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VisionaryFlicker said:
You should keep fucking the other girl. That would be propah badass.
I dont feel like I should, but it would be badass...
it is not possibe tough because I already told her im going back with my girl, she was pissed off
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You should keep fucking the other girl. That would be propah badass.
I dont feel like I should, but it would be badass...
it is not possibe tough because I already told her im going back with my girl, she was pissed off
this guy
If you felt the least bit bad about it, that wouldn't be on your mind.
You should tell girl #1 that you're an asshole and that she should save her heart from being broken again. Then you should get out of her life.
Oh yeah and fuck you, you had me actually thinking that you cared about how they feel.
Edited by AUX (01/19/12 07:58 PM)
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 Re: Im confessing I cheated  [Re: AUX]
#15688586 - 01/19/12 04:37 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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For real OP you apology was just as bad as the initial lie, you feel you have feelings for your ex?
I agree with dude, all you wanted was to clear a guilty conscience you don't care for either girl, =\
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Tell girl number two you changed your mind, then fuck both. And if possible, nr 2s sister.
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Re: Im confessing I cheated [Re: qman]
#15691414 - 01/20/12 05:34 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Ask them if you can have both, it's not cheating if they consent to the plan. Some cultures embrace the man having multiple women, I say you are doing a good job with this so far, men love variety.
Hey, that's a practical solution that is totally in touch with how these women in particular will experience what they will find out. 
There's a difference between making a mutual decision together regarding what to do going forward and having made that decision for oneself and then later revealing to the other that you've been engaging in that all along.
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Re: Im confessing I cheated [Re: tymoteusz3]
#15691431 - 01/20/12 05:46 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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You caused incredible hurt to that girl now for no reason. She didn't kneed to know that. It didn't make anything better than making you feel better.
No, the point at which he created this hurt and struggle for the woman was in the moment that he cheated on her, not when he decided to tell her. Your view that the only thing it made better was the way he feels with himself is shortsighted. What, a month passed? How do you think it would be for her to find out five years later, by happenstance? Much worse for her. How about if she had suspicions that something was happening, but opted to trust him and not look further into it? That fucks with her sense of how to take care of herself, and if she does find out, it'll be much worse for her because she made that choice wrongly. The point of view you're espousing here is that not taking responsibility for one's mistakes is the better alternative simply because the other person will be hurt by the fact that you made that mistake. It isn't honest, and having something like that unspoken will always maintain a sense of separation from the other that will never be resolved without being honest - but, again, try doing that years later.
Do you think it's better to never tell a 50 year old that they will die of cancer in a few months? Hey, it'll only hurt them to know the truth.
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Yeah well im having lots of problems with my actual girlfriend out of this shit....
the other girl hates me and never want to see me again :S
I did so bad to both of them.. I think I deserve to be single forever
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dude. its fine. i know where you're coming from. but really there is no god. and he doesnt have a big book weighing up all the good and bad shit you did. these posts on the shroomery are not 'evidence' and us shroomerites are not 'witnesses' for your 'case'... nope. i know thats what you're thinking, but fortunately no god, heaven or hell. phew...
unfortunately for you you are an asshole and unlike the chicks you sort of are stuck with yourself until your body decays into fertilizer. 
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Re: Im confessing I cheated [Re: quinn]
#15717221 - 01/25/12 07:18 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I broke up with my girlfriend for good altough she forgive me my infidelity.. she deserves better than me honestly I cant change soon and we both need to move on.
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Time to find some more hippie chicks and have a drug-enhanced threesome again. 
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 That takes character. Too many people would try and sweep it under the rug. You will be a stronger person from this ordeal
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Time to find some more hippie chicks and have a drug-enhanced threesome again.
hahahaha you got me!!!
actually those hippie chicks are involved in my infidelitiy.... I was still dating one of them.... actually I saw her yesterday.... the mood was kinda like I could have fucked her vibes but I kept my head and did not continue to make illusions on her, and tell her that we should be slow.. because I was getting kinda horny vibes and I.. I dont want broken feelings and I dont want to be like every other guy that would say anything just to score... altoug i am being like that and being like that in the past... I really want to change and make strong long lasting friendships, I dont want to be a sex fiend anymore... damn I love women argghh
I dont want to get people hurt anymore at least maybe I should tell her we should see each other have a nice conversation and then bone??? i love boning girls but i dont want hurt feelings. maybe i should be celibacy
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hurt feelings. maybe i should be celibacy
I wouldn't recommend that; no reason to deprive yourself of something you enjoy. Sex itself doesn't equate into hurt feelings anyhow.
Also, you can't be celibacy. You could be celibate, or you could embrace celibacy... 
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hurt feelings. maybe i should be celibacy
I wouldn't recommend that; no reason to deprive yourself of something you enjoy. Sex itself doesn't equate into hurt feelings anyhow.
Also, you can't be celibacy. You could be celibate, or you could embrace celibacy...
I embraced celibacy. It was very awkward, I got a boner and celibacy noticed.
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I broke up with my girlfriend for good altough she forgive me my infidelity.. she deserves better than me honestly I cant change soon and we both need to move on.
Good man!
I'm sure even though she was willing to forgive you that there would be a huge distrust on her side (which would cause for many arguments, her infidelity, anxiety, etc.). This way you can move on a bit, improve yourself (hopefully onto not wanting to make this mistake again), and see where life takes you.
You never know.. it may lead you back to the girl you love as a better man.
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Re: Im confessing I cheated [Re: Cynosure]
#15724021 - 01/27/12 09:33 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I broke up with my girlfriend for good altough she forgive me my infidelity.. she deserves better than me honestly I cant change soon and we both need to move on.
Good man!
I'm sure even though she was willing to forgive you that there would be a huge distrust on her side (which would cause for many arguments, her infidelity, anxiety, etc.). This way you can move on a bit, improve yourself (hopefully onto not wanting to make this mistake again), and see where life takes you.
You never know.. it may lead you back to the girl you love as a better man.
She'll have had a multitude of other cocks inside her by this time though.
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She'll have had a multitude of other cocks inside her by this time though.
All the better. 
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yeah thats what cocks and vaginas are made for! pretty much
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