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 Thanks for all the help! 
#15696050 - 01/21/12 04:27 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Thank you.
Edited by Anonymous (02/03/12 06:42 PM)
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15696088 - 01/21/12 04:54 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Interesting story, sounds like a tough spot. I think If This happened to me and I really cared about J I would probably have kept my mouth shut. But then again you might be right about it sucking more if she finds out in the future from someone else. Maybe you should have a serious talk with T and try to keep it between the both of you.
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Anonymous #2]
#15697366 - 01/21/12 02:57 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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The only way I know how to get a hold of her is through my gf... Or to just randomly show up at their workplace which seems like a really dumb idea. I don’t even know if I should see her, in a way I kind of have a crush on her and I don’t want to feed that emotion.
But I sit here, paranoid as hell that my girlfriend is going to get off her shift, walk through the door and ask "Did you sleep with T the other night!?"...
I know my problems aren't that big of a deal compared to those of others, I just dont have anyone to talk to.
Edit:
My gf just got home and mentioned her day was crazy because T called in sick, claiming that she is "still sore from partying the other night". Christ... wtf does that mean anyway... I have a sneaking suspicion that shits going to hit the fan.
Edited by Anonymous (01/21/12 03:25 PM)
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15698031 - 01/21/12 05:43 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Good luck brother!
Very interesting read. Let us know how it goes.
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15698523 - 01/21/12 07:40 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Thank you.
Edited by Anonymous (02/03/12 06:42 PM)
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 pwnasaurus
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#15698540 - 01/21/12 07:44 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Wow dude. You fucked one of your girl's good friends. That was not a smart move.
You're gonna get what's coming to you. Let this be a lesson. You've probably just ruined the relationship.
Tough shit 
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: pwnasaurus]
#15699725 - 01/22/12 12:17 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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^^^^ I agree with the above.
On the one hand, it seems like what you did was a one time thing. Telling your GF would only hurt her and she'll probably dump you unless she's VERY forgiving.
On the other hand, the kooky girl will most likely tell her anyway.
Keep us posted on what happens.
Edited by SbstratAlchemist (01/22/12 12:17 AM)
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: pwnasaurus]
#15699776 - 01/22/12 12:29 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I have a similar experience and it worked out for the better kinda. I have been with my wife for quite some time back in the day there was her best friend we will call her K. I met her through my wife my girlfriend at the time and she was fucking gorgeous and liked to party. My wife went to a different school than us so me and k would hang out in between classes and sit in the car together before classes and started hanging out quite a bit. She gave me super weird vibes one minute she would be talking about my wife and the next telling me she is a virgin very awkward. My mind telling me she's a virgin in college I have to tackle that quick!!! My heart was saying no you love this other girl be faithful. I was very torn but wanted to remain faithful. One evening we were all over at K's house and similar to your tale my girl passed out from to much partying. The other people left and it was just me and K sitting on her couch. She then goes on to tell me that she has been in love with me since she laid her eyes on me and has been saving her twat for my cock her words not mine. I can't help but become aroused she makes all the moves as my thoughts continue to rush between temptation and what's right. It was an awful battle but I was soon overcome by temptation which being under the influence of a number of things didn't contribute to coherent judgement. We woke up luckily before my wife did and assembled ourselves I couldn't look either afterwards the shitty part is I continued to fuck her for a few weeks. She acted as nothing was going on and specifically asked me not to tell. I abided by her terms for a few years. I ended up telling my wife after quite some time had passed and she said she already knew and she had something to tell me. She had cheated on me as well to get back at me. I felt betrayed on a whole new level but I soon realized I had no grounds for that. We were upset with each other for quite some time then we decided to work on the relationship wash the slate clean and start over. We did and have been happy for years I don't know if this helps any but I have been in a similar situation kinda. But as of now the two are no longer friends.
I would let it sit and see what happens definitely talk to T and see what she feels do some sleuthing and retrieve the number give her a call and talk.
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Kissmegxxdnite]
#15700099 - 01/22/12 01:53 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Thank you.
Edited by Anonymous (02/03/12 06:42 PM)
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15700309 - 01/22/12 03:20 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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That's a shitty situation. If T is a wack job, maybe...just maybe she might be so sociopathic, that she lacks true empathy and will not have the "urge" to tell you're girlfriend because she "feels bad". The fucked up in the head thing, might actually save your ass. Cross you're fingers.
Edited by Bo1tThrower (01/22/12 03:41 AM)
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Bo1tThrower]
#15700908 - 01/22/12 10:12 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Whatever you don't text her!! Texts leave a trail!! If you have to do anything call her but don't leave a voicemail.
Sorry bud but it was a bad move. These things rarely end well.
On a side note I wish I had these problems since I haven't had sex(or any female contact) in 6+ years.
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Dominar]
#15700991 - 01/22/12 10:55 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Thank you.
Edited by Anonymous (02/03/12 06:42 PM)
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15700999 - 01/22/12 10:59 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Well, if you are trying to keep it secret you'd better have a believable reason for meeting with T that you can tell J if she finds out.
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: pwnasaurus]
#15701007 - 01/22/12 11:01 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
pwnasaurus said:
Wow dude. You fucked one of your girl's good friends. That was not a smart move.
You're gonna get what's coming to you. Let this be a lesson. You've probably just ruined the relationship.
Tough shit
All of this. Can't say I feel bad for you
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Dominar] 1
#15701030 - 01/22/12 11:11 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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She called in sick? Maybe she has morning sickness now?
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: sonavapreacha]
#15701310 - 01/22/12 12:34 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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She called in sick? Maybe she has morning sickness now?
LOl. Ouch.
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: sonavapreacha]
#15701312 - 01/22/12 12:34 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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She called in sick? Maybe she has morning sickness now?
 That was great. 
Unless you don't even know what morning sickness is. 
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: fireworks_god]
#15702016 - 01/22/12 03:47 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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thank you.
Edited by Anonymous (02/03/12 06:42 PM)
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#15702021 - 01/22/12 03:48 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
What do you think is going on in T's mind right now?
That she is a piece of shit
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Re: Im such a fuck up when it comes to relationships [Re: kiss_the_sky03]
#15702250 - 01/22/12 04:37 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I am a female and the problem is that you put yourself in that situation and I am sure in a way you wanted to. My guess is that there is something lacking in your relationship to make you feel that you wanted it to happen. You are going to have to be honest with your gf, she will find out from her unstable co-worker.
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