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 Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love  [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15760364 - 02/04/12 03:46 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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---My lack of self esteem really is fucking with my head.
Here's an idea, make it fuck with her head. Make her feel like your soo vulnerable from the original break up, and how you accidently picked the wrong girl when you just knew you should've picked her first, biggest mistake of your life you say. Then after you've tricked her into falling for you, Be in love and stay in love(just with her now), sometimes you gotta trick the person who's meant for you if they're blind to love.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15760580 - 02/04/12 04:38 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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So you're saying, amongst other things, that despite her saying she's not necessarily looking for a mutually exclusive relationship, that I should still not have sex with any other girls, to demonstrate my devotion?
I could be completely misinterpreting your words, though.
I like the suggestion of making it clear to her that I view it as a BIG mistake that I didn't choose her over her sister from the start! It's true!
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15760902 - 02/04/12 05:51 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I really got the feeling that she only said that because she realized you weren't for her and her alone. You said the very same night you two were to talk things over and see what was to be done, you were lollygaggin with the other two girls. After she heard about that she would be loco to want to be in an exlusive relationship with you, cause you were all over the place. You see? Imo brother you blew it, and blew it big. I don't think theres even a chance anymore you two will be more than sex-friends. I know it was an unknown situation b/c IF her sis found out, so you prolly thought eh what the hell, its not 100% known anyway. Thats the way it works sometimes, you gotta have faith and when you act by that faith she and you will know it and your feelings will be purely for her, she would see that.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15760982 - 02/04/12 06:11 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
I really got the feeling that she only said that because she realized you weren't for her and her alone. You said the very same night you two were to talk things over and see what was to be done, you were lollygaggin with the other two girls. After she heard about that she would be loco to want to be in an exlusive relationship with you, cause you were all over the place. You see? Imo brother you blew it, and blew it big. I don't think theres even a chance anymore you two will be more than sex-friends. I know it was an unknown situation b/c IF her sis found out, so you prolly thought eh what the hell, its not 100% known anyway. Thats the way it works sometimes, you gotta have faith and when you act by that faith she and you will know it and your feelings will be purely for her, she would see that.
Holy shit man, I think you may be right..! That didn't even occur to me, that her wanting something non-exclusive may have been a direct result of what I did...! I don't think all his lost, I'm confident I can rewin her trust.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15761087 - 02/04/12 06:38 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Go for it bro, if its love that is the most beautiful expression of the universe, be dead honest with her, even if you sound stupid and stumble on your words, girls love when men are honest. Be real, and tell her what you think/feel about her.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15761772 - 02/04/12 09:32 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I was in this exact same position (as the x's sister) except my sister and him broke up years before we happened. We are still together... it's been 6 or 7 years. The first years were emotionally taxing, the sister issues were there but it eventually died off. I think you guys should play it cool for as long as possible. Keep it a secret for as long as you can.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: lillFish]
#15762716 - 02/05/12 01:58 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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That original post was heart warming, that sounds like the best night ever! 
Pursue that shit brother 
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: c1dh3d]
#15764667 - 02/05/12 04:55 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I no longer expect you guys´ sympathy from here onwards. I did the stupidest thing and I hate myself for it.
Yesterday I was hanging out at an old fling of mine, and some friends. I ended up sleeping over there, and telling sister about it. I assured her that I wouldn´t sleep with her, and sis said "ok, I trust you."
I did the most horrible thing, and I broke that trust. I did sleep with her.
I think we woke up her friend, who was sleeping in the bed. We probably did. I´m so scared she´ll tell other people about it and sis will find out.. I feel I´ve completely fucked up something really beautiful, because I like sis more every day.
I feel like such a fucking idiot, I´m at a loss of what to do. Telling sister isn´t an option, because this time she´ll NEVER forgive me.
On the other hand, a lot of my friends tell me this kind of stuff will ALWAYS become known someway or another...
What I plan to do now is tell the girl friend of the girl I slept with (who probably noticed) the FULL story, the fact that there´s something going on between me and sis and that I "cheated" on her, and explain to her that Sis really does mean a lot to me, and I will never do something like this again. And then beg her not to tell anyone else about, including sis.
(you dont have to tell me I'm an asshole, I already fucking know)
It really seemed she gave me another chance, by saying she loved me and she trusted me. And I blew it so fucking bad...
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15764690 - 02/05/12 04:59 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Goddamn, I don't think I've ever felt this guilty in my life..
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15764861 - 02/05/12 05:46 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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On the brighter side of things, you banged two sisters in what, practically the same day?
Someday high fives will be had over this, thats a feat not many of us can claim to have done. It may feel bad now, but someday you will look back upon this and think it was pretty cool I bet.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: c1dh3d]
#15765079 - 02/05/12 06:42 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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She found out. She says she's not going to give me another chance. FUCK!!!!!
I'm such a stupid fucking asshole, I've never felt for anyone what I feel for her and now I've fucked it up beyond repair.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15765216 - 02/05/12 07:17 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Fuck, if I had a gun or a lot of GHB I'd kill myself.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15765226 - 02/05/12 07:21 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Time heals everything, give it some time, she will give you another chance.
Women are not the end of the world, the sweetest girl I'd ever met cheated on me two months ago, and although it sucks bad I know she isn't the end of my life.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: c1dh3d]
#15765316 - 02/05/12 07:47 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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After my ex, whom I could never trust I got together with this girl... and finally everything was different, we had an emotional connection and I could trust her completely. And then I became the one that fucked everything up, the one that couldn't be trusted.
I'm going to a party with JUST her and no other friends coming friday. I wont contact her again until the day before that, and I'm going to do my absolute best to convince her of my love for her and for her to give me another chance.
(thanks by the way, cidhed, for not being judgmental and for your support. It's really what I need right now)
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15765341 - 02/05/12 07:54 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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She doesn't even wanna stay friends. Not only was she one of my best friends before, but she is also a social hub. Without her friendship I suddenly have barely any friends left. Fuck this sucks.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15765565 - 02/05/12 08:43 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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She just sent me this heartbreaking shit (translated from dutch)
"You're the second boy I've ever told I loved him, and in about 1 week you've managed to fuck it up twice"
I feel so goddamn sorry.
I am dead set on winning back her trust, if it's the last thing I do.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15765631 - 02/05/12 09:01 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I feel like she's gonna forgive me eventually.
I just told her I would be so happy if she could forgive me, so that I could be a good boyfriend to her, and not a slut and an asshole.
She then said thats how she feels about me at the moment, and probably for SOME TIME TO COME.
If she does forgive me I WILL NOT let her trust be in vain, I'll be the best man I can for her.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15765764 - 02/05/12 09:33 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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My god this situation is so fucked up it's getting to be amusing:
I was just telling my ex's best friend that I enjoyed hanging out with her on the GHB, and she copied and pasted this message to my ex's sister (not knowing there was anything going on between us)
Ex's sister got angry, and decided to call up my ex's best friend to tell her about everything that happened.
I suspect strongly ex's best friend is going to tell my ex, at which time shit is really going to hit the fan.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15765769 - 02/05/12 09:34 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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The morale of the story is: don't fuck around with your ex's sister, I guess.
This couldn't have had a more negative impact on my life.
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Re: ex-girlfriends sister and I are overwhelmingly in love [Re: VisionaryFlicker]
#15765809 - 02/05/12 09:44 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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You get from life, what you put into it.
It appears you loaded yours with crap.
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