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 Bipolarbear
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 Re: Should I be a dick or let it go?  [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14682276 - 06/27/11 10:11 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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The guy totally knew we were dating. I had to eat lunch with him one day because my ex wanted me to, this was a few weeks before I found out what they were doing, I didn't think anything of it cause the guy is fat and horribly unattractive (don't have to be gay to see that)...
well when I first started to suspect something I straight up asked him if anything was going on and he said "no of course not bro, I know you love that girl and I don't think of her as anything more than friends... i was cheated on in my last relationship and I would never do that to someone else..." <--- This is what really fucking pisses me off... See, TBH, I'm more angry at the dude than my ex. He is a lying, sneaking piece of shit... I would be happy if just he got fired.
I want to do it so bad but I am terrified of karma. What if this act supersedes his and I just end up getting even more fucked in the end?
I feel both ways about it... I feel like I should be the bigger man and let it go, but at the same time I feel like they should be brought to justice. I also agree with whoever said if I let it go then she may end up hurting herself, and definitely other guys, in the end.
I do still care about her. I don't want her to die or anything but would turning her in or letting it go show I care more?
IDK... I gotta think on it a while longer before I act.
FML
Without saying if you should or should not go through with it, if you did, how would you go about it? 
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Bipolarbear]
#14682341 - 06/27/11 10:21 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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karma is a way to help justify the horrible things that happen for no reason, another lie of dogmatism
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Solving Ennui]
#14682560 - 06/27/11 11:00 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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Id do it. fuck yes. she clearly doesnt give a fuck about him. 
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: dshow]
#14682568 - 06/27/11 11:01 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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no shit. dont listen to the karma thing in this case. HE KNEW TOO. even if he doesnt KNOW YOU. they were both going behind your backs like hehehehe. fuck YOU
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: dshow]
#14682683 - 06/27/11 11:19 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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If my girl went and fucked some fat nasty behind my back I'd probably be butthurt about it too.
Still, it means you fucked up somewhere. Go back and fix the problem.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Humility]
#14683791 - 06/28/11 02:57 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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Do it. DO IT.
Don't listen to all these assholes spouting "karma" like a bunch of superstitious sheep. There is NO such thing as karma. Bad people do bad things all the time and nothing happens to them--and if something bad does happen, it's just dumb fucking luck. Do you want to rely on luck to make your ex pay?
The only way your ex and her manager will ever get what they deserve is if you GIVE them what they deserve.
They are horrible, despicable people and they deserve your wrath. Get to it.
Not to mention, as others have stated, women like your ex have no reason to ever stop doing this to people--the world is their oyster for women who are willing to sleep around. She will never even THINK of stopping this shit until she has to suffer some consequences from it.
Edited by Anonymous (06/28/11 03:06 AM)
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: John]
#14684005 - 06/28/11 03:50 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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John said:
You also sound pretty insecure. That you had to add "(don't have to be gay to see that)..." when you said the new bf is fat and unattractive leads me to think that. Plus the fact you are still considering her feelings and even trying to still show her you care, in some pathetic hope that maybe, just maybe, things could still work out. Shows 0 confidence in finding a new chick and prolly half the reason she left you for a ugly fatass to begin with.
Well, actually I am very secure. That was never a complaint from my ex. I added the gay remark because we all know how some members, no offence  , on this forum are still young enough to misunderstand my meaning, and I just wanted to avoid any potential remarks whether joking or not because this is serious to me and I'm already really upset and numb.
I also said he was fat and unattractive because he really is, and I'm not... even my ex said I was a stallion compared to him but she likes this cute face he makes when he cracks a joke... plus I'm just so goddamned pissed and I have nothing good to say about that cunt rag... I think I have the right to talk a little shit about the guy that fucked my girlfriend and helped bring my world to ruins.
And as for my feelings toward the girl, yeah I still care about her but not in the way you are thinking... It's hard for me personally to hate someone I spent the past 2 years with... I am NOT hoping for another chance with her, I wouldn't even consider it if she asked. She cheated and I could never look at her the same way again. I am not in love with her, but I care. I hope that makes sense.
Oh and I am seeing another girl right now too, although I don't see it getting serious since it's going to be hard for me to give my whole heart to anyone else for a while. It's not hard for me to get women, it's finding a good one that's the problem.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14684026 - 06/28/11 03:56 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
Not to mention, as others have stated, women like your ex have no reason to ever stop doing this to people... She will never even THINK of stopping this shit until she has to suffer some consequences from it.
I'm starting to lean towards this side of the argument. Although a lot of it would be out of spite, I do want to at least try to stop her from thinking this is ok and I don't want her hurting anyone else the way she did me... not that I give two fucks about her future BF's, but I wouldn't wish the pain she put me through on my worst enemies.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14684039 - 06/28/11 04:00 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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Please trust me when I say she will learn the consequences by fucking up bad when she is even older, and it'll be far worse than learning now. You can start getting your heart back (as you say) if you just let he make her own life into a mess. Might feel good now, but when you have to process it later it won't help and you'll have even bigger consequences with love and learning life love bumps.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: withoutawire]
#14684286 - 06/28/11 05:10 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
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Anonymous said:
Not to mention, as others have stated, women like your ex have no reason to ever stop doing this to people... She will never even THINK of stopping this shit until she has to suffer some consequences from it.
I'm starting to lean towards this side of the argument. Although a lot of it would be out of spite, I do want to at least try to stop her from thinking this is ok and I don't want her hurting anyone else the way she did me... not that I give two fucks about her future BF's, but I wouldn't wish the pain she put me through on my worst enemies.
well i stated my opinion on what ide do in your position, but your update post just makes the situation worse.
sounds like she may of planned that shit out.
made you have lunch with her boss a few weeks before the ordeal? scandalous.
If u decide to man up.
i think you'll need hard evidence if you wanna follow up with your plan. i dont think a letter will suffice. they've already proved their selves as efficient liars.
hire a PI maybe. i dont know.
just dont make yourself to be the fool. that is my advice.
best of luck.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: withoutawire]
#14684392 - 06/28/11 05:38 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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withoutawire said:
Please trust me when I say she will learn the consequences by fucking up bad when she is even older, and it'll be far worse than learning now.
OP, this is unmitigated bullshit and I advise you not to listen to it.
Women like this thrive on kind-hearted men who have been conditioned by society to never do anything harmful to women.
This bitch is going to take advantage of men and mentally destroy them until the day she dies because men will continue to let her get away with it.
You can be one of the ones who doesn't.
Film her canoodling with her new boyfriend and hand it over to her work.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14684651 - 06/28/11 07:45 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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@OP you think that this will give you satisfaction / closure but it won't. Revenge never does.
Let it go and be the bigger man.
It will help you too. By letting it go you can emotionally cut contact.
Plotting revenge by turning them in will just have you brood in your misery
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: tymoteusz3]
#14688783 - 06/28/11 11:32 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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Make sure you get back to us in the future when your life turns out so much better for going out of your way to follow anon's who are telling you to be an asshole.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: withoutawire]
#14688872 - 06/28/11 11:49 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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they are telling you what the bitch deserves, fuck right or reason just DO IT MOTHER FUCKER
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: withoutawire]
#14689193 - 06/29/11 12:50 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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withoutawire said:
Make sure you get back to us in the future when your life turns out so much better for going out of your way to follow anon's who are telling you to be an asshole.
im not anon. and there are three types of lifestyles for us in this world.
you can be a dickhead, an asshole, or a pussy.
btw why do you keep insulting people for their honest opinions? that makes you the 3rd option.
not a wise choice.
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withoutawire said:
Make sure you get back to us in the future when your life turns out so much better for going out of your way to follow anon's who are telling you to be an asshole.
im not anon. and there are three types of lifestyles for us in this world.
you can be a dickhead, an asshole, or a pussy.
btw why do you keep insulting people for their honest opinions? that makes you the 3rd option.
not a wise choice.
Not true at all.
I used to think this too and subscribed to it. But I am a lot happier now, after a lot of deep trips and some crazy shit that has happened.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: tymoteusz3]
#14691251 - 06/29/11 01:34 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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my trips can be fairly insightful dont loose track of your judgement in the end thats all you have^
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14691253 - 06/29/11 01:34 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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