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 She treats me like shit but i love her... 
#15698193 - 01/21/12 06:19 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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I cant stand how she behaves, constantly putting me down, constantly head fucking me, but then the next day she is back to normal her and I love her, I know its not right how she is or how she treats me, but what the fuck do I do???
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 vandago
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#15698199 - 01/21/12 06:20 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Jerk off to hotter women. Hate fuck the girl. Cuddle.
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: vandago]
#15698273 - 01/21/12 06:41 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Punch her in the face while your dshsb.
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: Othyem]
#15698328 - 01/21/12 06:55 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Do you LUST her or LOVE her??
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: vandago] 2
#15698889 - 01/21/12 09:02 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
vandago said:
Jerk off to hotter women. Hate fuck the girl. Cuddle.
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Kissmegxxdnite
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Tbh I would lose her. You need someone who treats you well all of the time not just some of the time. I don't know how old you are or how long the relationship has been. I have been in a few relationships where I really truly thought I loved the other person. Then I found true love and it feels a shit ton different. I would recommend bringing up your feelings directly to her and see what she says if you are truly in love it might be worth working on it. Relationships are give and take if she's not willing to make it more enjoyable ditch her.
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#15699749 - 01/22/12 12:22 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Call her by her sisters name the next time you're ass deep in it.
ps hold on tight. it will be a wild ride.
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: greys]
#15706001 - 01/23/12 09:26 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Same boat, although its been over 6 and a half years with my girl.
Tried explaining my feelings, she'll say she understands, next day she's upset and won't tell me why.
Seriously makes me wanna get shot by a stray bullet a lot of times.
Like today, she's angry because I'm sick, and was txting her saying I felt like going home, she wanted me to wait until Wednesday to call in when she's off work. ????
When I had kidney stones on her weekend off, she would get so mad, while I'm in terrible pain, she feels so slighted due to me not being around for her weekend off.
The only affection in the relationship is started by me, no way would she ever come out of her way to give me a kiss or do something sweet, and often she acts like I'm a nuisance when I come to her and try to be sweet.
Yet, I still love her.
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: shLong]
#15706094 - 01/23/12 10:37 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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and why would you want to keep bitches like that???
I would send them on a plane on a one way ticket
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shLong
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: AIRDOG]
#15706141 - 01/23/12 11:02 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Perhaps I like the abuse, too afraid to leave, some sort of mental issue I may have. Fuck, I don't know....self esteem is at an all time low right now, that may be perpetuating the cycle.
I do know that I am (or at least feel, am shown) very low on her list of priorities, it seems. She's very important to me, just wish it was mutual. There are good points in our relationship, but they seem to always be overshadowed by things like her jealousy of various things...my work schedule being one major one.
She acts like because I'm sick and may need to go home today that instead of me 'waiting' until Wednesday, that shows that id rather "cut" on a day with her at work then come home and be with her.
Its fucking confusing.
Putting me in a dark place though, I really don't like the direction all this is heading.
I keep holding out hope that she'll finally come around and notice all this....
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: shLong]
#15706338 - 01/23/12 12:22 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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you could tell her how are you feeling, tell her you feel shitty?
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shLong
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: AIRDOG]
#15706382 - 01/23/12 12:32 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Thanks
I actually have been brutally honest about what's going thru my head in terms of her. She's getting pretty defensive and now is saying she's taking off for awhile (her moms maybe? Idk). All I want is to feel somewhat cared about from somebody. If not my lt g/f, who else?
She claims she had no idea I felt like this, I've told her this in the past and as soon as I stop talking about it, she figures its fine now and reverts back to her old ways.
I'm not suicidal, but I find myself not really caring about the shit in my life due to all this.
Too many eggs in one basket perhaps? I know its not healthy.
My family is kinda a strange dynamic and I can't tell my friends any of this. Sorry to smear my shit here.
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: shLong]
#15706488 - 01/23/12 01:01 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
shLong said:
Thanks
I actually have been brutally honest about what's going thru my head in terms of her. She's getting pretty defensive and now is saying she's taking off for awhile (her moms maybe? Idk). All I want is to feel somewhat cared about from somebody. If not my lt g/f, who else?
She claims she had no idea I felt like this, I've told her this in the past and as soon as I stop talking about it, she figures its fine now and reverts back to her old ways.
I'm not suicidal, but I find myself not really caring about the shit in my life due to all this.
Too many eggs in one basket perhaps? I know its not healthy.
My family is kinda a strange dynamic and I can't tell my friends any of this. Sorry to smear my shit here.
shLong,
I know how you feel man. I think in all honesty it comes down to a truth. You are in and I was in an abusive relationship. It sounds fucked up since its not coming from the guys end but I think its true.
I was in a situation like yours where I lost focus of what was important because my girl was so cold hearted and mean to me. I found myself calling off work to go see her and try to work it out, skipping class, being lazy, stressing out all the time, and sometimes not being able to sleep.
Eventually she broke up with me, I lost my job, and I lost the next job after that. Though I did graduate college and I am happy again.
After I read your post I just wanted to express my feelings about your situation. I think that you must free yourself from her miserable way and you must do it NOW! The consequence of not freeing yourself could be the loss of your own life as in your career, hobbies, and satisfaction. Every time you get upset about her it probably effects every part of your life.
I am not saying that you should dump her... but here is a story a man once gave me..
He said his girlfriend was being a real bitch to him all the time. She was controling, mean, and essentially was not the girl he fell in love with. He said that one day he had enough and he started to carry out things the way he thought they should be. He did what he wanted when he wanted and he never thought twice about it. One day she got mad at him and started bitching about how ignorant he had become and she said "You have to change or I am leaving you". Calmly he replied "Ok baby, Ill help you pack your things."
They didnt break up, he continued to be free, and she was more reasonable.
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Re: She treats me like shit but i love her... [Re: Anonymous #2]
#15706569 - 01/23/12 01:28 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Thanks a lot for sharing, #2
You're correct. It affects a lot of things in my life, outside of our relationship. I find myself irratable and sad(?) at work, not doing things that'll piss her off, ugh, what a mess this has become.
I really do care an awful lot about her, and I do know she does care for me...7 years together, hard to deny that. Its just that she has her stressors and I'm the doormat she wipes her feet on, it seems.
Its so taxing on my mentality and my overall health.
I don't want to leave her, I just want her to show me the respect I deserve and show her. I try to speak and articulate how I feel, which is tough to do while trying to retain my 'manhood'. Always seems to fall on deaf ears. It'll work for that day, possibly the next. Then it reverts back and then its me hounding her when I bring it back up.
I need to find better hobbies and spend some time with some stress free activities and give her the space she must want.
She's great when she's great, but damn....I can't keep doing this my entire life.
Its so easy to just say "dump her man, move on". That's the last thing I want...but I do see that as a worst case scenerio.
I mean, how many chicks in their late 20s don't have kids and are up for some occasional drug use....like she is.
I'm gonna sit her down, again, and give it another shot...if this doesn't do it, it never will happen.
Sorry to derail your thread anon#1
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