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Accidentally saying "i love you"
#15894386 - 03/03/12 02:02 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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This has happened to me twice. The first time was with my boyfriend of 4 months and what I meant to say was "I love your dick" ( ) but instead I said "I love you". It was a complete Freudian slip, I really didnt mean to say it.
Then last night with my FWB we were joking around when he called me "turd" (we are childish sometimes) and I said "I love you when you call me turd" but I meant to say "I love it when you call me turd". We didnt talk about it afterwards.
So has this happened to anyone else? what the fuckkkkkkkkkk
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#15894423 - 03/03/12 02:17 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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A few times I have gotten so used to saying I love you to my wife that at work on the phone I have said it before hanging up... very strange feeling lol.
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15894429 - 03/03/12 02:19 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Yep girlfriend snuck it in at the end of a conversation and I said it back not even realizing it. Not a very fun situation to be in.
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Anonymous #2] 1
#15894467 - 03/03/12 02:28 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Once when in high school i was hangin out with this chick. She had made all the moves, I was just down to chill with a girl. Took her home at the end of the day and walked her up to the door(Rico Suave shit yeesss). Meant to say I'll see you later but I love you slipped out She just smiled and walked inside lol. Couple weeks later I found out she had a boyfriend two hours away
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Divinity]
#15895194 - 03/03/12 05:43 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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What does Fwd mean?
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: vandago]
#15895246 - 03/03/12 05:55 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: vandago] 2
#15895848 - 03/03/12 08:28 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
vandago said: What does Fwd mean?
Front Wheel Drive
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: vandago]
#15895888 - 03/03/12 08:38 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
vandago said: What does Fwd mean?
Well in the world of cars it means front wheel drive.
Ah, someone beat me to it while i left my comp sitting here lol. O well.
Edited by Horribla (03/03/12 08:39 PM)
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#15896255 - 03/03/12 10:03 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I called a teacher one evening when I was in seventh grade to ask her about an assignment. (I went to a private school that year so it was a really small class). After she explained everything to me and we were saying goodbye I accidentally said "love you" as we were hanging up. I still remember the sensation of awkwardness that lingered in my brain for hours after. I think my brain got into the mode like I was talking to my mom so it was habit to say it.
Later I found out this teacher used to be a jizz mopper on a porno set in CA(she straight up told us in class, I have no idea why, and she actually used the term "jizz mopper"!!!!). This was pretty strange since the school was operated by a radical religious cult. Telling her I loved her over the phone was still way more awkward than finding this out though.
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#15896684 - 03/03/12 11:47 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I know this isn't very common, but around here people usually shout "thank you" to the bus driver as they're exiting the bus. Once, my and my girlfriend were exiting the back door of a bus, and I said to her that I loved her, as she was about to yell up to the bus driver. She ended up accidentally yelling "I love you" to the bus driver. 
It was pretty awesome.
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: HeavyToilet]
#15904186 - 03/05/12 05:18 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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when i worked retail twice when people were leaving i'd say "thank you" and they would say "i love you too".
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Cloud9]
#15904649 - 03/05/12 06:43 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Ooops. Lol.
Its hard but I avoid such sematics, cause as you obviously know, it's dangerously close the those words you are not allowed to say in these FWB situations.
For instance, last night I wanted to text "I love kissing your lips." Implying there is something about her that I love (if not all of it). I instead wrote, "I want to kiss you a little more right now."
She's done it to me too. Once she just plainly said "I love you" after I made a joke and we were kissing. She quickly backpedaled, by adding "not like that! you know, just like, a friend." And quickly left.
Funny, thing is, I think she's falling in love with me. And I've been in love with her for a while now.
Soooo, your in love with your FWB? That's kinda cute. What are you going to do about it?
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15906040 - 03/05/12 10:47 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I don't think I love him. I first met him a year ago and then a year went by with us not really talking (he wanted to bang but I wasnt feeling it at that time, I just thought he was a huge nerd haha I really think he looks like Bill Gates when he wears glasses) and then a few weeks ago we reconnected and I went over to his place the next night and it was amazing. I think I like him for his stability, he has his shit together, a career, a place, plus a nice sized dick with hugeeeeeeeee balls. Now we've been seeing eachother twice a week.
Its so strange and wonderful how each relationship is different and how love feels and is expressed in different ways. My previous affair was a crazy rollercoaster of really shitty times together and then really great passionate times. It always seems to balance out, but with different levels of ups and downs.
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15907790 - 03/06/12 08:53 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Lol...all this drama about three simple words...
Who cares if you said it? Accidental or not, they're just words...it isn't like "love" is some epic threshold that people cross...You're bound to love many people and fall in love with lots of others, and there is nothing permanent or ominous about it. People like to believe that love is something different...something more important or special...but I've loved many women..some for a very short time...some for longer..
Say it...Don't say it...it doesn't matter.
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Enlil]
#15908514 - 03/06/12 12:46 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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It does matter because people get sketched out by that sort of talk. And it matters because it is a very meaningful word.
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Enlil]
#15913388 - 03/07/12 12:48 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Viveka]
#15914046 - 03/07/12 03:35 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Edited by Anonymous (03/08/12 03:44 AM)
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15914326 - 03/07/12 04:45 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I was with a girl I just met last weekend and we had a great night together. As I was leaving to go home, I felt the words coming to my mouth. Haha, was kinda drunk, but luckily I managed to stop myself. It would have been really weird.
I dunno, guess after getting done with an intimate situation like that it just came naturally?
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Anonymous #4]
#15914445 - 03/07/12 05:19 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Seems like something everyone should be able to have a laugh over in any normal situation. Shit slips out of my lips all the time.
Kinda frustrating when you can't say what you mean. There should be now harm in saying "i love kissing you." Instead a "really like" will suffice even though they mean the same damn thing.
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Re: Accidentally saying "i love you" [Re: Enlil] 1
#15917499 - 03/08/12 04:09 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Enlil said: Lol...all this drama about three simple words...
Who cares if you said it? Accidental or not, they're just words...it isn't like "love" is some epic threshold that people cross...You're bound to love many people and fall in love with lots of others, and there is nothing permanent or ominous about it. People like to believe that love is something different...something more important or special...but I've loved many women..some for a very short time...some for longer..
Say it...Don't say it...it doesn't matter.
Alright folks, I went ahead and took one for the team so to speak. You'll notice my most recent post above was edited away, along with the one below which I suppose was an offended reply, though I never saw it.
I posted one single word, that's all, perhaps you can guess what it was, though it doesn't really matter. The point was to counter the quoted statement above that words are "just words". If that's the case then why did my posting of one single word generate a second apparently inappropriate response, a deletion of two posts and a ban warning, lol?
People make that mistake sometimes, saying words are just words, no thang. Even Frank Zappa said that and he's a downright hero of humanity. But it's clearly not true. Words carry immense impact. Largely because people are for the most part incapable of being impersonal. In fact, society trains and incentivizes us to look for opportunities to be offended or otherwise impacted by the words of others.
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