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 Coldfusion
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 Anger issues? 
#15806617 - 02/14/12 12:26 AM (3 months, 13 days ago) |
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I've been dating a girl for around three months now.
She is amazing and I've never been happier, but lately I've been
getting incredibly angry at her for stupid stuff. I'm a very jealous
person, and when she hangs out with guys that i know like her or did
like her, even in a group setting, I get incredibly pissed.
I get angrier than I've ever been in my life and i just want to get
in a fight with someone or punch a wall. I never used to get like this, and sometimes its about dumb stuff. Once she accidently called me
by her ex's name and I flew off the handle.
Anyone else doing this? I don't know what I can do to control myself.
I'm worried i'll accidently hurt her or someone random. If she gets me mad I always end up hurting her feelings and feeling terrible later.
I know she would never cheat on me, but my last relationship was really terrible.
I've never had anger problems before this, and i don't know why i'm getting so mad.
--TLDNR---
I've been getting really mad at my girl for stupid stuff. Help with anger issues?
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Argh can't you guys quit your adolescent faggotry?
Metaphorically jacking eachothers unusually broad penisses.[/quote]
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 koraks
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Sounds like you have some self esteem/insecurity issues. How come your last relationship was so terrible? And in what respect(s) is your current gf different?
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Admiral Ackbar
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You need help.
She might end up leaving you because your outbursts might scare her off.
I used to get jealous of tampons. You just have to let go, realize that nothing is permanent, and that you will not have her or want her forever. Everything is temporary, so enjoy it while you can.
You should not get angry when other kids want to play with your toys.
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Coldfusion
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 Re: Anger issues? [Re: koraks]
#15806657 - 02/14/12 12:46 AM (3 months, 13 days ago) |
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My last relationship was a friends with benefits kinda thing.
I really liked the girl and wanted to date her, but she was using me and said she wanted to keep it a secret.
(I know, it was stupid. never bring emotions into FWBs. I tried not to but she started it.)
Then she knew how jealous i was and told me all about her getting hit on and going on dates with guys. Then she never ended it. just let it slowly end by never seeing me when i didn't know what was going on.
This is an actual relationship, and we are crazy about each other. Everything goes perfectly with her and it's usually amazing just being around her. She tells me all the time how lucky she is to have me, etc.
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[quote]Anonymous #6 said:
Argh can't you guys quit your adolescent faggotry?
Metaphorically jacking eachothers unusually broad penisses.[/quote]
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koraks
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Quote:
Coldfusion said:
She tells me all the time how lucky she is to have me, etc.
Then just believe what she says and feel confident about the whole thing 
Jealousy in relationships often comes from the possibility of the other person cheating on you. If someone wants to cheat on you, then there are always ample opportunities. There's nothing much you can do about it. You can either let that drive you crazy, or you can accept this simple fact and rely on the honesty of your partner. In a trustful relationship, that's the best you can do.
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Kid_Orgo
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Re: Anger issues? [Re: koraks]
#15811626 - 02/14/12 11:56 PM (3 months, 12 days ago) |
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Quote:
koraks said:
If someone wants to cheat on you, then there are always ample opportunities.
And the best way to piss someone off enough to cheat on you is to act crazy jealous.
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rustyeffect
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Re: Anger issues? [Re: Kid_Orgo]
#15814090 - 02/15/12 02:42 PM (3 months, 12 days ago) |
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It's called growing the fuck up. You should look into it, and maybe your relationships would actually benefit you.
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Edited by œȾȿȝȴɧʢǥ (ȏɟ/ȿɮ/ɷɖ 68:82 PM)
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daz01
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Quote:
Coldfusion said:
Anyone else doing this? I don't know what I can do to control myself.
I'm worried i'll accidently hurt her or someone random.
Or, most likely YOU'RE going to piss the wrong person off and get hurt because of your silly temper tantrums.
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