already become completely desensitized and uninterested in masturbation. I had gotten to the point that I'd just go without cumming, because my hand was bullshit and I was tired of using it. I just visited the woman's thread to see the artsy bullshit that they try to put it in there out of boredom.
Masturbation is just a cumshot into a towel. I don't like wasting my semen in such a hollow fashion anymore. Don't worry honey, you're gettin' all of it. 
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Jewel
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 Re: confused.... [Re: Uzziel]
#15936424 - 03/12/12 07:31 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Thanks but no thanks, for your info we have great sex, we fuck more times in 30mins than rabbits fuck.
You are a very rude person an I could care less what you said, if you want to point anyone out your pathetic
an most likely old an fat and lonely, you don't have to take what I say to heart bc that's how everyone I know one here
says about you including Joolz.
but thanks anyway for ur invalid statement. Uzziel or wtf name you call your self.
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Jewel
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Re: confused.... [Re: Jewel]
#15936427 - 03/12/12 07:35 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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 Ohh you bet baby :-)
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koraks
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Re: confused.... [Re: Jewel]
#15936428 - 03/12/12 07:36 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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No need to get rude in return Jewel.
Joolz, good luck with the lady. And the kid. See you around!
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Enlil
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Re: confused.... [Re: Jewel]
#15936512 - 03/12/12 08:41 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Jewel said:
Thanks but no thanks, for your info we have great sex, we fuck more times in 30mins than rabbits fuck.
You are a very rude person an I could care less what you said, if you want to point anyone out your pathetic
an most likely old an fat and lonely, you don't have to take what I say to heart bc that's how everyone I know one here
says about you including Joolz.
but thanks anyway for ur invalid statement. Uzziel or wtf name you call your self.
Just a word of caution..You need to get past this issue...
He WILL return to porn. There is no question. It isn't cheating on you. I realize that you are insecure about the whole thing right now, but you have to let time create more confidence in the relationship. If not, he will simply hide his porn from you and feel like he has a dirty secret. That can and does poison relationships.
Understand that to a man, having sex with a woman is not a substitute for masturbation and sexual fantasy. We love sex, and we love sexual fantasy...they aren't equivalent...we can do things in sexual fantasy that we could never do in real life...either because it's illegal, hard to attain, or simply physically impossible...bottom line...you have to accept this about your man. It doesn't mean he loves you any less.
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Re: confused.... [Re: koraks]
#15936546 - 03/12/12 09:11 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Joolz, good luck with the lady. And the kid. See you around!
Oh, we'll see him around... in a post about how his woman drove him away with her unreasonable demands and insecurities.
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OP, does your boyfreind jump your ass for reading a love novel? Well, he should start. It's the same thing, is his affection not enough so you have to read about how "fabio passionately pushed his" whatever? Quit being insecure. Would he jump your ass for looking at flowers? He's not even watching porn(according to him) its just pics, got what would happen if he was actually watching people fuck? My G/F don't stop me from watching porn, and she watches it too sometimes. Am I jealous of her looking at all those 9 inch long dicks? no, sex isn't a relationship anyway, you can have sex with no relationship, or you can have a relationship with no sex, they are 2 different things
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Re: confused.... [Re: Jewel] 1
#15936627 - 03/12/12 09:53 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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This thread delivers.
@Op good luck in your relationship... your gonna need it.
No offense but I think you are acting childish / immaturely - I would never be with my partner if there were crazy demands like these
Edited by tymoteusz3 (03/12/12 09:53 AM)
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Dark_Star
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 everyone looks at porn! It doesn't mean anything. OP, it sounds like you have some pretty serious insecurity issues that you need to look at & work on. Until you do so none of your relationships will end well. Good luck, and congrats on the baby.
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Re: confused.... [Re: Jewel]
#15937144 - 03/12/12 12:53 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Jewel said:
we fuck more times in 30mins than rabbits fuck.
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keyohnah
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Wait, what exactly is wrong with him watching porn? You sound a little bit on the crazy girlfriend side.
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Jewel
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Ok umm first off all of ya'll can fuck off. 2nd you don't know shit, me an him obviously resolved it. So thanks but know thanks 
OOOoh!! And BTW there's different opinions for different ppl am I correct? Yes indeed I am, so regardless what I say
on here its going to go in one ear out the other......
3rd, and for most. Its me an his relationship not your relationship, ya'll might of handle it differently than me an or his stand point, do ya'll have any clue worth wild that ya'll could of had a good relationships with out any fucking fighting, No... I'm sorry. Not one fucking marriage, relationship has ever not fighted about something, all the way done to some argument about something stupid. What I'm trying to say is me an him had a silly fucking fight, we got over it. So why don't yall....? Can you not tell that we resolved it? If not your probably one of those ppl that sit in front of the screen like 20 hours of the day budding there or so called your nose into other ppls relationships bc you can't get you own. 
sorry for being a bit moody in it but shit come on get some pride an stick you nose into shit that ain't resolved..
thank you good day to all.
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koraks
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Re: confused.... [Re: Jewel]
#15940934 - 03/13/12 05:24 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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 This thread has been closed.
Reason:
Well, sorry to 'stick our noses' into your business, but for the record, YOU opened a thread about this issue, and then when you encounter opinions that you obviously don't like, you lash around like great injustice was done to you.
And concerning the 'not getting your own': I bless myself with a very happy relationship with a super cool chick who's sexually challenging, inventive and who isn't so insecure that a little porn watching throws her off-kelter.
I really wonder why you came here looking for advice when clearly, you aren't capable of dealing with the responses you get.
Anyway, have a nice life. Good bye.
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